The verification system here is flawed. There have been, currently are, and always will be "Verified" profiles that are actually fakers. If you truly want to get to know someone but question their profile, then a face to face webcam session is the only way. Skype, MSN, Yahoo, and even the RJ IM/chatroom all have webcam capabilities.
You know, I realized recently that anyone with a profile picture that says "Realjock 1,2,3" can be copied because the pic can be stolen and made into a duplicate verified account here. Wouldn't be much use anywhere else though.
And anyone with photoshop skills could fake a profile.