May 14, 2008 7:57 PM GMT
HTA49 said..... Not all fantasies have to become reality.
This quote, and the question you ask in your header, suggest a concern of opening a Pandora's box, or crossing a thresh hold, from which you may be unable to return.
I think this conflict is normal, and happens to many males.
Perhaps you should consider yourself fortunate for being able to enjoy an intimate relationship with a woman. I've never been with one.
The fact that you have a good relationship with a woman, that you don't want to mess up, may be a good thing, rather than a hindrance.
However, your life may intersect with a man who you develope a powerful attraction to. You may not have too much of a choice then.
HTA49 said: My attraction level seems to wane when opportunity gets too close.
Perhaps that is stark reality, bitch-slapping the fantasy away.
In the end, whether or not you take a bite out of the apple is up to you.
I don't know if curiosity kills the cat...but it sure did a number on this here squirrel!
[OK...OK...kinda poor taste, but I'm feeling feisty]