Between the first and second date...

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    Sep 17, 2011 8:34 PM GMT
    I am newer to dating guys as I have been out less then a year. This guy I went on a date with it went great. We have a second date planned for tomorrow evening. We haven't talked much this week, just a few texts hey what are you up to and one quick phone call. And the last few days he has called me bub. Like last night we were texting and he said was going to bed "Good night bub" and then today I asked where he wanted to go to dinner tomorrow and he sai d"I'm not that picky bub"...wtf? Is that putting me in the friend zone?
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    Sep 17, 2011 9:08 PM GMT


    Seems as if he's not into you as you had thought... Better to just move on...
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    Sep 17, 2011 10:41 PM GMT
    Ugh. Keep forgetting to ask about this. What nickname sounds cool?

    My name is Robert.

    Bob? Rob? Dude? Stud? Bud? Buddy?


    IMHO.

    He returned your text. You're ahead of me.


  • waccamatt

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    Sep 18, 2011 3:35 AM GMT
    I wouldn't read anything into that - after 1 date you shouldn't be using overly affectionate terms yet, anyway. Take it one day and 1 date at a time. After 1 date there's no way to know where things stand.
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    Sep 18, 2011 6:21 AM GMT
    Does "bub" mean something different in America? Because here it most certainly does not mean "bud".