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  • jeffreyr

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    Sep 27, 2011 4:02 AM GMT
    Hi guys, I haven't really been active on this for a while, but for some reason decided to get back on recently. My relationship of 10 years just ended. . . yesterday actually. So, I'm just trying to figure out what to do, what to think, etc. Anyone else found themselves in a similar situation? It might be great to have someone in a similar situation to talk to. . . I know i'm not the first.

    To be clear this isn't a "i'm single now, let's fuck" post, LOL icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 27, 2011 12:26 PM GMT
    icon_cry.gif It's so sad, unless you're the one who ended the relationship. icon_biggrin.gif

    I'm sorry but I'm too inexperienced when it comes to long term relationships, but I wish you good luck though icon_biggrin.gif

    And oh, what's wrong with "I'm single now, let's fuck" ?!?! Like, people don't do that?

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    Sep 27, 2011 12:33 PM GMT
    16 years and counting here
    Can't imagine and my heart (not hard on) goes out to you.
    Since it was yesterday my immediate gutt tellsme its not over but I would try to concentrate on rebuildingmy own life, although I would imagineit's tough.
    Drink alot and feel hurt for awhile I guess, to get the hurt out but then STOP IT.
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    Sep 27, 2011 12:41 PM GMT
    S60turbo said16 years and counting here
    Can't imagine and my heart (not hard on) goes out to you.
    Since it was yesterday my immediate gutt tellsme its not over but I would try to concentrate on rebuildingmy own life, although I would imagineit's tough.
    Drink alot and feel hurt for awhile I guess, to get the hurt out but then STOP IT.


    +1 Sounds like good advice.

    My heart also goes out to you. We celebrate 19 years in October and I don't know that I could cope if it ended, or how I would cope.

    I know that no one can say anything that will really help or ease the pain, but I just wanted you to know that my heart goes out to you and you'll be in my thoughts.
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    Sep 27, 2011 1:01 PM GMT
    There's not really any advice that would be appropriate for the day immediately after... Maybe in a couple weeks.

    Honestly, I'm surprised you're even up and about. But you probably handle it differently than I.
  • jeffreyr

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    Sep 27, 2011 10:42 PM GMT
    Thanks guys. icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 27, 2011 10:44 PM GMT
    First thing I would suggest, if you do have feelings about this situation, then feel them, dont try to bottle it up.. what needs to be felt, should be freely felt