ME. I was called a faggot today

  • JP85257

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    Sep 18, 2011 3:02 AM GMT
    I am working right now delivering flowers. I drive 1000 miles or so a week and I don't have time for BS from anyone.

    I was following this car in to a hospital I was needing to deliver flowers in to. I pull in to the main parking circle and shut my car off and get in the back end and start getting what I need. The driver of the car I was following gets out of his car and starts talking shit.

    Him: "Do you always tailgate people like that?"
    Me: **ignoring him**
    Him: "Well?"
    Him: "Well you fucking white faggot?"
    Me: "WHAT?"
    Him: "Do you always tailgate drivers like that you fucking faggot?"
    Me: "Only when they drive like Niggers.......Now fuck off I don't have time for yours or anyone else's bull shit. Have a day."

    Yes I used the "N" word. YES he was black. I don't give a fuck. Basically these days my motto is "Don't fuck with me....I fuck back."

    The guy was basically shocked and couldn't conjugate a sentence after that.

    He was gone when I went back out side.

    Act like a (insert racial stereotype/slur here) and I will call you what you are.
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    Sep 18, 2011 3:06 AM GMT
    Just because someone else shows their ignorance, you don't have to show yours, I've been called racial slurs on the internet and I would never use a racial slur to reply to them, even if I'm anonymous, it just goes against what I think it's right.
  • JP85257

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    Sep 18, 2011 3:08 AM GMT
    Im not gonna be called something slurish and let it pass. Its nice that you have some sense of class in those situations. Congrats to you (no sarcasm). I just have been fucked with for way to long and I am done taking shit from anyone. Its also now "showing ignorance." He was being a prick and thought just cause I am a shinny white boy I wasnt going to talk shit to him and just run away. Sorry. I grew up with girls names "Shy Girl" and "Whisper." Im really not scared to talk shit back to people.
  • nessthing

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    Sep 18, 2011 3:09 AM GMT
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0itOCgJtNVU

    Yeah you probably shouldn't have done that.
  • JP85257

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    Sep 18, 2011 3:27 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidMeanwhile, somewhere else on the Internet....a black starts a new thread:

    "Some guy called me N___r today!"

    An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind. icon_smile.gif

    You could really have said pretty much anything else with going nuclear with that word, lol. To me, it's like invoking Hitler or the Nazis....there's just no where to go from there, imo.

    Anyway, anger can be a great motivator when it's channelled well....put it into your workout! icon_biggrin.gif


    I just enjoyed the stunned silence after I told him off.
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    Sep 18, 2011 4:14 AM GMT
    I find it really telling how quickly white gay men jump to using the word "nigger" without a moment's hesitation.

    Be glad that it was that you got a less aggressive black guy because some others would have fucked your vehicle up.
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    Sep 18, 2011 4:28 AM GMT
    fagggggot
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    Sep 18, 2011 4:32 AM GMT
    Hmm white guys have called me a faggot a lot lately and I've never once thrown a racial slur back at them. I just walked away...

    I'm not going to bother asking why you think it's ok to throw that awful term around. That's really not cool.
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    Sep 18, 2011 4:36 AM GMT
    Completely independent to my thoughts on the situation, you know that this thread will only be a list of people going against you for what you did. To which you will respond that you do not care.
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    Sep 18, 2011 5:03 AM GMT
    Why did he have to bring up race OR orientation? Like, general rule of thumb. Don't randomly call someone a faggot or randomly throw their race into things. I've been called a cracker by plenty of homeless blacks, "ayo cracka could you spare a dolla," and I don't get it, why is that OK? Just, in general, everyone involved should leave race and orientation out of it.
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    Sep 18, 2011 5:48 AM GMT
    FrostedFlakes saidWhy did he have to bring up race OR orientation? Like, general rule of thumb. Don't randomly call someone a faggot or randomly throw their race into things. I've been called a cracker by plenty of homeless blacks, "ayo cracka could you spare a dolla," and I don't get it, why is that OK? Just, in general, everyone involved should leave race and orientation out of it.


    +1000
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    Sep 18, 2011 3:05 PM GMT
    Just out of curiosity...Wouldn't it have been better for you to have simply replied by saying

    "Sorry if it seemed I tailed gated but you were going in the same direction as I happened to going to as well...."

    Now if he continued to be abusive in his language then maybe the harsher words would come into effect by you.


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    Sep 18, 2011 3:23 PM GMT
    JP85257 said
    Him: "Well you fucking white faggot?".


    This sounds a like a really awkward formation of English speech. Sure you didn't just add the 'white' in your post to justify using a racial perjorative in your reply? ;D ...

    Rhetorical question.
  • JP85257

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    Sep 18, 2011 6:24 PM GMT
    _SAGE_ said
    JP85257 said
    Him: "Well you fucking white faggot?".


    This sounds a like a really awkward formation of English speech. Sure you didn't just add the 'white' in your post to justify using a racial perjorative in your reply? ;D ...

    Rhetorical question.

    No. I didnt add this. Dont need to. He was yelling this at me in front of a hospital I was trying to do business in.

    2.....I had worked basically 3 days straight with 7 hours of sleep between the 3;....I work Thrusday morning to Saturday with a minimal amount of sleep and when I sleepy I am a dickhead and will respond when provoked. I called him what I called him after he called me what he called me.

    I will pull the "I have black friends so its ok" card. Ive never called them that because they arent ghetto, jobless or stupid.

    Have a day, Everyone.
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    Sep 18, 2011 6:34 PM GMT
    I can def. see what made you say it. Sometimes I have to express my anger is a way as crude as theirs in order to compensate for the emotional indignity I feel. But usually I try to show restraint for as long as I can take, until I really can't. Then they'll get it.
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    Sep 18, 2011 6:53 PM GMT
    JP85257 saidI will pull the "I have black friends so its ok" card. Ive never called them that because they arent ghetto, jobless or stupid.

    So the N-word only applies to black people who are "ghetto, jobless or stupid"?
    Or just to those who aren't your friends?

    Archie Bunker also had some black friends....
    (But they were OK precisely because they weren't like the rest of "them".)
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    Sep 18, 2011 6:55 PM GMT
    Caesarea4 said
    JP85257 saidI will pull the "I have black friends so its ok" card. Ive never called them that because they arent ghetto, jobless or stupid.

    So the N-word only applies to black people who are "ghetto, jobless or stupid"?
    Or just to those who aren't your friends?

    Archie Bunker also had some black friends....
    (But they were OK precisely because they weren't like the rest of "them".)


    Basically. You see my point now.
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    Sep 18, 2011 7:03 PM GMT
    JP85257 saidBasically. You see my point now.

    I fear you missed mine.
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    Sep 18, 2011 7:35 PM GMT
    I agree that you should have first just explained to him that you were not actually tailgating him. He wouldnt have used those slurs if you did.

    Second, I agree with how you responded. He was being racist to begin with. Being gandhian is the last thing you should do with guys like this. I have learned it hard way too. They will NEVER stop abusing you if you let it go or tried to be nice about the situation. Nonetheless, you sholdnt have ignored his first question. It just sounds like a big misunderstanding.
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    Sep 18, 2011 7:42 PM GMT
    He started it you finished it. the end
  • creature

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    Sep 18, 2011 9:56 PM GMT
    MaxLukacs saidNot cool. You were both wrong.

    You may have to come off as higher and better than him if you told him that YES you are a gay man, but not a faggot and left it at that.

    No insults necessary.


    Agreed. Two wrongs don't make a right.
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    Sep 18, 2011 11:04 PM GMT
    Realjock Friends,

    I can honestly say that if given the same situation, it would go something like this:

    Do you always tailgate?

    **ignore**

    Well?

    Well, you fucking white faggot?

    "SHUT THE FUCK UP!!" and walk away.


    Out of curiosity, would that be better or worse? I wouldn't have gone racial, but i probably would have told him to fuck off.

    What do you guys think?
  • Import

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    Sep 18, 2011 11:28 PM GMT
    at least he wasn't a JEW!
  • JP85257

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    Sep 18, 2011 11:45 PM GMT
    Import saidat least he wasn't a JEW!

    Jews dont do retarded shit like that, plus my mom always told me never to fuck with God's chosen people.
  • Import

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    Sep 19, 2011 1:39 AM GMT
    God's chosen people? HA!

    whatta crock of shit they're brainwashed to believe icon_lol.gif