Bottom tired of being fucked...

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    Sep 17, 2011 4:09 AM GMT
    Anyone else out there with this problem? My boyfriend is an exclusive top but I just don't to be fucked anymore. I can remember a time when it used to feel great, but now its just "Here we go again, tell me when your done." I desperately want to be the top at least some nights, but my boyfriend is so in-versatile it will never happen icon_mad.gif
    What am I to do when the thing he enjoys most is, on a good day, boring for me (other days it is damn near unpleasant!). We never do anything but fuck and I don't see that changing anytime soon. He may as well be allergic to my dick and hates to receive any kind of oral stimulation himself. My ass is the only thing in our sex life... How do I change that?!?

    I have tried talking to him about this before and for a few nights it almost worked. But the only thing that really changed was about 90 seconds of a teaser hand job before he reached for a condom and it was right back to my ass... sigh icon_neutral.gif
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    Sep 17, 2011 4:29 AM GMT
    That sucks. Even if you loved anal, it can be a chore and oral would be a nice break, so if all you guys are doing is fucking, you must have a burned out mancooch.

    Maybe time to get a different boyfriend? I mean if there's only sex between you and you're growing sexually incompatible..

    Or else you could consider bringing in a butt buffer. a buttfer! To split the cornholing and maybe you two could spitroast him!
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    Sep 17, 2011 6:33 AM GMT
    I dunno, I'm a total bottom and I have no desire to top, so hopefully the one is a total top ROFL and yeah what the guy above me said, maybe you're just sexually incompatible, so get a new BF.
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    Sep 17, 2011 8:33 AM GMT
    you are being used . . . move on now
  • Nizzo

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    Sep 17, 2011 2:34 PM GMT
    The guy I'm seeing now only wants blow jobs. Let's trade!