May 12, 2008 9:38 PM GMT
Im naturally fair skinned, and I hate it! In order to tan, I must go to the tanning bed a lot, and I also sometimes use a "can" (spray) tan. If I stop tanning I quickly return to my natural fair skin state. Whenever I stop tanning guys always say "I wish you were tanner" or say, "you need to go to to the tanning bed!" as if they are some sort dermatanologist. Ive become really sensitive about my fair skin and always burning/tanning gets annoying, it seems all gay men ONLY like tan guys. Is this true? And what really is better being tan or fair skinned (pale)?