Sep 13, 2011 2:06 PM GMT
Apologies for the subject title, but really need all the advice I can get here.
So I don't bottom very often. Had sex last Monday night (eight days ago) and it was pretty rough (not good). Didn't feel anything afterwards, though was surprised not to have had a bowel movement at all the following day, then my stool the day after that had a red layer of blood on one side.
Forgot all about it, had regular, blood-free movements... Then had a stomach bug and diarrhoea over the weekend meaning regular bowel movements (sorry for the details) so when my hole felt a little sore by Sunday I put it down to that. But yesterday my stomach was fine but passing stool was a little sharp/painful, and today wiping was very painful, so it seems things are only getting worse. If I purposefully contract the anal muscles I can feel the sharpness a little. Notably, though, there is no blood on the stool.
Is this just normal (seeing as I am not used to bottoming) or does it sound like there could be some more serious damage - hemorrhoids, fissures, something else? I've done the Google searching but it would be great to get some story-specific info - the absense of blood seems to be the difference in my case. Thanks to anyone who can help...
Btw, just to ease my paranoia... The upset stomach was very out of the blue... Not in any related to the sex though surely? Any thoughts?
So I don't bottom very often. Had sex last Monday night (eight days ago) and it was pretty rough (not good). Didn't feel anything afterwards, though was surprised not to have had a bowel movement at all the following day, then my stool the day after that had a red layer of blood on one side.
Forgot all about it, had regular, blood-free movements... Then had a stomach bug and diarrhoea over the weekend meaning regular bowel movements (sorry for the details) so when my hole felt a little sore by Sunday I put it down to that. But yesterday my stomach was fine but passing stool was a little sharp/painful, and today wiping was very painful, so it seems things are only getting worse. If I purposefully contract the anal muscles I can feel the sharpness a little. Notably, though, there is no blood on the stool.
Is this just normal (seeing as I am not used to bottoming) or does it sound like there could be some more serious damage - hemorrhoids, fissures, something else? I've done the Google searching but it would be great to get some story-specific info - the absense of blood seems to be the difference in my case. Thanks to anyone who can help...
Btw, just to ease my paranoia... The upset stomach was very out of the blue... Not in any related to the sex though surely? Any thoughts?