How to find out if a hot guy is gay.

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    Sep 27, 2011 2:07 PM GMT
    I have rather good gaydar and the limited evidence I have on the subject in question indicates he is gay, however, there is no non-awkward way to bring it up. Not sure whether or not he knows I'm gay since there's no reason to randomly bring it up, that's just kinda weird, but it's possible he knows since I don't hide it either. Also, take into account I feel a bit awkward around him already since he's pretty damn hot...
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    Sep 27, 2011 2:14 PM GMT
    There are non-random ways to make sure someone knows you're gay. My colleagues assumed I was straight for a long time, but just during the course of conversation an opportunity might come up to say, "Oh yeah. I really liked that restaurant... my ex boyfriend took me there for my birthday" or something along those lines.
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    Sep 27, 2011 2:18 PM GMT
    Are you asking for 'cruising' tips?!
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    Sep 27, 2011 2:22 PM GMT
    Why don't you just ask something lame like "which celebrities do you think are hot?"

    Pretty easy to figure it out from that response!
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    Sep 27, 2011 2:43 PM GMT
    This is what I always say, but then I'm pretty direct too: "So, do you have a girlfriend or boyfriend?"
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    Sep 27, 2011 3:11 PM GMT
    While we're assuming all poofs to have certain traits, why not send out bait like:

    * humming a bit of a tune from a half-known musical. All queers love musicals and know all the songs by heart, so if he's a Friend of Dorothy he'll join the humming or start singing.
    * misquote a line from Sex in the City. Any properly bred sister will correct you.
    * wear a colored shirt and bring two ties, one a slight mismatch, but kinda "fun", the other fairly decently matched, but more reserved. Ask him which one to pick. Only a sister will pick the right one.
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    Sep 27, 2011 4:52 PM GMT
    Crepuscule saidWhile we're assuming all poofs to have certain traits, why not send out bait like:

    * humming a bit of a tune from a half-known musical. All queers love musicals and know all the songs by heart, so if he's a Friend of Dorothy he'll join the humming or start singing.
    * misquote a line from Sex in the City. Any properly bred sister will correct you.
    * wear a colored shirt and bring two ties, one a slight mismatch, but kinda "fun", the other fairly decently matched, but more reserved. Ask him which one to pick. Only a sister will pick the right one.


    Umm no, I would fail at all of these and I'm pretty sure I like cock. Stop stereotyping ur own people.
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    Sep 27, 2011 4:54 PM GMT
    FrostedFlakes saidI have rather good gaydar and the limited evidence I have on the subject in question indicates he is gay, however, there is no non-awkward way to bring it up. Not sure whether or not he knows I'm gay since there's no reason to randomly bring it up, that's just kinda weird, but it's possible he knows since I don't hide it either. Also, take into account I feel a bit awkward around him already since he's pretty damn hot...

    Does it matter for you anyway? Once they start showing interests in you, you're just gonna start trolling them anyway. I feel bad for the hot guy who actually got scoped out by your gaydar. icon_mad.gif
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    Sep 27, 2011 4:55 PM GMT
    wolverinecub86 said
    Crepuscule saidWhile we're assuming all poofs to have certain traits, why not send out bait like:

    * humming a bit of a tune from a half-known musical. All queers love musicals and know all the songs by heart, so if he's a Friend of Dorothy he'll join the humming or start singing.
    * misquote a line from Sex in the City. Any properly bred sister will correct you.
    * wear a colored shirt and bring two ties, one a slight mismatch, but kinda "fun", the other fairly decently matched, but more reserved. Ask him which one to pick. Only a sister will pick the right one.


    Umm no, I would fail at all of these and I'm pretty sure I like cock. Stop stereotyping ur own people.


    Umm THIS. Stereotyping is horrible. icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 27, 2011 5:11 PM GMT
    Larkin_PLR saidThere are non-random ways to make sure someone knows you're gay. My colleagues assumed I was straight for a long time, but just during the course of conversation an opportunity might come up to say, "Oh yeah. I really liked that restaurant... my ex boyfriend took me there for my birthday" or something along those lines.


    this is what I do to clarify awkward situations without bringing it up for discussion

    or depending on your comfort level using the term boyfriend, maybe something just a notch less overt...

    my ex....his favorite restaurant

    it won't go unnoticed...the tone of conversation will be altered..good or bad.
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    Sep 27, 2011 6:11 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidOdds are that if a music major is hot then he's gay or closeted. I want that flutist's beard inside of me.


    Male flutist??? What else screams gay more?

    Male harpist, I guess.
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    Sep 27, 2011 6:26 PM GMT
    I don't understand the question. I mean I do, but what's the ultimate goal here? Know if he's gay for what?

    Make it a bit more clear. I don't know how this guy will act, but maybe make it clear by being clear. If you are wanting to get to know this guy more intimately, you gotta start to make yourself clear, he'll push it away if he doesn't like it.

    If he does like it, he'll be receptive.

    Eww, I just read my advice and I don't know if it was good. It sounded good at the moment.
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    Sep 27, 2011 6:29 PM GMT
    Crepuscule saidWhile we're assuming all poofs to have certain traits, why not send out bait like:

    * humming a bit of a tune from a half-known musical. All queers love musicals and know all the songs by heart, so if he's a Friend of Dorothy he'll join the humming or start singing.
    * misquote a line from Sex in the City. Any properly bred sister will correct you.
    * wear a colored shirt and bring two ties, one a slight mismatch, but kinda "fun", the other fairly decently matched, but more reserved. Ask him which one to pick. Only a sister will pick the right one.


    This would NOT work with me....
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    Sep 27, 2011 6:43 PM GMT
    Put your penis in him.

    If he doesn't object, he's probably a homo.

    kthxbai
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    Sep 27, 2011 7:12 PM GMT
    I wish I knew there is this stunning guy in my neighborhood. Such a waste.
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    Sep 27, 2011 7:36 PM GMT
    Detain and waterboard him until you are sure whether he is gay or not. Because even if you just ask him he might lie so you should do something extra to make sure.
    If you don't have the facilities for that you could break into his apartment and look for porn. Unfortunately most people only have porn on their computers today so I would come equipped to steal his hard drive in case there's a password on his computer.
  • Crepuscule

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    Sep 28, 2011 9:28 AM GMT
    In reply to wolverinecub86, waimea, & GreenHopper:

    Learn sarcasm boys, life will be more fun then.

    On the overall note, I remember that my gaydar was pinging in the wrong direction just because some guys I talked to had naturally huge eyelashes. Big lashes draws attention to the eyes, and it's easy to mistake a normal blink for a flirt. I even had to ask a guy to show his profile to me so I could make sure it was the lashes that were giving me a false positive.
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    Sep 28, 2011 9:34 AM GMT
    I believe this test may be of assistance:

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    Sep 28, 2011 9:37 PM GMT
    Well, first of all... don't listen to anyone from Europe. They really don't know shit...
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    Sep 28, 2011 9:49 PM GMT
    utahguy saidWell, first of all... don't listen to anyone from Europe. They really don't know shit...


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    Sep 28, 2011 9:52 PM GMT
    lol why do u say that Utahguy? im just curious, and ur ancestors are from europe too.
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    Sep 28, 2011 9:52 PM GMT
    Yes, Frostedflakes. I am gay.
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    Sep 28, 2011 10:46 PM GMT
    Sometimes there's just absolutely no way of telling. Gay people have just as diverse upbringings as everyone else; some are bound to "flame out" while others can hide/fail to exhibit any telling gay characteristics. Sometimes you just have to ask.
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    Sep 28, 2011 10:47 PM GMT
    This is why I moved to midtown. I hardly have to question whether the guy is gay or not.

    The most recent guy I met I just assumed was gay. I was definitely correct.
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    Sep 28, 2011 10:50 PM GMT
    waimea said
    wolverinecub86 said
    Crepuscule saidWhile we're assuming all poofs to have certain traits, why not send out bait like:

    * humming a bit of a tune from a half-known musical. All queers love musicals and know all the songs by heart, so if he's a Friend of Dorothy he'll join the humming or start singing.
    * misquote a line from Sex in the City. Any properly bred sister will correct you.
    * wear a colored shirt and bring two ties, one a slight mismatch, but kinda "fun", the other fairly decently matched, but more reserved. Ask him which one to pick. Only a sister will pick the right one.


    Umm no, I would fail at all of these and I'm pretty sure I like cock. Stop stereotyping ur own people.


    Umm THIS. Stereotyping is horrible. icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    His irony went over your heads, guys.