Sep 12, 2011 5:10 AM GMT
Its weird because I look at him and while he's an attractive guy, he's no means a 10. His ears stick out alittle far and he had bad acne once and he continues to work out but doesn't have the body he had when he was 24. And it sucks because for some reason it all just works for me and that combined with his personality makes him a 10 in my book, which is the one that counts for me.[quote][cite]QUOTE GOES HERE
beneful1 saidYou say he is aware of your feelings towards him and he has politely fended off your advances
It's all wishful thinking or fantasy. Face up to it that he is not interested in you as a bf or lover and move on. You are basically torturing yourself and unknowingly (but you should know) putting him in an uncomfortable situation each and every time.
Defenseon saidI'm not being a tool when I say this.... I mean this out of a lot of respect.
However, a lot of people on this site seem to be really insecure about their feelings.
It seems to me that a lot of people are worried about what could be instead of what's best right now and how to make it through their qualms.
melloyello saidNothing like being unable to meet someone who you a) are attracted to and b) (more importantly) like spending time with and desire to integrate into your life and they don't feel the same way about you. And there's nothing you can do to change it.