Question for the hot guys.

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    Sep 07, 2011 7:03 PM GMT

    This is something that I think would suck about being super hot, a celebrity or super wealthy.

    Superstuds: Do you ever feel like your friends and the people around you are agreeing with you because they want to stay in your good graces? Like they respond with "yeah.. yeah.. totally" and restate what you just said, when if you were ugly they would feel free to disagree with you.

    (not saying everyone does it to the most popular people, but it does happen, for example that cooking oil thread with the bodybuilder and the bread icon_rolleyes.gif )

    I think that would be the worst part of being in a position of social power, you'd be surrounded by Yes Men and have people sucking up to you. It would be hard to tell who is really your friend or not.

    Oh and let's skip the song & dance where hot guys don't want to sound conceited by posting in here and identifying as a hot guy. We can skip that to allow for a better discussion. ya? good!
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    Sep 07, 2011 7:44 PM GMT
    You realize that none of the hot guys would actually answer this thread, because they don't want to be seen as conceited, right?

    The ones that answers are gonna be people who have waaaaaay too high of an opinion of themselves like Kristoff.

    Annnnnd there, I killed the thread.
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    Sep 07, 2011 7:51 PM GMT
    waimea saidYou realize that none of the hot guys would actually answer this thread, because they don't want to be seen as conceited, right?

    The ones that answers are gonna be people who have waaaaaay too high of an opinion of themselves like Kristoff.

    Annnnnd there, I killed the thread.


    you did not kill the thread hopefully he stops posting
    as for hot guys posting, they will

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    Sep 07, 2011 8:07 PM GMT
    I have a handful of friends like that. And I hate when they agree with me on everything and I mean on everything. It's like they have no voice or opinions of their own and if they do they just wanna keep it to themselves for fear of putting our friendship at risk. I try to avoid that type of people at all cost. I don't need kissers kissing my ass or the ground I walk in and when I see the signs I tell them right away. I want to be surrounded with people who can speak their mind and have their own opinions without insulting each other. Disagreement is always good. It keeps conversations fresh and interesting.
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    Sep 07, 2011 8:10 PM GMT
    BTW, nobody is going to admit they are hot by posting on this thread to answer the question.
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    Sep 07, 2011 8:11 PM GMT
    *claps for FastlaneKid for having the balls to respond*

    *claps for anyone who read the last sentence in the first post*

    The topic's not limited to hot guys, anyone can post their ideas, but aren't we all most curious about what they have to say on this?

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    Sep 07, 2011 8:12 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle saidBTW, nobody is going to admit they are hot by posting on this thread to answer the question.


    SkinnyBitchOh and let's skip the song & dance where hot guys don't want to sound conceited by posting in here and identifying as a hot guy. We can skip that to allow for a better discussion.



    I designate you hot, now speak!
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    Sep 07, 2011 8:17 PM GMT
    Yeah, I don't think that you need to be hot to experience this.

    Hotness is ambiguous anyway, since beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and therefore someone's superstud is someone else's butterface. I have deduced through first time reactions that A) I am relatively hot and B) some people are thunderstruck by my appearance. Yet I don't experience this even with the people that think I'm hot, because I present more than that. Most of the people I surround myself with are smart enough not to be a welcome mat for someone just because they're beautiful.

    Now, friends who keep themselves around because I have tricked them into thinking that I am good looking AND smart AND talented and nice, that's a whole different story icon_biggrin.gif

    ETA: Physical beauty is the easiest thing to discover about a person. Internal beauty requires people to actually have a relationship and get to know the individual. Therefore, it is a causal relationship - people who are hot may attract people who are only interested in their hotness simply because of the nature of the beast. E.g. Teen boy idols are worshipped by emotionally immature tweens, but most of us grow out of that phase.
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    Sep 07, 2011 8:21 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said*claps for FastlaneKid for having the balls to respond*

    *claps for anyone who read the last sentence in the first post*

    The topic's not limited to hot guys, anyone can post their ideas, but aren't we all most curious about what they have to say on this?



    This topic is gonna go way off from the subject in question to "Who told you you're hot" before the first page is even full. BTW my profile has been view 23 times since I posted.
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    Sep 07, 2011 8:24 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle saidBTW, nobody is going to admit they are hot by posting on this thread to answer the question.


    Alpha come on now you know a few guys who will.
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    Sep 07, 2011 8:27 PM GMT
    (song and dance....)

    The song and dance comes about partially because I think all us gays are dysmorphic to one degree or another. In reality, I don't think very many gay men feel hot, even if they know it objectively and are told it frequently.

    That said, I know several people who hang around me or are nice to me because they think I'm hot. They didn't give me the time of day a year ago, but put on 20 lbs of muscle and it starts raining guys who want to be besties with you. I don't worry about knowing who is a true friend or anything: I know none of them are actually my friends, but I also have a very narrow definition of friendship.

    One should never mistake flattering acquaintances for friends. My real friends are the ones who give me shit and tell me when I'm being crazy.
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    Sep 07, 2011 8:32 PM GMT
    I'll answer for them, yes they do.

    And its my job to tell them what's up. icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 07, 2011 8:39 PM GMT
    In my experience people will agree with you (or not) for all sorts of reasons. They want sex, they don't wanna debate, they don't like confrontational topics or feel that disagreeing will start one.

    Like this one disgusting looking fucker said something to me and another guy the other day. I didn't agree nor disagree...but I just was like whatEVA. Because I didn't feel like debating over something trivial...such as cars and politics.

    I'ma let you have it...but when the time is right, honey I'm going to let you HAVE it.
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    Sep 07, 2011 8:41 PM GMT
    Yes- there are sycophants every where.
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    Sep 07, 2011 8:44 PM GMT
    FastlaneKid saidBTW my profile has been view 23 times since I posted.


    Oh sweet, you and I have the same amount of posts! And we're both from FL. We have so much in common already!
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    Sep 07, 2011 9:02 PM GMT
    I'm hot to some people, not hot to others, but I definitely consider myself hotter now than I used to be when I was obese. I find that overall, people tend to treat me better, more kindly, and are generally friendlier to me now than my days as a fatty.
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    Sep 07, 2011 9:05 PM GMT
    I dont find that I get people to agree with me, but my friends here in the Castro say that they can definately see the change in the service we get at restaurants as opposed to when they are not with me.

    I guess that counts. It rules.
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    Sep 07, 2011 9:05 PM GMT
    wildtype87 saidI'm hot to some people, not hot to others, but I definitely consider myself hotter now than I used to be when I was obese. I find that overall, people tend to treat me better, more kindly, and are generally friendlier to me now than my days as a fatty.

    You were obese? No way.

    How obese are we talking about?
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    Sep 07, 2011 9:06 PM GMT
    MochaMuscle said
    FastlaneKid saidBTW my profile has been view 23 times since I posted.


    Oh sweet, you and I have the same amount of posts! And we're both from FL. We have so much in common already!


    Yay! We should go out for drinks. What part of FLA are you from?
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    Sep 07, 2011 9:07 PM GMT
    Being Pretty just gives you a hall pass.
    After that, you're on your own.
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    Sep 07, 2011 9:08 PM GMT
    GigoloAssassin said Being Pretty just gives you a hall pass.
    After that, you're on your own.


    as if you know...
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    Sep 07, 2011 9:12 PM GMT
    waimea said

    You were obese? No way.

    How obese are we talking about?

    At age 18, I was about 5'3'' and pushing 200lbs
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    Sep 07, 2011 9:14 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    GigoloAssassin said Being Pretty just gives you a hall pass.
    After that, you're on your own.


    as if you know...


    Actually i do, thats why i said this quote. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 07, 2011 9:15 PM GMT
    This sounds too much like Mean Girls haha I don't really think this is true in real life, i mean people who are your friends feel free to disagree with you on everything even if you are right and they are messing with you.
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    Sep 07, 2011 9:18 PM GMT
    Yes, men will say anything if it gives them a chance to have sex with you when they are attracted. It goes both ways.