mynamesadonis saidI did.
I'm just still trying to figure why the hell a guy I really liked just stopped talking to me after our perfect date. I just figured maybe it was because I didn't have sex with him.
You failed to regard the First Rule of the Rules for Gay Men:
Rule 1. Never, ever... EVER... underestimate the flakiness of the gay male.
This x1000. I have had guys tell me that they will call me after the 4th date, then decide they didnt like me anymore, completely flaked out, and pretended like I didnt exist.
You have to remember, many gay men do not have the traditional high school experience. That is where we learn how to interact with each other as a society, as well as when we learn about our attraction to each other. Since we have never learned how to behave as a boy during that time, we do it when we should be men.
Hence, why people do shit like this.