Finding out the hot guy u think is str8 likes the fellas too

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    Sep 12, 2011 3:51 PM GMT
    Tell me your stories!
  • aldss

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    Sep 15, 2011 10:34 AM GMT
    .....tumbleweed
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    Sep 16, 2011 3:50 PM GMT
    How about starting with yours if you have one?

    I don't think I've encountered that situation but I have had the reverse. I went to a gay club with a girl friend and all her friends thought I was with her but when I told one I was gay the word spread like wild fire and it made me uncomfortable so I left. It was a pretty funny situation.
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    Sep 16, 2011 4:19 PM GMT
    The reality isn't nearly as good as the fantasy. I've had this happen a couple of times. The thing is, you may be the first one there but you're sure not going to be the last. It can be fun for a while though - just don't expect much except that you're going to have to go slow at first and be patient.
  • vintovka

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    Sep 16, 2011 4:34 PM GMT
    jim_e said
    I don't think I've encountered that situation but I have had the reverse. I went to a gay club with a girl friend and all her friends thought I was with her but when I told one I was gay the word spread like wild fire and it made me uncomfortable so I left. It was a pretty funny situation.


    I'd say the same--I was in a gay bar (by myself) one time and a guy came over to me and started chatting. I don't think he was hitting on me, it was a casual conversation, and then he said "wait a minute, you're straight aren't you?"
    So when I'm sitting by myself in a gay bar drinking a bottle of water (i.e. not there to dance, not there to drink) people still think I'm straight?

    They pretty much never figure it out on their own--not that it has anything to do with whether they think I'm hot or not. (Lamentably few seem to fall in the former category.)
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    Sep 16, 2011 5:03 PM GMT
    jim_e said ..I went to a gay club with a girl friend and all her friends thought I was with her but when I told one I was gay the word spread like wild fire.. ...It was a pretty funny situation.


    ^^This.. Only I don't feel uncomfortable about it. It's mostly funny. Now, I've been in the situation the OP was talking about, too, with an ex. I was still closeted and we had one of those deep heart to hearts and he tod me he was gay, I was so shocked, I confessed to him, too. We both dumped our girlfriends and started dating lol
  • Latenight30

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    Sep 16, 2011 6:07 PM GMT
    This was back in college so probably 1997 about the time I had come out.
    There was this doll of a guy, Tony, who worked in the student center. He was selling candy. Yes we really had a candy counter in our student center.
    Tony is about my height, 5'7 5'8 but built, very solid. Blonde Italian.
    He was always smiling, just Monday-Wed-Friday, always there, very smiling.
    I finally got the balls to go and talk to him. He was a super nice guy.
    Then as we became friends.
    October 31st of that year, I was taking Saturday classes and leaving my class, Tony was sitting on the steps of the building.
    He asked if I had plans later. I said no, except work. He invited me over for a beer after work and to hang out.
    Well after work, call him up, go to his place and enjoy beer and get a tour of his place.
    He goes into the bathroom and when he comes out he is only in his tighty whites. Wow. Yum.
    We had a few good nights after that. I was never sure what his intentions were and kind of missed the dating boat with him.
    He is still around and a face book friend but, he was someone I thought was Sraight, and found out he liked dudes. Probably some of the most fun I had.
    GRRR. I am still flattered that he kinda picked me to mess around with.
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    Sep 16, 2011 6:19 PM GMT
    Lolwut
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    Sep 16, 2011 8:03 PM GMT
    Where I'm from they're all straight. I can't remember the last time I've seen a gay person here.
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    Sep 16, 2011 8:14 PM GMT
    huh?
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    Sep 16, 2011 8:20 PM GMT
    BEST FEELING EVER

    And then you start to put more effort into getting to know him and you quickly realize that he is an enormous douche bag and that good feeling wears off.

    Every time. I swear.