So, what makes a guy good in bed?

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    Sep 22, 2011 7:34 PM GMT
    Well? the title is self explanatory:

    What makes a man good in bed?
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    Sep 22, 2011 7:36 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle saidWell? the title is self explanatory:

    What makes a man good in bed?


    If they do everything I do half as well.

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    Sep 22, 2011 7:54 PM GMT
    His genuine desire to satisfy his partner and being happy to go as far as needed so that his partner gets as extreme pleasure as possible. (Makes no difference if one is top or bottom.) One would hope that this is reciprocal between partners.
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    Sep 22, 2011 8:15 PM GMT
    What makes a man good to me?

    The kind who will stuff cock in my ass until I shut my mouth.

    That shit is alpha!
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    Sep 22, 2011 9:23 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle saidWell? the title is self explanatory:

    What makes a man good in bed?


    One of the main things for me is whether he understands the importance of foreplay - I hate it when guys act like anal/oral sex are the only things that two men can do in bed.
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    Sep 22, 2011 9:24 PM GMT
    Diceroll said
    Alpha_Muscle saidWell? the title is self explanatory:

    What makes a man good in bed?


    One of the main things for me is whether he understands the importance of foreplay - I hate it when guys act like anal/oral sex are the only things that two men can do in bed.


    THIS THIS THIS!

    Also a guy who understands that sometimes pleasure points can come from other than the penis and prostate. Things like chewing on my ears can send oodles of pleasure throughout my body and if someone is inside me while it happens, look the fuck out!
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    Sep 22, 2011 9:29 PM GMT
    I think the overriding factor is chemistry to be fair.
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    Sep 22, 2011 9:35 PM GMT
    Diceroll said
    Alpha_Muscle saidWell? the title is self explanatory:

    What makes a man good in bed?


    One of the main things for me is whether he understands the importance of foreplay - I hate it when guys act like anal/oral sex are the only things that two men can do in bed.


    OMG this! .....
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    Sep 22, 2011 9:35 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidI prefer the couch.


    Spoken like a true skank.
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    Sep 22, 2011 9:37 PM GMT
    Trollileo said
    Chainers said
    Trollileo saidI prefer the couch.


    Spoken like a true skank.
    Whateva, ho.

    I actually have a hard time being comfortable on a bed. I sleep better on couches. No joke.


    Well thank you for not denying your skankiness.
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    Sep 22, 2011 9:37 PM GMT
    Understanding the concept of mutual pleasure/enjoyment, under whatever terms.
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    Sep 22, 2011 9:37 PM GMT
    When he knows how to initiate foreplay. He also listens to his partner on the likes and dislikes and vice versa
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    Sep 22, 2011 9:41 PM GMT
    His dick
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    Sep 22, 2011 9:48 PM GMT
    If were both all hot and sweaty. Also when the sex was that goooood,you have the huge smile on your face and want the guy to do you over again and over again.
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    Sep 22, 2011 10:28 PM GMT
    Xhris_19_FL saidIf were both all hot and sweaty. Also when the sex was that goooood,you have the huge smile on your face and want the guy to do you over again and over again.


    I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH U!!!!!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 22, 2011 10:32 PM GMT
    Great kisser. IMO bad kisser = bad lover if the kissing isn't great I could care less about the rest.
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    Sep 22, 2011 10:35 PM GMT
    $
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    Sep 22, 2011 10:47 PM GMT
    Chainers saidWhat makes a man good to me?

    The kind who will stuff cock in my ass until I shut my mouth.

    That shit is alpha!



    You really got it right this time.
  • slimnmuscly

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    Sep 22, 2011 10:47 PM GMT
    An awful lot of the answer depends on the guy he's with. What makes a man hot in bed with one guy might make him a dud with the next. It's all about chemistry.
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    Sep 22, 2011 10:50 PM GMT
    When with every move it seems like it is being reciprocated and each guy is moaning in pleasure.
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    Sep 22, 2011 10:54 PM GMT
    When a guy asks me what I like sexually, I know the sex is going to be bad. When I tell him I just like to let things flow, he will often become even more pressuring and ask if I'm a top or bottom. This is when I know to reach for my car keys. You have to be able to sniff a guy out and intuitively know where and how to touch him. You have to watch and listen for subtle cues as to what he's responding to and what he's being indifferent to. Until you learn to do this, sex will just be two bodies clunking together in an unsatisfying fashion.
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    Sep 22, 2011 10:58 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said and ask if I'm a top or bottom. This is when I know to reach for my car keys.


    a repressed bottom?
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    Sep 22, 2011 11:00 PM GMT
    I love it when a guy tells you how hot, beautiful, and sexy he finds you. There's nothing hotter IMO.
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    Sep 22, 2011 11:05 PM GMT
    Hypnotico saidI love it when a guy tells you how hot, beautiful, and sexy he finds you. There's nothing hotter IMO.



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    Sep 22, 2011 11:05 PM GMT
    Scruffypup saidWhen a guy asks me what I like sexually, I know the sex is going to be bad. When I tell him I just like to let things flow, he will often become even more pressuring and ask if I'm a top or bottom. This is when I know to reach for my car keys. You have to be able to sniff a guy out and intuitively know where and how to touch him. You have to watch and listen for subtle cues as to what he's responding to and what he's being indifferent to. Until you learn to do this, sex will just be two bodies clunking together in an unsatisfying fashion.


    So true man! Had an ex that after almost a year still had NO f'ing clue what to do. It was sad and really started to piss me off!