Somebody2Luv saidI mean really at school I have girls come up to me and hit on me, i guess its flattering but, its only girls... i don't like girls, but i have no reason to tell them I'm gay except the fact i don't want to waste their time trying to find a relationship with me because it wont happen. What do i do???
I was literally having this same problem up until a few weeks ago when this Italian hottie in one of my classes started flirting with me.
I almost gave up and now I have this amazing man who's been all over the world looking at me like I'm the hottest thing he's ever seen.
As far as the girls go just tell em you're gay. May as well make some friends out of the deal(granted not all of them will be happy about it). That's what I do.
I think girls are just drawn to gay men in particular. Even now when I'm in class flirting with a guy right in front of them they're still trying to cock block the both of us.
They always want what they can't have.
Ignore em or be friends with em. As far as guys go you just have to be confident, open, and pay attention. Most gay guys won't approach any guy they don't know is gay. You have to send the right signals. Look guys in the eye, start a conversation, smile, and look blatantly interested. If they're straight they'll back away(believe me I've already made 4 "enemies" 4 weeks in scouting, but I got my man out of it so it was worth it).
If a guy comes back after that the next time you see him he's interested. Trust me. The ones who come back after you've shown a high level of interest are *usually*(some straight guys are that stupid...) gay.
It's the only REAL gaydar there is.
PS: I've had way more luck with European guys than American guys. Moved to West Hollywood expecting to have it easier and instead get ignored on a daily basis...Out of nowhere comes a sexy foreign exchange student who doesn't ignore and/or hate my brown skin. Go figure.