Top or bottom?

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    Sep 12, 2011 1:04 PM GMT
    Is being a top or bottom the number one thing straight people think about when they see you or some other thing?
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    Sep 12, 2011 3:14 PM GMT
    I would hope not, but then again not being a telepath, I can't know for sure.
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    Sep 12, 2011 3:22 PM GMT
    maybe but it sure is the first thing they ask me after they found out that im gay icon_neutral.gif
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    Sep 12, 2011 3:25 PM GMT
    None of my heterosexual friends have ever asked me about that... its a personal fact that doesn't really need to be discussed in my opinion.
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    Sep 12, 2011 3:32 PM GMT
    Depends on their position when I walk into the room and they're lying on the couch...icon_eek.gif
  • hawkeye7

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    Sep 12, 2011 3:44 PM GMT
    I spent the last five years as a bartender in a very straight environment......and they all want to know. It facinates them, sometimes to a very anoying place sometimes they just wanted to tease me about something. When they get drunk they ask some very odd questions:
    Why do you like it but my wife dosen't?
    How do you guys decide?
    do you wrestle for it?
    Does it hurt?
    Of course the most shocking question was .....Can I to try?
    the thing that I think shocks them the most is rimming.

    I used to believe that you could not be a straight guy and still get your ass plowed, after five years in Tennessee I am not so sure. I know a few otherwise straight men who like getting a cock up there ass every once in a while. I can not believe saying this.
    This is going to get some response.
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    Sep 12, 2011 4:24 PM GMT
    I like to ask straight couples "Who is the woman in the relationship?" icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 12, 2011 4:50 PM GMT
    Inostrankan saidI like to ask straight couples "Who is the woman in the relationship?" icon_biggrin.gif


    haha this is the truth 100%.

    On the question note, I'm only "out" to one person on this planet. My best friend, who I've known for 15 years, and when I told him the only question I got was "Was it a choice, or have you felt like that forever?". He accepted it with no issues, of course, but as time has progressed he'll joke about that. When he's drunk he likes to make it a point to tell me if he ever goes gay for me, he'd be on top (which I'm completely ok with ;)) ... so I would have to say depends on the person. Those who know you and love you aren't going to care. You don't meet some straight couple and first say "what's your favorite position?"
  • Vaughn

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    Sep 12, 2011 8:18 PM GMT
    What? No. That's what gay people ask me.
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    Sep 12, 2011 8:32 PM GMT
    My straight friends were curious on if I was the "pitcher or catcher" when I first told them. They still ask questions every now and then. It's funny knowing that they are interested in my sex life so much. I tell them guys give better head by far, just to see their responses haha.
  • dancedancekj

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    Sep 12, 2011 8:37 PM GMT
    Some people assume, other people ask. When I tell them I'm both, they get a weird look on their face icon_eek.gif
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    Sep 12, 2011 8:46 PM GMT
    I have been getting the "are you the pitcher or catcher" quite often lately....as if it's less invasive than asking me if i am a "top or bottom"......they might as well ask me if I am the Fucker, or Fuckeeicon_lol.gif
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    Sep 12, 2011 9:11 PM GMT
    It's not what my friends think or thought about. Normally, when people find out I'm gay, they just assume I'm a bottom (I do have a big ass...lol). They are more shocked to find out I'm versatile ( my bfs tend to be the ALPHA male type).
  • hawkeye7

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    Sep 13, 2011 3:11 PM GMT
    this is a really fun conversation
    my favorite line with straight men is "if you have any idea how large or small your cock is in comparisson to anyone else, than you are not near as striaght as you think you are."