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    May 12, 2008 12:06 AM GMT
    How important is that your better half have a muscular body type?

    what I meant to say is, i have seen plenty men that the first thing that cares to make an approach to others are muscles. i know that looking good is a great thing but, what happens when you cross with a guy that is not a big muscles guy?

    this comes because its so frustrating to be a skinny guy, besides of that i think (and other people do) I am good looking...


    well, I dont know... just want to see what do you think.
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    May 12, 2008 12:12 AM GMT
    big muscles are not what are important to me. Not being fat is. A thin guy is good enough for me.
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    May 12, 2008 12:17 AM GMT
    Some guys would prefer to be the hot one.

    Some men would prefer to have the hot one.

    Others realize that attraction can be categorized, planned, fetishized, particularlized, and more...only to have it whack you upside the head in a way you least expect.
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    May 12, 2008 12:50 AM GMT
    if the fella is hot, hes hot, muscle wont do it.

    The only thing muscle will do for me is to leave me secure in the knowledge that he'll be able to effectively take out the garbage without hurting him self and wrestle with me icon_smile.gif
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    May 12, 2008 12:54 AM GMT
    lilTanker said

    The only thing muscle will do for me is to leave me secure in the knowledge that he'll be able to effectively take out the garbage without hurting him self and wrestle with me icon_smile.gif



    thanks lilTanker, that one really cheers me up!
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    May 12, 2008 2:25 AM GMT
    The thing that usually triggers it for me is the face/eyes and the way a person acts nice, sweet, confident etc.. Sometimes I am indifferent to a guy and then when I get to know him, he actually BECOMES more attractive to me.
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    May 12, 2008 2:41 AM GMT
    When it comes to just sexual attraction, without the distractions of, well, you know---character, humor, personality, etc.--then frankly I love the skinny, defined guy way more than the muscle freak.

    But it's all a matter of taste, and speaking of which, you look pretty tasty yourself.
  • DiverScience

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    May 12, 2008 3:27 AM GMT
    Face is most important. After that, I like fitness, and for my partner not to look like a disaster victim or like they'd snap as soon as I fucked them. Do they have to be hugely muscled? Heck no. Can it be a plus? Sure. Can it be a turnoff? Sure.
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    May 12, 2008 3:33 AM GMT
    It's not really a muscle, but I'm more concerned with the size of the... brain.

    As for looks (and I am a "lookist"), I much prefer a well toned body than big, unnatural looking (to me), muscles.

    Face and eyes, though are the first things I check out.
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    May 12, 2008 4:07 AM GMT
    On a scale of 1 to 10, I would say about 76. icon_lol.gif (Just kidding)

    Seriously though, you have to be able to stop traffic. I can't stop it all by myself.


    [Actually thoughts: Appearance doesn't really play a major factor. If there's chemistry we are good to go]
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    May 12, 2008 4:21 AM GMT
    I tend to notice the guy's face first anyway, its the first thing you normally see anyway, unless your watching porn eh?
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    May 12, 2008 4:24 AM GMT
    I could begin dating a guy that looks like Antonio Sabàto, Jr. in his prime and @ some point, I'm gonna get bored looking at him....therefore, I've never chosen my partners soley on "looks" or "body-type"...if there is no emotional connection, I'd rather masterbate or even better, eat a brownie with some ice cream.icon_wink.gif
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    May 12, 2008 4:39 AM GMT
    Some guys are smarter, prettier or buffer than everyone around them and are still such insufferable assholes I'd rather screw Karl Rove without a blindfold in broad daylight than spend five minutes in the same room as them. I've always ended up with guys that have a great sense of humor and warm and caring personality over the aberzombies and body nazis.
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    May 12, 2008 4:51 AM GMT
    If someone has really low body fat, I'll definitely look twice, doesn't matter how big they are. I've a whole lot of other criteria that need to be met as well though.
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    May 12, 2008 4:53 AM GMT
    RBY71 saidSome guys are smarter, prettier or buffer than everyone around them and are still such insufferable assholes I'd rather screw Karl Rove without a blindfold in broad daylight than spend five minutes in the same room as them. I've always ended up with guys that have a great sense of humor and warm and caring personality over the aberzombies and body nazis.


    Haha true that. And not all guys who wear Abercrombie are asshole icon_razz.gif I just don't care to dress up too much. I know blue jeans and a t-shit go together lol. I'll admit the brand has douche bag appeal thou.

    I think the face and eyes do it for me to. I don'r mind a stocky guy either with some meat on his bones but within reason.

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    May 12, 2008 5:17 AM GMT
    totally with yuo on that phx. Im only interested in:

    1) is that person happy and confident in who they are if not
    2) Is that person commited enough that if they are not happy they are making a change

    there are plenty of excuses why people are not where they want to be with their bodies but seldom are there real reasons why they are not there
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    May 12, 2008 5:30 AM GMT
    Well as long as he is not Fat its ok with me and at the moment my other half is useing the University Gym and the last time I saw him in the flesh, December he looked real toned and still slim! oh to be 21 again? Not really I am happy and I do sport every day in small doses!
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    May 12, 2008 6:39 AM GMT
    "hot" is strictly in the eyes of the one judging.
    To many of us muscles are NOT what we look for.
    Often personality traits trump the physical ones. Please know that muscles are NOT what turns on everyone.
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    May 12, 2008 6:49 AM GMT
    Powerbart, you're into SOCCER. This means you have a great ass, awesome endurance, and you like to have fun. Forget guys looking for muscle guys. You want to look for the ones who appreciate your lean strong build and your soccer butt.

    (Was that my outside voice?)
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    May 12, 2008 10:25 AM GMT
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    May 12, 2008 10:37 AM GMT
    Muscular is not very important, but being fit and active is. Generally the face attracts me first, and the bum second. icon_wink.gif
  • GQjock

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    May 12, 2008 10:54 AM GMT
    Muscles aren't the important thing....
    in fact I don't go for the brawny muscle guys at all
    healthy athletic guys are what I like and it's more of a lifestyle than anything else
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    May 12, 2008 11:38 AM GMT
    Umm... 5 icon_redface.gif

    At least I'm attracted to bigger/taller guys more. It doesn't even have to be muscle. LOL

    I tend to fantasize about regular to slightly stocky body types LOL and not really muscular ones.
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    May 12, 2008 11:48 AM GMT
    Muscle attracts (though not exclusively.)
    but
    Heart, mind, and personality is what holds.
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    May 12, 2008 11:58 AM GMT
    You will be lonely and miserable your whole life because nobody will ever be attracted to a skinny guy like you.

    Come on, get real. You don't want a shallow guy who is only into your appearance. If you're really concerned about this you need to work more on your self confidence than on your muscles.