All too many men (including me) made the mistake of thinking "GOTTA LOSE IT" and doing just that at the first opportunity. If I could do things over again I'd save it for the sixth dude I had sex with. Guy #1 ended up being a JO session lasting for less than ten minutes (he zipped up without cumming, too.
) Guy #2 was well hung, but stupid, and my skillz even then were better than his. Guy #3 was good times - and was closeted. Guy #4 decided I was the love of his life because I did a good job getting him off, nuff said on that one. Guy #5 to' ma azz UP but was locked into role-playing. Guy #6 rocked my world.
The recurring theme in this thread is, WAIT. There's a reason for that. My experience is the same as it's been for lots and lots of others. Sex stays good, and usually gets better, after the first time. But you'll always
remember how you started that aspect of your life. Might as well make it a memory you'll cherish.