Is HE out there?

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    Sep 15, 2011 2:53 AM GMT
    So, what do you guys think? Is there such a thing as forever? Or do all relationships have a natural course that expires eventually?
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    Sep 15, 2011 3:03 AM GMT
    There is no HE. Sorry to break it to you, son.
  • Midas426

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    Sep 16, 2011 2:56 PM GMT
    Even though I haven't found that elusive him, I'm still hopeful he's out there....somewhere.
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    Sep 16, 2011 3:00 PM GMT
    I think my other-half died in 1995 before I got a chance to meet him. icon_sad.gif
  • neosyllogy

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    Sep 16, 2011 3:04 PM GMT
    Ain't shit that's just out there waiting for you.
    You want a successful relationship you need to work not only at it, but at yourself to be the kind of person that 'deserves' one (which, isn't necessary all that many really... people want to be small-minded or selfish then wonder why they can't find love; oughta work more on themselves and worry less about finding the right person :/ )
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    Sep 16, 2011 3:24 PM GMT
    Dear OP, we think that there are several HEs out there.


    "..do all relationships have a natural course that expires eventually?"

    Well, even if you both go down in a plane crash together or some other calamity that claims you both at the same time, yes. One will pass on before the other. icon_wink.gif

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    Sep 16, 2011 3:51 PM GMT
    OF COURSE there's such a thing as marriage without divorce, with love and commitment for the rest of your natural lives. People who do not believe this are probably just to jaded or too selfish to do what it takes to make it happen.
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    Sep 16, 2011 3:57 PM GMT
    he's definitely not in here, so he's probably out there.
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    Sep 16, 2011 3:58 PM GMT
    Yes I believe that there is someone out there for everyone, but it really is a matter of being in the right mindset. If you are out fucking everything that moves chances are your not going to be able to settle down anytime soon.
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    Sep 17, 2011 6:29 AM GMT
    Yes, I'm a hopeless romantic and I believe that the one's out there and that I'll find him eventually icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 17, 2011 6:32 AM GMT
    Yes HE is out there - and here HE is:

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    Sep 17, 2011 6:42 AM GMT
    Yes, he is! Just hope he's not a prince, and you, a little mermaid.... otherwise you will have to seek the sea-witch and take the potion.
  • sbwlguy

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    Sep 17, 2011 10:03 PM GMT
    31 and single. Never had a bf before. Is he out there? Probably. Am I bothered with finding him? Not really.
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    Sep 17, 2011 10:06 PM GMT
    I don't even think there's natural courses or expirations :-(
  • Ironman4U

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    Sep 17, 2011 10:15 PM GMT
    He's out there. You just have to make yourself worthy of finding him. And then be open to the possibilities.
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    Sep 17, 2011 10:23 PM GMT
    JackNWNJ saidYes HE is out there - and here HE is:

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    Not into white guys.
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    Sep 17, 2011 10:42 PM GMT
    JackNWNJ saidYes HE is out there - and here HE is:

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    god he's hot. he looks familiar, maybe seen him on grindr...
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    Sep 17, 2011 10:45 PM GMT
    I think it's forever... when you can find someone who truly appreciates you for being yourself (no faking, no pretending, no bullshit), just you and your natural quirks. As soon as you start having to "put on heirs", and start pretending to be someone you are not, I think that's an indication that you are headed for trouble....
  • wpc56

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    Sep 18, 2011 6:27 AM GMT
    There is no HE.

    There is no prince charming that'll solve all your problems and "complete" you.

    You need to "complete" yourself and find someone you are attracted to and share your core beliefs to "share" your life together.
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    Sep 18, 2011 2:24 PM GMT
    Yes. He is.

    The cultural decay right now notwithstanding, love and commitment exist. My own grandparents have been married for 60 years. And not in that "well I guess I'm still here" kind of marriage: my grandfather loves my grandmother in the roots of his soul and he shows that to her every day and tells everyone who will listen.

    It exists. Don't let the jaded tell you otherwise.
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    Sep 18, 2011 2:30 PM GMT
    Yeah...he's out there. you dumped him because of the car he drove. Or the fact he had a skin condition or was it the extra weight; No, it was the fact he said the word 'like' to much.
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    Sep 18, 2011 2:58 PM GMT
    He's out there. Just don't give up the hope.

    You'll have your fair share of "No Ways" and will even deal with a few "Maybes" but eventually you'll find "The One" and when you do you'll be happy you did.

    There's someone for every and some are lucky enough to have more than one.
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    Sep 18, 2011 3:05 PM GMT
    BE Mister Right instead of fuckin' looking for him.
  • da30305

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    Sep 18, 2011 3:14 PM GMT
    Yes "He" is out there. Someone who you connect with on many levels and may fall in love with. It can be difficult to find though! The search can be a lot of fun. Focus on staying fit physically and emotionally and let the rest work itself out. :0)
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    Sep 18, 2011 3:27 PM GMT
    I think there are potentially many out there. You have to be at the right place, right time, and right mindset. As someone else suggested above, you also have to have worked on yourself to make sure you are desirable to that guy.