Attracted to a guy on RJ then...

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    Sep 24, 2011 12:21 AM GMT
    Were you attracted to a guy on RJ until he took a stand on a question in the forums and then this attraction faded away?
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    Sep 24, 2011 2:14 AM GMT
    No, I'm still very much attracted to him. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 24, 2011 2:23 AM GMT
    yankinbc saidWere you attracted to a guy on RJ until he took a stand on a question in the forums and then this attraction faded away?


    No.

    But then again, I am not attracted to one-dimensional stereotypes. If I see an "interesting post" from someone cute I follow it up with a private message to flesh out the ideological differences.
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    Sep 24, 2011 2:25 AM GMT
    Yes. I've been attracted to more than one guy on account of what he was saying in the forums, because he seemed to have a good brain, but then I was blindsided by a post of such epic ignorance, bigotry, or narrow-mindedness that my feelings immediately changed. Typical deal-breakers include baseless derogatory statements about "feminine" guys/bisexuals/transgendered people, ad hominem attacks, or intentional thread derailment.
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    Sep 24, 2011 2:29 AM GMT
    yankinbc saidWere you attracted to a guy on RJ until he took a stand on a question in the forums and then this attraction faded away?
    My lower brain operates independently of my upper brain.
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    Sep 24, 2011 5:47 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    yankinbc saidWere you attracted to a guy on RJ until he took a stand on a question in the forums and then this attraction faded away?
    My lower brain operates independently of my upper brain.


    Yes. They are also on "Ignore His Posts" and "Block Him" as well.

    Those who are outwardly beautiful can be very ugly to the bone under the skin.