I've come to the conclusion that people on this site are full of crap...

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    Oct 02, 2011 5:12 AM GMT
    They email with no intent on meeting. They IM you just to see your private pics. And I'm talking about local people here. Not somebody way out in Scotland or Ibiza. Shit, for all it's worth I might as well be on adam4adam. Hell, I can guarantee I'll meet someone faster on craigslist of all places...decent at that, faster than this site. Seems like this place is for oo0-ing and ahh-ing and pats on the back on each other's bodies rather than actually meeting. And when the subject does come up, it's very vague and rarely follows thru.

    This shit is whack. I just want to tell everyone, don't even think about emailing me anymore. Just wasting my time. All it's good for is the forums it seems.



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    Oct 02, 2011 5:17 AM GMT
    Awww, Mocha...

    Don't give up, sir! There are good people out there that will appreciate who you are completely. Just don't give up searching and I'm sure you'll find someone that can completely appreciate every aspect of your being, ok? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 02, 2011 5:23 AM GMT
    It's true at least for myself. Whenever I open my body up, crap falls out.
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    Oct 02, 2011 5:35 AM GMT
    LOL. It's the same on other gay profile sites. Nothing surprising here. I joined this site mostly for the forums.
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    Oct 02, 2011 5:50 AM GMT
    Youuuu knowwww how the timeeee fliesssss


    onlyyyyyy yesterdayyyy was the timeee of our livesssss
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    Oct 02, 2011 9:14 AM GMT
    A high percentage of people everywhere are full of crap. RJ is a microcosm of culture as whole.... you have to wade through a river of shit to find a gem.

    They're there, though. Maybe you've just had a streak of bad luck.
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    Oct 02, 2011 8:46 PM GMT
    So what you're saying if I got it right.. I shouldn't keep sending you all those emails?
  • mizu5

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    Oct 02, 2011 8:59 PM GMT
    BUt this... this ia a site for fitness advice and forums, realistically. It's NOT for meeting up. At least... I don't think it's really set up like that, or it's main purpose surely isn't to meet.


    but I do udnerstand whatchu mean.
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    Oct 02, 2011 9:01 PM GMT
    I agree
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    Oct 02, 2011 9:09 PM GMT
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    Oct 02, 2011 9:31 PM GMT
    yes i totally agree, especially for an ugly piece of shit like myself, no guys on here wanna get with someone like me, so i hear ya brotha, i'm DOWN with that!!
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    Oct 02, 2011 9:48 PM GMT
    This site is full of shit
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    Oct 02, 2011 9:54 PM GMT
    hey dont think like that. I know I am fairly new but still. On sites like these, there of course is going to be flakes and weirdos. It is like this for every site. This site specifically is mainly for fitness tips and chatting with like minded individual...not really a dating site.

    I've been messaged by a couple of weirdos and all you do is block, ignore their posts, and move on. There really are some great people here and you just have to weed out the bad ones. There is no need to compare everyone here to those people that messaged you. It isn't fair and frankly immature.

    I hope things go better for you Mocha.

    -Alex
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    Oct 02, 2011 10:05 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidAnother tirade?

    Again?


    Why would you think that? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 02, 2011 10:07 PM GMT
    I only joined for the forums never thought of it as a place to meet people. Don't really care to
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    Oct 02, 2011 10:14 PM GMT
    AlexanderB saidOn sites like these, there of course is going to be flakes and weirdos. It is like this for every site. This site specifically is mainly for fitness tips and chatting with like minded individual...not really a dating site.


    Yeah I can understand that, but my thing is people coming to me initiating things or suggesting to do things together but then dropping out. Just stop hearing from them when you put things into play.

    Like for example: I was messaged by someone I thought was pretty hot looking. I didn't respond right away as I wasn't online for like a week or so. So it wasn't as if I was coming off desperate. He messages me, Hi I'm so and so yadda yadda. We should do this or that and get together. After emailing back and forth 1 message per day, I decided after 5 days of that, we should exchange numbers already. He stop replying.

    Contrast that to last night: Seen a guy at the bar. I went up to him and introduced myself. We chatted for a bit. At the end of the night, we met up again and went to breakfast. Easy stuff.

    Yet on here, people hit me up; ask me out...and then they can't even make it to the 1st step. It's like, who the hell are these people? Who is this other person behind the screen that I'm talking to, to make them behave in the way they are doing. It's not even normal stuff. Normally, when a person messages/approaches you or responds to a message or approach; there's an attraction and you exchange numbers. Here, they may do the first one maybe the latter, but not much else.

    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidAnother tirade?

    Again?


    Not a tirade. A fact....

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    Oct 02, 2011 10:17 PM GMT
    If its not a "meetup" place, then why is there a section of the profile that says "Who do you want to meet, or type of guy your looking for a workout partner?". Ive had guys that live down road from me see my profile but dont say a word to me, even if i send them a thank you message.
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    Oct 02, 2011 10:25 PM GMT
    This is a site for ooooing and ahhhing. It's a fitness site to show your progress and share fitness info with each other. Up at the top of your screen it says "Realjock, Gay Fitness Health and Life" Not "Realjock, Get Your Dick Sucked".
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    Oct 02, 2011 10:30 PM GMT
    ULmatt saidThis is a site for ooooing and ahhhing. It's a fitness site to show your progress and share fitness info with each other. Up at the top of your screen it says "Realjock, Gay Fitness Health and Life" Not "Realjock, Get Your Dick Sucked".


    Who suggested that I was even remotely suggesting anything about sex?

    If what you say is correct, then it also doesn't market itself as a free strip show either. A lot of people ask me to unlock my pics and I really don't like to. It's just a cheap way of trying to see men with their shirts off.

    You cannot possibly convince me that has anything to do with health fitness and life.
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    Oct 02, 2011 10:52 PM GMT
    MochaMuscle said
    ULmatt saidThis is a site for ooooing and ahhhing. It's a fitness site to show your progress and share fitness info with each other. Up at the top of your screen it says "Realjock, Gay Fitness Health and Life" Not "Realjock, Get Your Dick Sucked".


    Who suggested that I was even remotely suggesting anything about sex?

    If what you say is correct, then it also doesn't market itself as a free strip show either. A lot of people ask me to unlock my pics and I really don't like to. It's just a cheap way of trying to see men with their shirts off.

    You cannot possibly convince me that has anything to do with health fitness and life.

    LOL. If you don't want to share your private pics, then don't. Or better yet, don't have any private pics. That's probably the easiest way to reduce the amount of flaky guys that might contact you.
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    Oct 02, 2011 11:38 PM GMT
    Those RJ-guys you set up meetings with, do they have verified profiles? Do they participate here in the forums?

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    Oct 02, 2011 11:45 PM GMT
    Yo, this bitch has been complaining about the same crap over over over over over over over over again.

    It's the same story with him all the time.
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    Oct 03, 2011 6:10 PM GMT
    bhp91126 saidThose RJ-guys you set up meetings with, do they have verified profiles? Do they participate here in the forums?


    Actually no they don't. But I don't really put too much emphasis on that. But come to think of it, it might be something to start keeping in mind and maybe it makes a difference. Just maybe...

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    LOL. If you don't want to share your private pics, then don't. Or better yet, don't have any private pics. That's probably the easiest way to reduce the amount of flaky guys that might contact you.


    True...however just to clarify, my private pics aren't literally 'privates' they are just other photos. I just don't wish to broadcast my entire photo album to everyone.

    Like I had someone open a private pic for me the other day. It's like how many pics of your torso do I need to see? Do I really need 13?

    Predictably, he hits me up and lives in my area. When I suggested meeting? "He's sleepy". I was like, well you're making me yawn too.

    Again, I operate in realtime. If they aren't talking about meeting and making it happen, I'm not interested in dragging things along for weeks and months. I have guys who want to meet me all the time anyway.


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    Oct 03, 2011 6:12 PM GMT
    waimea saidYo, this bitch has been complaining about the same crap over over over over over over over over again.

    It's the same story with him all the time.


    I know, someone needs to get him a waaaaaaambulance!
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    Oct 03, 2011 6:24 PM GMT
    waimea saidYo, this bitch has been complaining about the same crap over over over over over over over over again.

    It's the same story with him all the time.
    How the hell is he complaining when he is telling the truth? icon_rolleyes.gif