"How many times?"

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    Sep 27, 2011 3:34 PM GMT
    How often do you get caught staring at a hot guy?

    a.) *nonchalant* What hot guy?

    b.) It's a bit embarrassing to admit that this happens more than it should

    C.) People lock up their sons and husbands when I step outside my lair.

    Most importantly, how often do you tell the guys that you think they're hot -- even if it's in wording that sounds innocent and neutral?

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    Sep 27, 2011 6:02 PM GMT
    I will have to someplace in between a and b.
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    Sep 27, 2011 6:03 PM GMT
    Same here. It depends really, do I notice the hot guy looks at me constantly but breaks eye contact when I make it? I would be more inclined to look at him.

    Does he seem to not notice that I exist? Move on to the next hot guy and hope he does.
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    Sep 27, 2011 6:09 PM GMT
    I'll go with B
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    Sep 27, 2011 8:49 PM GMT
    A, for myself unless I hanging out with a certain friend of mine who is definitely a C. (so much so that one and only time I took him with me to my gym I didn't go there for a month afterwards because he made not only me but a lot of other people uncomfortable. When I asked him to tone it down he said, " I don't care if I'm being that obvious, I don't work out here". Which I replied with, "Yes but I do".
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    Sep 27, 2011 9:06 PM GMT
    Skhokho1987 saidHow often do you get caught staring at a hot guy?
    Every time I see a hot guy.
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    Sep 28, 2011 3:14 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Skhokho1987 saidHow often do you get caught staring at a hot guy?
    Every time I see a hot guy.


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    Sep 28, 2011 3:25 PM GMT
    I would have to say that I am Definetly a C. I have a hard time not noticing hot guys I'm probably gonna get Jacked in the face for it one day But until that day comes I won't atop staring!
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    Sep 28, 2011 3:28 PM GMT
    I don't think I've ever been caught (unless I wanted to be) and I NEVER notice if anyone is eyeing me up.

    I used to joke that I never knew someone was interested in me until they literally touched me.
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    Sep 28, 2011 3:49 PM GMT
    I haven't been caught....yet lol. Earlier this summer I wanted to see the reaction of guys as I randomly struck up a conversation with two distinctly different guys walking on the sidewalk with me in downtown Vancouver. The first was this tall handsome black guy as I was heading to work. Standing next to him waiting for the light to turn I said, "Excuse me. Do you mind me asking you a question?" in my best male macho voice. "How tall am I?" he replied even before I could ask. "I'm 6'-7". He chuckled sayings he gets this question a lot and then proceeded to tell me he played on the UBC basketball team. Unfortunately for me he said he was going to meet this girl...Damn! And I was thinking of calling in sick only blocks from my workplace door if his interest lay elsewhere...

    The other guy totally opposite: twinkish of sorts walking in the gay Davie Village with these killer bright blue checkered shorts (actually it was how he was filling them out that were 'killing' my eyes...) So I caught-up with him - okay, ran up to him and in my best nonchalant voice said, "Great-looking shorts" as we were waiting for the light to change. He said thanks but nothing more. But the roundness of his ass was winking a 'thank you' as he walked ahead of me.
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    Sep 28, 2011 3:57 PM GMT
    Chainers saidSame here. It depends really, do I notice the hot guy looks at me constantly but breaks eye contact when I make it? I would be more inclined to look at him.

    Does he seem to not notice that I exist? Move on to the next hot guy and hope he does.


    I like looking at a handsome guy walking toward me and looking in his eyes a tad bit longer than normal until he feels uncomfortable (if he's straight) and looks away or he is presumably gay or gay-frinedly and smiles back. Try it on 'The Streets of San Francisco' ( don't get much of an opportunity to work the title of a TV show into RJ forum posting...lol), Chainers.
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    Sep 28, 2011 4:08 PM GMT
    Have never been caught staring (to my knowledge), though have noticed some creepers eye raping me, like follow me around everywhere in the gym.. and enter the locker rooms at the exact same moment icon_evil.gif
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    Sep 28, 2011 7:25 PM GMT
    I want to say this for everyone to hear (something I have been thinking about).

    How is the hot guy supposed to know you are interested if you dont look? For real? You have to give some sort of sign.

    Do I mean follow him around and watch him change in his room? Fuck no. But if you see him dont be afraid to make eye contact!
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    Sep 30, 2011 8:33 AM GMT
    Chainers saidI want to say this for everyone to hear (something I have been thinking about).

    How is the hot guy supposed to know you are interested if you dont look? For real? You have to give some sort of sign.

    Do I mean follow him around and watch him change in his room? Fuck no. But if you see him dont be afraid to make eye contact!


    All the conditioning comes into it:

    "Don't talk to strangers, don't gawk" etc.
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    Sep 30, 2011 3:03 PM GMT
    Id say between A and B. I look so disinterested while doing it though, I'm sure they don't notice.
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    Sep 30, 2011 3:04 PM GMT
    Does this mean, that the other guy thinks I'm not as well.

    Yesterday, walking the man magnets (aka dogs), Saw a cute guy as we were walking around the block... He was on his (what I found out later: the grocery store) excursion...

    we came around the last corner of the block and he was about 10 yards in front about to cross paths, and looked over.. smiled.. long smile.. I did the same.

    Walking behind him about 40 yards (dogs were busy sniffing a tree). He does the 1-2-3... turn and look and smile.

    Saw that he lives in the complex 2 doors up.

    An attractive guy in the neighborhood to have coffee with. +1

    Yes.. I looked and kept looking.. the boyfriend says.. you can window-shop.. just not make a purchase icon_smile.gif ..