Longest time without sex and why.

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    Sep 20, 2011 8:07 PM GMT
    Pretty straight forward. What is the longest time you had without sex and was there any particular reason why?

    My story:

    Over a year ago, a FB and I were going at it and I wanted to try something new. He didn't want to try anything that would involve him seeing my stomach because the extra skin bugged him.

    Mind you, this kid was (probably still is) a closet case and I taught him everything he knew. So, i kicked him off of me and told him to get the fuck out or id make sure he wouldnt even be able to piss.

    So the fucker ran for it and haven't heard from him since. After that, I didn't have sex for a year because I was afraid people would view my stomach the way he did.

    But this changed this past August when I hooked up with someone at Turks and Caicos (let me tell you, that was fun)

    It still bugs me in a way and even now after surgery, now I am afraid guys are going to freak out with the scar.
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    Sep 20, 2011 9:34 PM GMT
    YOu may want to define what you mean by "sex"... since there have been dozens of threads just like this one and that question always arises.
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    Sep 20, 2011 10:29 PM GMT
    I went 18 months once as in no sexual contact other than my own right hand not even a date. My best friend of 15 years died 9 months after being diagnosed with lung cancer. 2 month later my dog of 10 years had to be put to sleep due to a illness and I wasn't dealing well with my own MS illness I just wanted to be alone.
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    Sep 20, 2011 10:39 PM GMT
    AlexanderB saidWhat is the longest time you had without sex and was there any particular reason why?
    14 years...because I was too young to know how to do it.
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    Sep 20, 2011 10:58 PM GMT
    24 years trying to wait for marriage or the right one
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    Sep 20, 2011 11:00 PM GMT
    Jeez. The last time for me was April.
  • barriehomeboy

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    Sep 21, 2011 12:29 AM GMT
    Depends how u define sex.
  • zackmorrisfan...

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    Sep 21, 2011 2:16 AM GMT
    Four weeks. Inguinal hernia repair. Ouch.
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    Sep 21, 2011 2:21 AM GMT
    Been almost 6 years
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    Sep 21, 2011 2:27 AM GMT
    This year has been better, I had sex last in July. Last year I went forever with no sex. All in all, I just don't mess around that much.
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    Sep 21, 2011 3:13 AM GMT
    5 months, I want something more serious so I'm "saving myself" for that. Can you save yourself when you're not a virgin? LOL
  • Diceroll

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    Sep 21, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    It's been about 6 years for me - since my last relationship ended.
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    Sep 21, 2011 5:54 AM GMT
    Forever and a day.

    Not into hookups. I'm not a fish.
  • Joeyphx444

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    Sep 21, 2011 5:56 AM GMT
    March 2011

    Over sex and hookups

    Looking for friends, bf now
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    Sep 21, 2011 5:58 AM GMT
    AlexanderB saidPretty straight forward. What is the longest time you had without sex and was there any particular reason why?

    My story:

    Over a year ago, a FB and I were going at it and I wanted to try something new. He didn't want to try anything that would involve him seeing my stomach because the extra skin bugged him.

    Mind you, this kid was (probably still is) a closet case and I taught him everything he knew. So, i kicked him off of me and told him to get the fuck out or id make sure he wouldnt even be able to piss.

    So the fucker ran for it and haven't heard from him since. After that, I didn't have sex for a year because I was afraid people would view my stomach the way he did.

    But this changed this past August when I hooked up with someone at Turks and Caicos (let me tell you, that was fun)

    It still bugs me in a way and even now after surgery, now I am afraid guys are going to freak out with the scar.

    Tell me why I thought FB was Facebook. icon_neutral.gif
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    Sep 21, 2011 6:03 AM GMT
    At Turks and Caicos?? What were you on? A cruiseship?
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    Sep 21, 2011 6:11 AM GMT
    About 3 years because I was feeling fat.
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    Sep 21, 2011 6:15 AM GMT
    All 20 years of my life haha icon_smile.gif and the reason is no one has made an attempt towards me and I am shy to go for it haha
  • Montague

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    Sep 21, 2011 6:15 AM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidJeez. The last time for me was April.


    Screw me if I'm wrong, but I could swear you got laid daily. icon_wink.gif
  • sillyror

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    Sep 21, 2011 6:43 AM GMT
    I go months, if not years at times. I feel like having sex with someone is like giving them a part of me. My mind, body and soul is higher than some tawdry fling.
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    Sep 21, 2011 6:54 AM GMT
    well, i'm going for about 5 months now i think .... somewhere around that.
    I'm trying this "being good" thing which is working pretty well actually.

    I've got my urges lol, but it's just gonna be Me and my hand lol until I find someone worth enough sharing all that of me.
  • ATLANTIS7

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    Sep 21, 2011 10:13 AM GMT
    The month of Ramadan as b/f is Turkish?
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    Sep 21, 2011 1:12 PM GMT
    10 months. Because I live in hell China
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    Sep 21, 2011 1:19 PM GMT
    The longest was about a year, maybe a little less. The reason was that I simply did not feel sexual at the time. I remember having crushes on guys but not really wanting sex from any of them. Maybe I should try that again...icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 21, 2011 1:28 PM GMT
    Mine was probably about 3 months I think. I was in my final year of university and my then-boyfriend dumped me and broke my heart. It took all the effort I had to try and study and get through my final coursework and exams, sex was really the last thing on my mind.

    When I did decide finally to get back on the horse, I was still quite heart-broken really and not looking to date but I was too horny to go without sex! So I set up a profile on a popular UK hookup site (Gaydar) and found a hot Belgian muscle bottom. We had sex, we talked and cuddled for a while, he gave me a blowjob and swallowed, then we went off for the rest of the afternoon our separate ways and met up again in the evening and had sex again then went out for dinner.

    I actually really wanted to see him again because I thought he was a really nice guy and the sex was good, he called me later and said he was up for seeing me again but we never did see each other - the next time he got in touch I was in another relationship so turned him down. But it was just what I needed at the time and I'm glad I did wait a few months after the break-up instead of banging someone else straight away and feeling that empty numb feeling inside consuming my soul....