TO SHAVE OR NOT TO SHAVE !?!?!

  • 24HockeyNut

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    Sep 30, 2011 12:45 PM GMT
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    icon_question.gifI've been wondering whether or not to shave my chest/stomach and well other parts? I am quite hairy and just wondering what most gay men like. I prefer hair on guys but I also want to appeal to more of a broader group of men. I know LIFE or DEATH situation. Just was wondering.icon_question.gif
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    Sep 30, 2011 1:46 PM GMT
    I don't know how much weight my opinion will have, but keep it.

    You're really cute, and the chest hair makes you hotter!

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    Sep 30, 2011 1:51 PM GMT
    I'm not shaving my chest lately. I have a good amount of hair and have done it a couple of times, but the guy I'm seeing now likes it natural, so I'm leaving it alone for him to enjoy!
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    Sep 30, 2011 1:52 PM GMT
    I don't think you'll open yourself to a broader group of men by shaving, just a different group of men. You close yourself to the guys who love hairy men.

    If you prefer hair on guys, then "be the change you want to see". icon_wink.gif

    Either way you're very handsome, so in terms of looks it doesn't matter.
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    Sep 30, 2011 1:52 PM GMT
    I think fur is sexy. I wouldnt do it. shaved pubes are gross. Trim is ok. But shaved. nah
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    Sep 30, 2011 1:53 PM GMT
    My opinion is, keep it. It's who you are.
    All i advise is, you can trim it, so it looks like you do spend time on yourself and groom yourself.
    Don't shave it all off, would be an unnatural look for you.
  • 24HockeyNut

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    Sep 30, 2011 1:54 PM GMT
    but don't you guys find that some guys just don't like hair at all. It's happened twice to me recently and I really am debating it. I don't like everything shaved. Maybe a compromise would be to trim.....
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    Sep 30, 2011 1:55 PM GMT
    I think you should go with the look that you find the most comfortable. I have a very hairy chest & started shaving it in 1998 kept it that way ever since. Could care less if anyone else likes it or not
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    Sep 30, 2011 1:55 PM GMT
    Only 2 definate shaving places to remove hair r sacks & back.
    Back hair is usually a definate turnoff.
    Shave sacks if u want more action on them.
    OK to trim bush but "bald" makes a guy look pre adolescent. So real turn off for me when guys do that Nice bush is invitation to go there 4 me. .
    Rest of bod is a personal choice and since I can't c any of that area on u , can't give any suggestions.
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    Sep 30, 2011 1:55 PM GMT
    24HockeyNut saidbut don't you guys find that some guys just don't like hair at all. It's happened twice to me recently and I really am debating it. I don't like everything shaved. Maybe a compromise would be to trim.....


    Yep and then there are guys like who love it. If I wanted a waxed, smooth body I would still bang broads. I dont want to cuddle with a woman or a little hairless boy. Gimme a man.
  • metatextual

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    Sep 30, 2011 1:57 PM GMT
    24HockeyNut saidbut don't you guys find that some guys just don't like hair at all. It's happened twice to me recently and I really am debating it. I don't like everything shaved. Maybe a compromise would be to trim.....


    I've found just as many times where the guy is upset that I've trimmed my chest recently, so you're better off just leaving it. Btw, cute Blue Jays hat; have you seen the new logo?
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    Sep 30, 2011 1:58 PM GMT
    You're in Sudbury....winter's a coming and you're going to need your winter fur for warmth.icon_wink.gif

    Keep it. Super sexy and tell the guys who have something against it to bugger off. Appeal to yourself first.
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    Sep 30, 2011 1:58 PM GMT
    Shave it, and then you'll know if you like it that way. It will grow back anyway.

    As for myself, I shave because most of the guys I'm interested in tend to prefer smooth over hairy.
  • 24HockeyNut

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    Sep 30, 2011 1:59 PM GMT
    metatextual said
    24HockeyNut saidbut don't you guys find that some guys just don't like hair at all. It's happened twice to me recently and I really am debating it. I don't like everything shaved. Maybe a compromise would be to trim.....


    I've found just as many times where the guy is upset that I've trimmed my chest recently, so you're better off just leaving it. Btw, cute Blue Jays hat; have you seen the new logo?


    Yeah they are going back to the retro look. Remember Cito and his retro jacket that he always wore. Back to that LOVE IT!
  • Latenight30

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    Sep 30, 2011 1:59 PM GMT
    you seem to have the great ability to grow a nice beard. If the beard is in, keep the chest hair. No Beard and no chest hair, you could go out with the same person as someone completely different. I like the smooth look
  • 24HockeyNut

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    Sep 30, 2011 2:02 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidShave it, and then you'll know if you like it that way. It will grow back anyway.

    As for myself, I shave because most of the guys I'm interested in tend to prefer smooth over hairy.


    For some reason.. I don't know why!?!? I've been attracted to younger guys. This is a new phase for me BELIEVE me and they're not that into hair. Guess I should stick with the older guys that I'm use to dating hahaha who could care less.
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    Sep 30, 2011 2:03 PM GMT
    #1 Shave it all off. Your panties will look much sexier and girlish if it's shaven. Be sure and wax your eyebrows in a Liza Mineli fashion to complete the look. And don't forget, a simple toe ring can set the whole thing off with that touch of bling.

    #2 Please use the "search topics" feature to find the one zillion existing threads exactly like this one before creating a new one. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 30, 2011 2:05 PM GMT
    You've answered your question. If you are more attracted to younger guys who are not into hair, then shave.

    like I said before, this is not a broader demographic, just a specific one that interests you. Go with what will get you what you want.

    24HockeyNut said
    paulflexes saidShave it, and then you'll know if you like it that way. It will grow back anyway.

    As for myself, I shave because most of the guys I'm interested in tend to prefer smooth over hairy.


    For some reason.. I don't know why!?!? I've been attracted to younger guys. This is a new phase for me BELIEVE me and they're not that into hair. Guess I should stick with the older guys that I'm use to dating hahaha who could care less.
  • 24HockeyNut

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    Sep 30, 2011 2:06 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said#1 Shave it all off. Your panties will look much sexier and girlish if it's shaven. Be sure and wax your eyebrows in a Liza Mineli fashion to complete the look. And don't forget, a simple toe ring can set the whole thing off with that touch of bling.

    #2 Please use the "search topics" feature to find the one zillion existing threads exactly like this one before creating a new one. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Thanks for looking for a post to be a complete dick. NOTED!
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    Sep 30, 2011 2:08 PM GMT
    24HockeyNut saidFor some reason.. I don't know why!?!? I've been attracted to younger guys. This is a new phase for me BELIEVE me and they're not that into hair. Guess I should stick with the older guys that I'm use to dating hahaha who could care less.

    LIES!

    I'm younger! It's one of my favourite things on a guy! Maybe you should look elsewhere for these guys. If they don't like you for who you are, then why put up with their demands?
  • 24HockeyNut

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    Sep 30, 2011 2:09 PM GMT
    creyente saidYou've answered your question. If you are more attracted to younger guys who are not into hair, then shave.

    like I said before, this is not a broader demographic, just a specific one that interests you. Go with what will get you what you want.

    24HockeyNut said
    paulflexes saidShave it, and then you'll know if you like it that way. It will grow back anyway.

    As for myself, I shave because most of the guys I'm interested in tend to prefer smooth over hairy.


    For some reason.. I don't know why!?!? I've been attracted to younger guys. This is a new phase for me BELIEVE me and they're not that into hair. Guess I should stick with the older guys that I'm use to dating hahaha who could care less.

    Thanks so much for your opinion.
  • hawkeye7

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    Sep 30, 2011 2:13 PM GMT
    I like hair and I hate shaving my face but I do like to keep my body hair under control. Back hair has to go.
    Your beard looks really good on you and if you start shaving everying else it will just look odd.
  • 24HockeyNut

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    Sep 30, 2011 2:17 PM GMT
    hawkeye7 saidI like hair and I hate shaving my face but I do like to keep my body hair under control. Back hair has to go.
    Your beard looks really good on you and if you start shaving everying else it will just look odd.

    Yeah true. I guess I can just trim and take care of it. Looking a little sweater vest'y right now.
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    Sep 30, 2011 2:17 PM GMT
    hawkeye7 saidI like hair and I hate shaving my face but I do like to keep my body hair under control. Back hair has to go.
    Your beard looks really good on you and if you start shaving everying else it will just look odd.


    Ugh, dude, what about those guys who are hairy. They have hairy legs, happy trail, etc. Then they just shave their pubes. It looks so stupid. I never understand that.
  • 24HockeyNut

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    Sep 30, 2011 2:18 PM GMT
    Luckily no back hair.. that's a for sure go for me.. but what about butts? shaving/trimming is uncomfortable in that area.