Dreams about ex

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    Sep 09, 2011 2:09 PM GMT
    This is getting ridiculous. I woke up last night three times in a row because of uncomfortable dreams that I have of my ex. Three times. This isn't even my first love or whatever. That's just extreme. Usually I get bothered and try not to think about it, but this is just bothersome. I wake up and my heart is pounding and my chest feels tight. It's a bad rush of adrenaline....THREE TIMES! What the heck!

    How do you combat that?
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    Sep 09, 2011 3:43 PM GMT
    Do you have closure with the your ex? Any lingering feelings or resentment? Idk, maybe that's it...
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    Sep 09, 2011 3:52 PM GMT
    what were the dreams about? how long have you guys been separated? are you guys still in contact?
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    Sep 09, 2011 4:08 PM GMT
    go call him ? check him out .. maybe u will fell good
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    Sep 09, 2011 5:41 PM GMT
    ^ I would say the same.. you prolly best go and check up on him now...
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    Sep 09, 2011 7:09 PM GMT
    jprichva saidIt means you're lonely.

    Nice new pic, by the way!


    I'm loving th Devine pic!
  • wild_sky360

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    Sep 09, 2011 7:50 PM GMT
    Queer; I'm very troubled by the same thoughts and dreams lately, but more of a longing. I'm guessing yours are a different experience.

    It ended for good reasons, but I'm reflecting, and sadly realizing, those were the happiest years of my life. At 48, It's an incredible leap of faith to think I'll ever feel that way again. I recall being consciously grateful for every moment of it. I suppose that is a blessing in itself.
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    Sep 10, 2011 12:57 AM GMT
    hairymusclejock saidwhat were the dreams about? how long have you guys been separated? are you guys still in contact?



    He dropped me as if I were never part of his life, honestly.

    I have the closure I need, but it still just smacked me in the face. *shrug*
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    Sep 10, 2011 12:58 AM GMT
    jprichva saidIt means you're lonely.

    Nice new pic, by the way!
    Thank you very much, jp! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 10, 2011 1:11 AM GMT
    Sounds like you just need to get laid since your ex was probably your last sEXual encounter.

    You need someone else to help give you new material for a dream.
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    Sep 10, 2011 1:15 AM GMT
    That just means he wants you backicon_smile.gif
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    Sep 10, 2011 1:18 AM GMT
    Guy101 saidSounds like you just need to get laid since your ex was probably your last sEXual encounter.

    You need someone else to help give you new material for a dream.


    That oddly crossed my mind. icon_lol.gif