Do girls check you out?

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    Sep 08, 2011 3:28 PM GMT
    So, do they? And what do you do about it? Do you smile back? Or look away? Strangers put me on edge, so my reflex is to turn my head, pretending that person doesn't exist. It's not the friendliest thing to do, I know. :/

    Edit: or older women? Lol.
  • Lincsbear

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    Sep 08, 2011 3:51 PM GMT
    Yes,unfortunately,and embarrassing at times.
    I try to keep it polite but non-commital
  • Hothouse

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    Sep 08, 2011 3:53 PM GMT
    Sometimes they try to help me cross the street - and I thought only Boy Scouts did that.
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    Sep 08, 2011 3:54 PM GMT
    I get checked out more often by women than by gay men. I take it as a compliment, smile, and move on.
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    Sep 08, 2011 3:58 PM GMT
    I can't tell because I never check out women.
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    Sep 08, 2011 4:14 PM GMT
    JakeBenson saidI can't tell because I never check out women.


    But don't you ever get that sense that someone is watching you? When you get eye fucked, that sense is multiplied icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 08, 2011 4:34 PM GMT
    wildtype87 said
    JakeBenson saidI can't tell because I never check out women.


    But don't you ever get that sense that someone is watching you? When you get eye fucked, that sense is multiplied icon_lol.gif


    Yeah they're pretty bold actually, looking right into the eyes. I find it unnerving : )
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    Sep 08, 2011 4:39 PM GMT
    Yup. I smile at them and flirt then move on.
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    Sep 08, 2011 4:41 PM GMT
    I do and its quite flattering really. I enjoy casually flirting with them and love dancing with girls. I don't normally seem to attract the attention of guys as often probably because i don't seem "gay"
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    Sep 08, 2011 4:41 PM GMT
    Yes. They are usually lesbians.
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    Sep 08, 2011 4:43 PM GMT
    Yes gals check me out and I get flattered, I've even approached a few them and asked them on a date.
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    Sep 08, 2011 4:43 PM GMT
    Some do. Some do.
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    Sep 08, 2011 4:49 PM GMT
    all the time, nb
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    Sep 08, 2011 4:53 PM GMT
    more women approach me than men. Most will say something like whats the cologne you have on? where did you get that shirt? something minor
  • fitdude62

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    Sep 08, 2011 4:53 PM GMT
    The funniest time was when I was teaching a Hip-Hop fitness class at DU. I had one of the largest classes going. My boss came up to me and she said the only reason the class was so large is all of the girls came to watch my ass.......

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    Sep 08, 2011 4:56 PM GMT
    I get hit on the most by straight women & black men. Usually after I tell the straight women im gay they tell me that figures & if I were straight theyd be all over me, I just laugh.

    When the black men hit on me I say a prayer thanking God for being so good to me! Lmao!
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    Sep 08, 2011 4:58 PM GMT
    yep. I smile back if I see them but they also like to check out my butt and then I don't always notice icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 08, 2011 5:01 PM GMT
    Yeah, I don't mind. My only pet peeve (and it's a big one) is when they approach, I tell them I'm taken pointing out my husband, and they respond with "oh, what a waste." icon_rolleyes.gif
  • misternick

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    Sep 08, 2011 5:06 PM GMT
    The first time I met my brother's (now ex) girlfriend was at a public place and he wasn't around. I recognized her from pictures and as I approached she gave me the flirty smile. When I said her name, her face turned to "Oh God, I just eye-banged my boyfriend's brother!"

    We were instant friends after that.
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    Sep 08, 2011 5:13 PM GMT
    Sometimes. But I only have realized it when someone has told me. I am really bad at telling who is checking me out. At this gay bar in Biloxi a few months ago some guy kept staring at me and my drunk self kept thinking "wtf, this guy keeps giving me the death stare!!" I legit thought he wanted to fight. So when my equally drunk lesbian friend went up and asked why he kept staring at me, his friend goes "we're in a gay bar honey. He thinks he is cute". Haha oops!
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    Sep 08, 2011 5:14 PM GMT
    Yes, and it scares me. I really don't know what to do when it happens. Totally out of my comfort zone. icon_eek.gif
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    Sep 08, 2011 5:32 PM GMT
    Yes, especially when I'm dressed for work. Attractive, bright single women are aware of guys in the office who are not married, and they often hope there's a chance they can make us interested in them. I'm tall, older, kind of preppy, cleaned up, dressed very well, good grooming, intelligent - - just what single women are looking for in a husband or boyfriend. I'm used to their friendliness and smiles, and I'm okay with it. Now if they could see me away from work hours, like coming out of the gym - all sweaty, unshaven, probably smelling foul, needing a shower - they'd steer clear of me.

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  • sbwlguy

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    Sep 08, 2011 5:33 PM GMT
    Well I'm not sure actually how much they check me out, but I can say with a fair degree of certainty that I think women find me more attractive than gayers. That's the feeling I get anyway. Weird, that.
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    Sep 08, 2011 5:36 PM GMT
    there is this one girl at work who has said to me casually..

    "i think asian guys are hot! I saw this asian guy the other day that had a tattoo on his leg.. OMG hot. I dont know what it is..."

    Then leaving work I was saying my goodbyes.. and the same girl is like "you're not gonna give me a hug?"
    -I've never given ANY girl at work a hug before...mmmmm something is fishy... i'm gonna tell her I LIKE GUYS if I see her today at work!!! LOL
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Sep 08, 2011 5:47 PM GMT
    Yes, and it gets kind of embarrassing at times and a bit awkward. Damn, if only I had the same effect on me icon_eek.gif