so does dressing nice mean you're gay?

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    Sep 13, 2011 3:58 AM GMT
    ?
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    Sep 13, 2011 4:34 AM GMT
    Meh......just take the compliment.
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    Sep 13, 2011 4:50 AM GMT
    Take it as a compliment, closet case. Have you really ever heard "He was dressed so nice I had to have him right there in the broom closet!" from a straight girl about a straight guy? Let me answer - NO.

    And you should also take it as a warm, receptive invitation that if you were to come out of the closet and actually be yourself, you would not be shunned by her.

    Girls talk deep like that - not like guys who ask you to reach for your ankles since they are ready to "butter your bread."

    You are closeted and have a lot to work through. Work through it on your own time, figure out what you are comfortable with, and find happiness.
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    Sep 13, 2011 4:53 AM GMT
    I'm thinking they were thinking you were gay for many reasons, but the most unoffensive reason was that you dressed nicely, and wording it that way made it socially acceptable to ask.

    about topic: No. I dress very plain and average and somehow I got the gay too.
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    Sep 13, 2011 2:22 PM GMT
    Elektrik saidI think it was because she was stoned out of her mind and talking out of her ass, all the managers thought so as well that day hahah


    ... not talking out of her ass because she's picking up on the truth...
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    Sep 13, 2011 2:32 PM GMT
    Maybe she thought you were gay because you're on RealJock
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    Sep 13, 2011 2:36 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidI'm thinking they were thinking you were gay for many reasons, but the most unoffensive reason was that you dressed nicely, and wording it that way made it socially acceptable to ask.


    Agreed.
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    Sep 13, 2011 2:37 PM GMT
    Dressing nice does not signify that you're gay. Many straight guys have also learned to start to polish themselves up but it takes time for the vast majority to start observing proper attire.

    For men to dress is better seen as a lifestyle choice than anything else.
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    Sep 13, 2011 2:38 PM GMT
    Or this was her way of coming onto you.
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    Sep 13, 2011 2:39 PM GMT
    Liking penis, perhaps even inside you, means you are gay.

    Also wanting to destroy the institution of marriage, obviously.
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    Sep 13, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    Were you wearing a rainbow-colored scarf and a bolero hat?
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    Sep 13, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    Does dressing nice mean you are gay? No, it means you take pride in your appearance. Something so few people do these days - straight or gay.

    Daydreaming about sex with a man, sucking cock, rimming, ass fucking, and the like means you're gay.
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    Sep 13, 2011 2:47 PM GMT
    Elektrik saidSo at work today, a co-worker of mine asks me "can i ask you a personal question, i don't mean to be nosy but i'm just wondering?" i'm thinking ok what could she possibly ask me? and then she straight up just asks...

    Are you gay..because you dress really nice and most guys don't dress nice anymore.

    "My parents taught me how to dress like a gentleman. I'm sorry the other slobs here never learned that lesson."

    And I would say that with a look that conveyed: "How DARE you ask me that question?" She'd never ask me again, I can promise you.
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    Sep 13, 2011 2:51 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    "My parents taught me how to dress like a gentleman.



    Please define what "dressing like a gentleman" means. Making sure your zipper is zipped? icon_eek.gif
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    Sep 13, 2011 2:53 PM GMT
    Naw ive seen some bummy gays, and i mean i dont dress nice i usually rock some jeans flip flops and a t shirt haha doesnt make me straight icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 13, 2011 2:57 PM GMT
    NOPE. There are plenty of Gay men who are pigs and dress in the worst possible manner. And, as we all know, there are plenty of "Straight" a.k.a. " Metro-sexuals" who dress impeccably. Sexuality has nothing to do with how one dresses. How one dresses varies from person to person.
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    Sep 13, 2011 2:59 PM GMT
    No. I have terrible taste in clothes. That should take care of the debate icon_cool.gif

    But damn, any advice to dress better is much appreciated!
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    Sep 13, 2011 3:01 PM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ said
    Art_Deco said
    "My parents taught me how to dress like a gentleman."

    Please define what "dressing like a gentleman" means. Making sure your zipper is zipped? icon_eek.gif

    Such instruction would be wasted on you. icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 13, 2011 3:01 PM GMT
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    SkinnyBitch saidI'm thinking they were thinking you were gay for many reasons, but the most unoffensive reason was that you dressed nicely, and wording it that way made it socially acceptable to ask.


    Agreed.


    +1

    Don't be surprised if she or some her friends start hitting on you.
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    Sep 13, 2011 3:07 PM GMT
    Well its known that gays really take care of themselves ... however it still depends on how do u dress ..
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    Sep 13, 2011 3:08 PM GMT
    I know alot of gay guys who dress like shit, and i know some straight men who looked like they just stepped off the runways at NY Fashion week.
    So NO, dressing well and appropriately Doesnt automatically mean he's gay.
    Its just another stupid stereotype that people need to get over. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 13, 2011 3:11 PM GMT
    You are in the closet. She just opened the door for you. come to the light.
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    Sep 13, 2011 3:13 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    CuriousJockAZ said
    Art_Deco said
    "My parents taught me how to dress like a gentleman."

    Please define what "dressing like a gentleman" means. Making sure your zipper is zipped? icon_eek.gif

    Such instruction would be wasted on you. icon_razz.gif



    I just found it amusing that you so pompously pointed out that your parents "taught you how to dress like a gentleman" -- well la-di-da. I was curious what you perceived as "dressing like a gentleman" was because where I was raised "a gentleman" was not so much defined by how one dressed as it was how one conducted themselves. I've seen people in $1,000 Armani suits that were anything but a gentleman.
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    Sep 13, 2011 3:14 PM GMT
    Dressing nice just means you like looking nice and nothing else. You work in a place where your appearance is part of your job and for her to just jump to conclusions like that based off of your attire is ridiculous. I think she was using that as a cover and something else about you probably prompted her ask if you were gay.

    In any case your co-workers question was pretty ignorant and you should be a little insulted by that stereotype because not all gay people, or people in general, dress nice.
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    Sep 13, 2011 3:15 PM GMT
    I think most of the guys that are groomed really good and dressed like a fashion magazine model tend to be gay or at the very least perceived to be gay. It seems a large segment of the gay population places an over the top importance on appearance and grooming