My first time...

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    Sep 25, 2011 3:21 AM GMT
    ... going to a gay bar/club.

    Will it be as weird as I've imagined? Will I be groped? Will some random dude actually by me a drink?!

    The answer to these questions, and more, when I return! icon_biggrin.gif

    But, seriously, I've always meant to go to one once since I turned 21. Now that I'm 22 and in Austin for the semester, I figure it's time to pony up to doing something outta my bucket list. Still gotta shower and get ready though, feel free to bombard me with advice!

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    Sep 25, 2011 3:52 AM GMT
    Take off your shirt.
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    Sep 25, 2011 7:52 AM GMT
    staple_ saidTake off your shirt.


    I didn't have to, some guy took it off for me. Fortunately for me, I was wearing a muscle shirt underneath. =D

    Since you actually bothered to post, here's a recap:

    1. Actually wasn't that weird.

    2. Quite a bit but I liked it. And the guys were actually extremely cool about letting me stay in my comfort zone.

    3. Some random guys and mostly the guy who owns of the club, making for a cheap and awesome first night out.

    Bonus: Made out with a guy for the first time icon_biggrin.gif his facial hair rubbed me a bit raw but still awesome, haha

    In conclusion, definitely doing it again next weekend! icon_biggrin.gif


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    Sep 25, 2011 7:57 AM GMT
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    staple_ saidTake off your shirt.


    I didn't have to, some guy took it off for me. Fortunately for me, I was wearing a muscle shirt underneath. =D

    Since you actually bothered to post, here's a recap:

    1. Actually wasn't that weird.

    2. Quite a bit but I liked it. And the guys were actually extremely cool about letting me stay in my comfort zone.

    3. Some random guys and mostly the guy who owns of the club, making for a cheap and awesome first night out.

    Bonus: Made out with a guy for the first time icon_biggrin.gif his facial hair rubbed me a bit raw but still awesome, haha

    In conclusion, definitely doing it again next weekend! icon_biggrin.gif




    That's awesome. I haven't gone yet, but glad you had a good time. Was the guy you made out with hot?
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    Sep 25, 2011 8:02 AM GMT
    The force is strong...

    Just one bar?
    Kind'a sad bra
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    Sep 25, 2011 8:06 AM GMT
    staple_ said
    Animus said
    staple_ saidTake off your shirt.





    That's awesome. I haven't gone yet, but glad you had a good time. Was the guy you made out with hot?


    Yeah, it was his birthday. He even had friends in from out of town and I was hanging with their group for a bit before they ended up leaving. I should've gotten his number or something. Rookie mistakes for a rookie, haha.

    Depends on where you live, I did it in Austin. I was apprehensive at first but it wasn't awkward at all and I didn't get jumped at all either. Just a good time talking and hanging out with like minded dudes. Definitely worthy of a repeat experience!
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    Sep 25, 2011 8:08 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidThe force is strong...

    Just one bar?
    Kind'a sad bra


    No, two actually. The first one I spent the most time in because it was pretty big, had two separate indoor bars and one out doors plus a dance floor. The other one I went to was mostly a dance floor so I didn't spend a lot of time there. Besides that, I only googled up the first bar and didn't think to ask about where any others were. Besides, the first one had free drinks and hotties so it's not like I minded much, haha
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    Sep 25, 2011 11:17 AM GMT
    Well done. I'm glad you had fun and got some action.
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    Sep 25, 2011 11:38 AM GMT
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    dustin_K_tx saidThe force is strong...

    Just one bar?
    Kind'a sad bra


    No, two actually. The first one I spent the most time in because it was pretty big, had two separate indoor bars and one out doors plus a dance floor. The other one I went to was mostly a dance floor so I didn't spend a lot of time there. Besides that, I only googled up the first bar and didn't think to ask about where any others were. Besides, the first one had free drinks and hotties so it's not like I minded much, haha


    Rain on 4th?
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    Sep 25, 2011 3:10 PM GMT
    The bar scene in Austin is awesome!!! Good to know there still IS a bar scene on 4th St.
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    Sep 25, 2011 3:54 PM GMT
    It depends on the bar.

    There was a bar, "The 505", in Austin where I met my first lover. I was 22, he was 35. I bought him a Heineken. We fucked all weekend and for another 4 years.
    He was, and is my "first love". We are friends to this day.
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    Sep 25, 2011 3:55 PM GMT
    MuslNorganLikr saidThe bar scene in Austin is awesome!!! Good to know there still IS a bar scene on 4th St.


    Does 4 bars constitute a "scene"?
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    Sep 25, 2011 4:16 PM GMT
    Find a gay bar with a pool... that way you can strip to your swimming suit....
    We have one in Wichita.
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    Sep 25, 2011 8:30 PM GMT
    Ejay311 said
    Animus said
    dustin_K_tx saidThe force is strong...

    Just one bar?
    Kind'a sad bra


    No, two actually. The first one I spent the most time in because it was pretty big, had two separate indoor bars and one out doors plus a dance floor. The other one I went to was mostly a dance floor so I didn't spend a lot of time there. Besides that, I only googled up the first bar and didn't think to ask about where any others were. Besides, the first one had free drinks and hotties so it's not like I minded much, haha


    Rain on 4th?


    Yeah, that was the other one I went to, the one that was mostly a dance floor. There was a decent cluster of them in the area, I think up to five, but I didn't remember the names specifically and I didn't want to just walk into random clubs, haha
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    Sep 25, 2011 8:34 PM GMT
    Shawnathan saidDid you go all by yourself? I can go to a pub by myself and drink at the bar like a cowboy or something, but I couldn't go to a club by myself.


    Yeah, but it was more of a bar than a club. That's why I described it as bar/club. It had a smaller dance floor and more bars with space for guys to talk or something. I guess a pub with a dance floor would be a better description, huh?

    I preferred going a lone, actually. That way I was completely free to move as I please, without having to worry about the rest of a group.
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    Sep 25, 2011 8:36 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidGood thing you're not living in the 70's, when the pool tables were used to fuck on and the back room was the orgy room and someone would go down on you and give you head at the bar right in front of everybody. But I wasn't around for those days either, just heard about them from my friends who had fake ID's.


    Are those things so bad? (Except of course for fake IDs.)
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    Sep 25, 2011 9:04 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidFind a gay bar with a pool... that way you can strip to your swimming suit....
    We have one in Wichita.


    Dunno, I'm not too big on getting wet because I dry up really bad when I'm not in the pool. I can only carry so much lotion on my person before it gets weird, haha icon_lol.gif