Guy playing hot and cold...

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    Sep 29, 2011 3:37 PM GMT
    Solved.*
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    Sep 29, 2011 4:01 PM GMT
    you're pictureless and this is your first post so no one is going to respond to this. There is a push to get rid of posters like you (no offense man.) But I don't think you should be trippin over some dude who has flies buzzing around him. He's probably dirty.
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    Sep 29, 2011 4:12 PM GMT
    Oh didn't know that. I don't really post pictures online so I guess I'm screwed, haha. Oh well, see ya.
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    Sep 29, 2011 4:13 PM GMT
    Let it go
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    Sep 29, 2011 4:28 PM GMT


    Flies.
    Are they girls that hang around the man? Gay men?

    You seem to genuinely sneer at them, and yet this happened, "And that's when I heard the most annoying bits of conversation between himself and his fly. "He's just not confident enough.", comes out of his face about me. His fly said he was being too hard on me and he should just tell me. "

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    Sep 29, 2011 4:36 PM GMT
    First off... Your judging people from L.A. Sayin there crazy and con artists? Look at what you wrote! You seem a little crazy your self. Why make this difficult, just ask the guy out. Man up!!

    Problem solved.... Drama!!

    Man or mouse?
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    Sep 29, 2011 6:55 PM GMT
    Dude. You live in West Hollywood and you're worried about being discreet?
    I wouldn't expect you to come out to everyone in your life at the same time, but you live in West Fucking Hollywood; there is NO safer place to BE out socially and professionally. There is a presumption of homosexuality for anyone that lives in Weho.

    As far as the Italian is concerned, there is no potential for chemistry at this point. Chalk it up as a loss. The Italian is right: you lack confidence. I can't tell you how uncomfortable would be to be the object of your type of affection. Don't blame it on the "fruit flies." I can't say I would react the same way as the Italian, but still.
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    Sep 29, 2011 9:02 PM GMT
    Just going to clear some of these assumptions up.

    I live in West Hollywood, I go to school in Santa Monica. It's not remotely safe to admit you're gay at that school. I already have had 4 different guys whispering about jumping me just because they *think* I might be gay. And a total of 7 guys avoiding me like I have the plague because they've decided I'm interested in them because I smiled at them when they spoke to me. Oh and then all of the random guys and girls who call me a faggot just because I wear button downs and loafers/dress shoes instead of baggy shirts and overpriced sneakers. So you'll have to excuse me for keeping my sexuality to myself. Not sure where you guys are where you can just advertise it to the world without any consequences but don't take it for granted or assume everyone else can.

    Also not sure how I'm a pansy when so far I've done all the work and he's passively sat around making eyes, but I guess that's what I get for asking for advice on the internet.

    The whole Rice Krispie thing came from the fact that I literally have one on me all the time and he randomly gave me some Skittles(that he poured into his own hand first btw)...so I really did nothing he didn't do. I at least made the effort to write a note asking to talk privately minus the audience.

    I also don't hate women and wasn't trying to insult his friends. I only called them fruit flies because they're always buzzing around him when they can clearly see I'm trying to get him alone. That said they do at least try to get him to dial it back because he's got all these little tests he's giving me when I don't play those little games with him.

    Anyway I'll take it from here. I will go directly tell him that I'm interested...in case he's slow and missed that. If he's somehow no longer interested because I didn't blurt out to the whole world my sexuality when he never has then I'll probably tell him off for playing games and move on with my life. At the end of the day no matter how it's turned around he was interested in me first, he came to me, but he never once asked me out or anything. All he did was flirt and stare at me. So I don't see how I'm the one who lacks confidence. The one time I had him alone he ran out of the room before I could open my mouth.

    I can own that I wasn't being direct but by no means was I being a pansy. I'm just aware of the world we live in...and West Hollywood is no gay mecca so I got a good laugh out of that. There are plenty of homophobic yuppies around here as well as racists and flat out catty people. California isn't a gay friendly state by any means so cut the crap with that lie seriously...Prop 8 should've proven that.