Inostrankan saidI like to ask straight couples "Who is the woman in the relationship?"
haha this is the truth 100%.
On the question note, I'm only "out" to one person on this planet. My best friend, who I've known for 15 years, and when I told him the only question I got was "Was it a choice, or have you felt like that forever?". He accepted it with no issues, of course, but as time has progressed he'll joke about that. When he's drunk he likes to make it a point to tell me if he ever goes gay for me, he'd be on top (which I'm completely ok with ;)) ... so I would have to say depends on the person. Those who know you and love you aren't going to care. You don't meet some straight couple and first say "what's your favorite position?"