Guys checking me out online

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    May 16, 2008 4:08 AM GMT
    There's something that I don't quite understand, and maybe someone out there can help me.

    I'm really not trying to be obnoxious or stuck up or self-centered, but I don't understand why it is that young guys are always checking me out. They cruise me on the street (and I mean they CRUISE me)and they are the ones who are always looking at my profile. My boyfriend is 38, 15 years younger than me. Guys are always telling me that I have "the look", which I just don't get. I had a young guy in his 20s look straight into my eyes and give me a really big grin as I walked by in the park the other day. He was gorgeous. I'm nothnig special, quite unremarkable. You really can't judge from pictures of me, because I do NOT photograph well.

    Don't get me wrong -- I'm not knocking it, since I really like younger guys with smooth skin, but I find guys closer to my own age more appealing, sexually.

    Not looking for stroking of the ego, here, just a better understanding.
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    May 16, 2008 4:35 AM GMT
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    May 16, 2008 4:38 AM GMT
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    May 16, 2008 4:44 AM GMT
    Cas, ol' buddy, you're such a teaser! LOL
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    May 16, 2008 1:18 PM GMT
    Maybe they can see your "AURA"

    Or maybe those tight pants you wear?

    Or maybe they just like older and fit a lorra lorrra young ones do?
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    May 16, 2008 1:59 PM GMT
    "I don't understand why it is that young guys are always checking me out"

    Beats the hell outta me.
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    May 16, 2008 2:12 PM GMT
    I always feel like ...................................................somebody's watching me.

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    May 16, 2008 3:07 PM GMT
    sundown55 saidThere's something that I don't quite understand, and maybe someone out there can help me.


    Not looking for stroking of the ego, here, just a better understanding.


    Well, you are online and you did post a picture. icon_lol.gif
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    May 16, 2008 9:10 PM GMT
    And this is a problem because?

    Be flattered.
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    May 16, 2008 9:40 PM GMT
    Don't hate me cus i'm brutally honest ... but if it helps i think you're really really really not hot icon_eek.gif So yeah, cheer up.
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    May 16, 2008 9:51 PM GMT
    Soufian saidDon't hate me cus i'm brutally honest ... but if it helps i think you're fuck ugly icon_eek.gif So yeah, cheer up.


    Okay, on a scale of 1 to 10, that was completely unnecessary.
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    May 16, 2008 9:57 PM GMT
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    May 16, 2008 9:59 PM GMT
    Soufian saidDon't hate me cus i'm brutally honest ... but if it helps i think you're fuck ugly icon_eek.gif So yeah, cheer up.




    you're waaay fucking uglier too :]
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    May 16, 2008 10:01 PM GMT
    As a late 20-something, I wish I could give you the clarity you seek... Maybe there's something chronically in your nose? icon_confused.gif
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    May 16, 2008 10:10 PM GMT
    Maybe you are really hot in Seattle, I have not been, so I cannot speak for the scene there. Whats hot there may not be considered as hot in LA, or NY, but hey, if you are the hot one there, then have fun with it.
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    May 16, 2008 10:23 PM GMT
    sundown55 saidNot looking for stroking of the ego, here, just a better understanding.


    In my opinion that is exactly what you are looking for. Your post is littered with defense mechanisms in order reinforce the notion that a plethora of young men are irresistibly attracted to you.

    I personally do not find you attractive. I would not go so far as to insult you or disrespect you, but nonetheless you are not someone I would consider attractive.

    If I were in your situation I would focus my attention on my significant other, and not the superficial meandering gazes of random men.
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    May 16, 2008 10:57 PM GMT
    I know someone who will think twice before posting another solicitation for compliments.
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    May 16, 2008 11:03 PM GMT
    I think that it's flattering when guys check me out... regardless of their age.
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    May 16, 2008 11:18 PM GMT
    LMAO!!! and I thought the dude from yesterday who posted the comment that the gay guys in SF were ugly was a full on fucktard but I think he may have met his kindred spirit with this OP. hahahaha. No offense, but come on dude!

    So all the youngsters in your area "cruise" you? Are you sure they aren't just starring at you wondering who that ol pervert is starring back at them? LMAO

    Well either way thanks for the laugh! My heart bleeds for ya over this terrible issue you are facing you twink magnet hahahahaha! You did give me a great laugh so for that thank you.

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    May 16, 2008 11:22 PM GMT
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    I swear this was exactly me when I first read the original posters complaint LMAO. I'm still laughing. icon_lol.gif
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    May 16, 2008 11:33 PM GMT
    Forgive me if I'm a bit skeptical, and also think this kind of post is a tad bit insufferable.

    Guys are always telling me that I have "the look"

    Have I already mentioned that I'm skeptical?
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    May 16, 2008 11:34 PM GMT
    Mikesw saidMaybe you are really hot in Seattle, I have not been, so I cannot speak for the scene there. Whats hot there may not be considered as hot in LA, or NY, but hey, if you are the hot one there, then have fun with it.

    Mike, I'm sure you're cute in both L.A. and NYC. ;-) Sorry, sundown55 -- you brought this on yourself!
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    May 16, 2008 11:38 PM GMT
    Oh you insufferable boob, Get over your self!

    I get cruised all the time and hit on, by women!!!!

    You don't see me coming here complaining about it now do ya?? huh
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    May 16, 2008 11:47 PM GMT
    Oh stop. I don't know if Sundown had some hidden or unconscious agenda in his post, but if you're gonna start eviscerating people for posting threads that are obviously invitations to compliment them, this place will turn into a slaughterhouse.

    I wonder why this particular thread drew scorn while so MANY don't. (I'm especially thinking of the guys who post umpteen times in those "say-something-nice-about-the-person-above-you" threads.)

    But to answer your question, Sundown: Everyone here is younger than us, so if anyone looks at all, of course he's going to be younger. If anyone older looks, he's a zombie come back from the dead. (No offense to the Munching One.)

  • asupas

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    May 16, 2008 11:52 PM GMT
    Cheese and rice, some of you guys can be brutal.

    Sundown, they are probably staring at you because you are staring at them. I think thats how it works with most people - If someone happens to be staring at me, I check them out too. It's also likely that you have a certain look that some of them find attractive. Who knows?

    Either way, I'm sure it makes life much more interesting for you.