Cuddled with a guy last night... A straight guy.

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    Sep 08, 2011 5:40 PM GMT
    So today is my birthday. I turn 19 today, but last night at 12am me and this australian kid joking around decided to cuddle together. It was weird how comfortable he felt doing it. But any way we stayed up all night getting to know each other and we eventually fell asleep together. his arm was still around me and at one point he even put his leg on mine...


    I think i might have a crush on him but his straight icon_sad.gif ha FML. what do i do?
  • sonnet129

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    Sep 08, 2011 5:59 PM GMT
    Count yourself lucky and enjoy the ride.

    http://youtu.be/XypVcv77WBU
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    Sep 08, 2011 6:57 PM GMT


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    Sep 08, 2011 8:27 PM GMT
    StudlyScrewRite said

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    Fay use to come into a salon I worked here in L.A. I was an assistant at the time to the guy that did her hair. All I have to say is that they didn't cast far off from her personality here as she portrayed as Joan. She be a bit crazy.
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    Sep 08, 2011 8:54 PM GMT
    Kalifornication said
    Fay use to come into a salon I worked here in L.A. I was an assistant at the time to the guy that did her hair. All I have to say is that they didn't cast far off from her personality here as she portrayed as Joan. She be a bit crazy.


    Haha. I had a run in with Faye in the USC film school years ago. I was in the elevator when she stepped in looking panicked. I thought 'Holy fuck, it's Joan fucking Crawford. Stay calm.'

    She said to me: "Oh. My. God! I am so lost! Do you KNOW where the Dean's office is???"

    I said, sweating bullets: "I think it's on the floor you just came from."

    She rolled her eyes and sighed. Then she said: 'Who DESIGNED this place? And by the way, I LOVE your BLING!" She pointed at my Tupac necklace (this was back in my thug wannabe days).

    I said "Thank you" and stepped out of the elevator.

    Then I died. icon_cool.gif
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    Sep 08, 2011 8:55 PM GMT
    tell him its not gay of balls dont touch and then roll over on your stomach and invite him in.
  • starboard5

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    Sep 08, 2011 9:01 PM GMT
    Trollileo said
    Dallasfan824 saidtell him its not gay of balls dont touch and then roll over on your stomach and invite him in.
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    Das sum funny shit, yo.
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    Sep 08, 2011 9:04 PM GMT
    Lucky u .... well if he agreed to cuddle with u .. then u got a chance that he is gay lol or bi
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    Sep 08, 2011 9:25 PM GMT
    First of all, HAPPY BIRTHDAY! We got the same birthday, lol! icon_biggrin.gif
    Second, take it as was, and let go. Speaking from experience, straight guys arent worth getting your heart broken.
    Theyre good fuck buddies though.
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    Sep 08, 2011 10:29 PM GMT
    News flash... He's not straight behind closed doors
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    Sep 09, 2011 3:34 AM GMT
    Joey+and+Ross+nap.gif

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    Sep 09, 2011 3:36 AM GMT
    He's not STRAIGHT. icon_confused.gif
  • Koaa2

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    Sep 09, 2011 3:37 AM GMT
    Have a condom handy the nest time you decide to spoon with him. Enjoy.
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    Sep 09, 2011 3:39 AM GMT
    This sounds like, "Oh, I never really do stuff like this....."
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    Sep 09, 2011 3:45 AM GMT
    I had something similar happen to me once, me and one of my close friends were cuddled up close with his arm around me and my head on his shoulder while watching TV and he was actually playing in my hair...which is the quickest way to put me to sleep (I was knocked out in like 5 minutes) hahaha there's no romantic feelings between us, we're just really really close. Some guys are just secure with their sexuality and think nothing of it.
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    Sep 09, 2011 3:53 AM GMT
    I think he is not straight icon_neutral.gif
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    Sep 09, 2011 4:13 AM GMT
    xrichx saidJoey+and+Ross+nap.gif

    That's funny... Before I scrolled all the way down I was thinking of that episode of Friends!
  • squash4dave

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    Sep 09, 2011 4:36 AM GMT
    He's only 19, I'm assuming. Or around that age. I never touched another man until I was 21. I kept telling myself I was straight. Now look where I am, posting on RJ. I think that this kid is finding his way out of the closet.
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    Sep 09, 2011 4:37 AM GMT
    Whatever happens...Best of Luck!
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    Sep 09, 2011 4:37 AM GMT
    StudlyScrewRite said

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    full of win.
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    Sep 09, 2011 4:43 AM GMT
    A GOOD friendship doesn't always include sex.
    Id let him initiate any further intimate contact. Don't loose a good friend. G/L
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    dancedancekj said...
    and for some it might be the only physical contact they have with another human being.
    Anythings possible until you know him better
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    Sep 09, 2011 4:46 AM GMT
    It's not that he's straight--it's that he's uncomfortable with himself. If you go further with things, you're going to feel uncomfortable too--it's all about his unique brand of karma. ;-)
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    Sep 09, 2011 4:49 AM GMT
    I love cuddling with str8 guys even if i don't love them at all :p My str8 buddies always hold me tight when i sleep next to them, of course in an unconscious state.

    But if any str8 guys doing that in a conscious state, there's something "curious" or "in the closet" involved.
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    Sep 09, 2011 5:02 AM GMT
    Trust me, only the straight dudes who are fully secure of their sexuality would be comfortable enough to cuddle up with another guy (whether gay or straight)

    Source - life in an all-male boarding house for 4 years
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    Sep 09, 2011 5:04 AM GMT
    Yeah.

    Soooooooooo straight.

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