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    Sep 10, 2011 8:31 PM GMT
    Is it just me or does it seem like a lot of the guys on this site are just searching for their next lay...I just want to know if anyother people are experiencing the same thing? I just want to find someone to become a close friend and maybe make something out of it not just for my next sexual encounter haha
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    Sep 10, 2011 8:36 PM GMT
    DJG_2012 said I just want to find someone to become a close friend and maybe make something out of it not just for my next sexual encounter haha


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    Sep 10, 2011 8:42 PM GMT
    LOL I found this funny....

    Does our post really sound like we want to sleep with the next guy we meet.....All I've been hearing is that how hard it is find a guy, BECAUSE we are having difficulty of guys who can commit and have a good lay with....


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    Sep 10, 2011 8:42 PM GMT
    Ariodante is right... this site is NOT a big hookup site on the message boards....

    There are difficulties of personality there, but real life does, too. I have learned about gay political issues, relationships, sexual issues, financial advice and lots and lots of health and fitness advice. I have given a lot of strength training/nutritional advice.

    Ariodante is right. Of course, he is a horny bastard who is constantly begging, b e g g i n g me to have sex with him. But we are just friends. Just friends!!
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    Sep 10, 2011 8:47 PM GMT
    I understand tha this is the best out of the many other sites out there...I dunno it is just a feeling I get from some people but I am working on getting out there more and posting more hahaicon_smile.gif
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    Sep 10, 2011 11:33 PM GMT
    DJG_2012 saidI understand tha this is the best out of the many other sites out there...I dunno it is just a feeling I get from some people but I am working on getting out there more and posting more hahaicon_smile.gif



    You are young and hot and guys are going to perv on you all of the time...

    get used to it... the real world is no different. Ask Ariodante about getting unwanted sexual advances... shit.... ask me about it! I am a gross old man and I get unwanted sexual attention.

    Consider this a safe place to learn how to deal with it so that when it happens in real life you have the tools and techniques necessary to deal with it.

    It is like a "hot guy" workshop!!
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    Sep 11, 2011 12:27 AM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle said
    Ariodante is right. Of course, he is a horny bastard who is constantly begging, b e g g i n g me to have sex with him. But we are just friends. Just friends!!


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    Sep 11, 2011 2:28 PM GMT
    DJG_2012 saidI just want to find someone to become a close friend and maybe make something out of it

    Same here!

    But do ignore my hot list. I hardly ever actually go back to it after clicking the button on a guy's profile. I guess it's more like the Facebook 'Like' button to me.

    Haven't had too much luck making many friends, though (lack of profile pic perhaps?). That said, I guess this has convinced me to start posting in the forums, too.

    First post ever :X

    I hope everyone's nice!
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    Sep 11, 2011 2:44 PM GMT
    I just read and post too the threads ive haven't really thought of this as a place too meet anyone for anything
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    Sep 11, 2011 2:51 PM GMT
    DJG_2012 saidIs it just me or does it seem like a lot of the guys on this site are just searching for their next lay...I just want to know if anyother people are experiencing the same thing? I just want to find someone to become a close friend and maybe make something out of it not just for my next sexual encounter haha



    Strange, I have been here almost 5 years and have never felt that way about this site. Sure, there are guys who can, and surely have used it for a hookup site, but the site isn't geared that way at all. You probably haven't been here long enough or participated in the site enough to make that kind of determination.
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    Sep 11, 2011 4:55 PM GMT
    In the fairly short time I've been here, there are the faceless profiles that'll just be looking for hookups in their area, but the way IMHO to really engage and get into RealJock is to participate and actively post on the forums.

    Unlike other sites, this seems to raise your profile to other users, and you'll likely find other guys will PM you about your posts or otherwise reach out on common interests. I haven't posted much but even those few posts have resulted in some interesting messaging back-and-forth. This site is very cool that way.
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    Sep 11, 2011 4:58 PM GMT
    Ariodante said
    Alpha_Muscle said
    Ariodante is right. Of course, he is a horny bastard who is constantly begging, b e g g i n g me to have sex with him. But we are just friends. Just friends!!


    I gets no lovin' from the big furry man icon_sad.gif


    In my head, you totally do. At some point, there's even bacon-scented lube making an appearance icon_eek.gif

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