Leave no stone unturned....

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    Sep 08, 2011 4:48 PM GMT
    To make a long story short...

    I got out of a horrific long & grueling relationship/breakup in january. Devasted & determined to never let anyone near me again I met a man that was totally opposite my type.

    Not a jock, not inshape, no games, etc. I was determined to not go out with him. Even told him I was poz so he'd be scared & run away like everyone else.

    He didnt care I was poz, he was relentless about going out with me. Knocking down every wall I threw up at him. 3 months later I am crazy about this guy! He treats me so dam good. Is so open & honest. Anything I bring up as a problem he fixes immediately, and the man fucking rocks my world in the bed!

    Now that ive recommitted to the gym he says he wants to join also so we can workout together. I dont know if I will be with him forever or not but this guy has totally renewed my belief in love, lust, passion & relationships....and its someone I wouldnt have batted an eye at before.

    Look beyond the physical requirements we judge people by guys because there might be a stone you turn over & find a diamond there....
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    Sep 08, 2011 8:26 PM GMT
    If only all gay guys could be as open-minded and willing to take a risk as you were... Totally not the norm, unfortunately.
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    Sep 08, 2011 8:38 PM GMT
    I'm really happy for you! icon_biggrin.gif I'm glad you're putting those anxieties aside and letting someone get close to you again.

    Sometimes our heart fall for someone we wouldn't expect it too, and when you really listen to your heart, great things can happen.
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    Sep 08, 2011 8:40 PM GMT
    awww man thats really good ... hope all guys r like ya ..
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    Sep 08, 2011 8:59 PM GMT
    Congrats!
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    Sep 08, 2011 9:09 PM GMT
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    Sep 08, 2011 9:35 PM GMT
    good for you and great for him. it's difficult to get past the visual/physical attraction part of relationships, especially if you don't know someone. but isn't it a wonderful feeling once you do get past that? I, myself, am still learning it.
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    Sep 08, 2011 10:09 PM GMT
    I agree.

    Too many people are so superficial and dismiss some real gems of guys for silly reasons. That's okay, they left them for you and me!

    Enjoy your gem. I found mine.
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    Sep 08, 2011 10:15 PM GMT
    You guys look really cute together!! I agree with you, @OP, when I was younger (like 15) I was like "the one" has to meet these requirements: blah blah blah but now I'm not as picky cuz at first I might not be into someone cuz they're not my type physically but then their personality wins me over. Cliche but true.
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    Sep 08, 2011 10:31 PM GMT
    Awesome! Congrats Redbull! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 08, 2011 10:32 PM GMT
    Well done, so good to hear a story like this
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    Sep 09, 2011 12:45 AM GMT
    mayBbignow2 saidHmm...... no wonder this thread has 4 replies.....



    But is he privy to your "experiment"?



    An experiment? No.

    Self discovery of a most marvelous kind. icon_wink.gif


    *winks at redbull*

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    Sep 09, 2011 12:57 AM GMT
    Aww. I'm really happy for you! icon_smile.gif I remember a few months ago you were really upset over your ex and it seemed that (at the time) it was going to be a long road to happiness. I was (secretly) wishing that you were going to find your joy in life, and I'm totally happy that it came true! icon_biggrin.gif

    Congrats and you guys look so happy together. icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 09, 2011 1:07 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidThat's awesome.



    Take a look at their pic at the end of his profile pics. They light up a room.

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    Sep 09, 2011 1:13 AM GMT
    Your post made me so happy... and then that pic with the two of you together smiling made me smile ear to ear. Hang on to that. icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 09, 2011 1:17 AM GMT
    Trollileo said
    danisnotstr8 saidYour post made me so happy... and then that pic with the two of you together smiling made me smile ear to ear. Hang on to that. icon_razz.gif
    Wouldn't that hurt?


    Drink your juice Eat your noodles, Shelby.
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    Sep 09, 2011 5:09 AM GMT
    That's great. Congrats!
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    Oct 26, 2011 7:51 AM GMT
    Even though at first I didnt "think" he was my type when I see him now he drives me wild! To me he is the sexiest man alive...i crave him all the time. To feel his big strong arms around me puts me in another world! I truly have fallen madly in love/lust with this man....I cant imagine me or him being without each other....
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    Oct 26, 2011 11:27 AM GMT
    Wow this totally swooned me.
    Now I want it too.

    But I get you because it's their 'inner person' that makes you LOVE their 'outer person'.
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    Oct 26, 2011 11:34 AM GMT
    I'm very happy for you Red.
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    Oct 26, 2011 11:56 AM GMT
    Well congrats and I hope it lasts.
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    Oct 26, 2011 5:18 PM GMT
    I'm so glad he's making you happy. You deserve it icon_biggrin.gif