When did you turn queer? Share your story here.

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    Sep 28, 2011 11:33 PM GMT
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    Sep 28, 2011 11:40 PM GMT
    Well, I'm glad you asked.

    I think it was when I watched my first GOP debate. I remember thinking, "What a bunch of faggots..."

    But then I realized they were all fairly rich, and I figured maybe they were on to something? I decided I'd choose to be gay, starting the next day.
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    Sep 29, 2011 1:37 AM GMT
    Well long story short we fucked i liked it. End quote icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
  • mstevens

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    Sep 29, 2011 5:09 AM GMT
    I was a freshman in college and had dated girls through high school. I had a really awesome roommate who was the nicest guy in the world to me. He took care of me when I was sick, did my laundry when I was stressed out from school, and helped me out anyway he could. He was my best friend freshman year. I ended up being the very first guy he came out to. I was totally cool with him.

    We had a lot of gay moments living together. I taught him a lot of martial arts, so we sparred and wrestled a lot. I also took him to the gym with me a lot and showed him some tricks. A lot of times I would have my shirt off when we were in the room. He asked me a few times if he could feel my arm when I flexed.

    One night I came back to the room really stressed out, and he started giving me a back rub. He asked what was wrong and I told him how annoying girls can be. After a few minutes of the most amazing backrub I have ever gotten, he started doing some more pleasuring things to me. I just relaxed and enjoyed the moment. Lets just say I enjoyed it enough to want to explore some more. He became my first bf.
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    Sep 29, 2011 5:55 AM GMT
    When I started getting hard to guys and when I realized that I was about as attracted to girls as I am to my chapstick that's next to me right now.
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    Sep 29, 2011 6:12 AM GMT
    I was jest a-settin' here a whittlin' away when I a-heared a pig squeelin' and then my toes jest started a tappin' ta the prettiest danged banjo music and I said - what in tarnation is that a-comin from?!?!?!

    Then I realized that JackNWNJ done took to the fancy internetz box again with one a his dadbern revelations!!!

    He's a gonna start speakin' in tongues soon!!!!

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    Sep 29, 2011 6:18 AM GMT
    I was born this way icon_cool.gif
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    Sep 29, 2011 6:20 AM GMT
    I had a girlfriend, we didn't do anything. I kept looking at her brother working out and she got mad. Then 5 years later...her brothers in my bed right now icon_smile.gif

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    Sep 29, 2011 6:25 AM GMT
    adam228 saidI had a girlfriend, we didn't do anything. I kept looking at her brother working out and she got mad. Then 5 years later...her brothers in my bed right now icon_smile.gif



    Get out! That really happened? The ex-GF's-brother-in-your-bed part?
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    Sep 29, 2011 6:29 AM GMT
    Yes! It turns out he's a very closeted kind of guy, so we hook-up in between my serious boyfriends lol. It works out for us both ;)
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    Sep 29, 2011 6:31 AM GMT
    You dirty slut!!! j/kicon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 29, 2011 6:34 AM GMT
    gotta keep the skills up and have stories to make the serious boyfriends jealous ;)
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    Sep 29, 2011 6:43 AM GMT
    i've always knew i was but the roller coaster ride started when i first visited San Francisco and i saw this big billboard asking if i was GAY.com then the rest is history icon_smile.gif
  • thisguy023

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    Sep 29, 2011 6:45 AM GMT

    In 1971 I saw the French boy choir 'Les Poppys' on tv and it made me feel very queer. I was eight.
  • Muscleluvinla

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    Sep 29, 2011 6:49 AM GMT
    Never "turned" queer. Find that phrasing stupid. I was born gay. And never turned into anything other than who I am today...which is a gay man. Simple answer.
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    Sep 29, 2011 6:55 AM GMT
    joe122 saidWhen I started getting hard to guys and when I realized that I was about as attracted to girls as I am to my chapstick that's next to me right now.


    This.

    Though, I do love me some cherry-flavored chapstick icon_confused.gif
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    Sep 29, 2011 7:05 AM GMT
    Born.... no one turns.... cept to see who is fucking you..LOL
  • KyleDaniel87

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    Sep 29, 2011 7:14 AM GMT
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    All the kids in my fourth grade class were getting crushes on other students of the opposite sex when I realized my crush was my teacher!!! Not only was he my teacher but a coach for the high school football team! Thats why I am the way that I am today !!!! Thanks coach Dickmann!
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    Sep 29, 2011 7:42 AM GMT
    I turned gay when I was a junior in high school, at a high school state honors choir gig OMEA thingy. I got placed next to this one guy...SUPEHR CUUUUTE!!! (turned out he batted for our team too; he set my gaydar off, but I was too polite and kept it to myself...) icon_redface.gif
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    Sep 29, 2011 7:50 AM GMT
    I fell in love with my straight friend....damn you straight guys! They all end up being ass holes too. icon_mad.gif
  • mstevens

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    Sep 29, 2011 11:56 PM GMT
    What age were all of you? I was 18 when I had my experience.
  • GQjock

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    Sep 30, 2011 12:03 AM GMT
    There were probably signs before and I had a feeling that I was Different ... from the other guys ... but I didn't know why

    until I was about 15

    I was paging through a magazine and there were these pictures of some shirtless guys
    and I turned the page back to the pictures ... and then it just HIT ME icon_eek.gif

    Holy Crap............... I'm Gay

    ...
  • creature

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    Sep 30, 2011 12:05 AM GMT
    I knew I was gay when I was 5.

    But I would not say I turned queer or gay, that's the age I discovered I was.
  • Timbales

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    Sep 30, 2011 12:08 AM GMT
    I don't identify as queer.
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    Sep 30, 2011 2:03 AM GMT
    mstevens saidWhat age were all of you? I was 18 when I had my experience.


    Age for first experience? 25 or so. Then nothing for a few years.

    Didn't have my first kiss until I was almost 31. THEN I came out a few weeks later. That kiss was better than all the (bad) sex I had had with girls, and, although it took a few weeks to realize it, THAT was my light bulb / "A-ha!" moment.