How would YOU define a fulfilling and satisfying sex life?

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    Oct 02, 2011 1:37 PM GMT
    How would YOU define a fulfilling and satisfying sex life?

    Multiple hookups?
    A regular thing with a fwb?
    Only attainable in a relationship?

    Keep it classy!!
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    Oct 02, 2011 1:53 PM GMT
    Something consistent with a dash of creativity, humor, roughness, playfulness, versatility and adventure.
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    Oct 02, 2011 1:54 PM GMT
    2 versatiles, so once one blows, swap over and continue
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    Oct 02, 2011 1:59 PM GMT
    Someone who a freak like me
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    Oct 02, 2011 2:04 PM GMT
    Guys who recognize the need for flexibility and versatility. That doesn't mean that if each likes a certainly position or approach, that it isn't
    good.. it means that sex is changed up and the guys realize the need for
    new, for different and for giving.... the ability to put the partner's needs above that of your own. Avoid the same old pattern.

    Multiple hookups are about the last thing I'd find satisfying.
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    Oct 02, 2011 2:11 PM GMT
    Mine, of course.
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    Oct 02, 2011 2:42 PM GMT
    no-one finds multiple hook ups satisfying. They do it because they have no option either due to intimacy problems or lack of a BF
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    Oct 02, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    Enought frustration to keep wanting more and never feeling bored.
    Enought action to keep life interesting and the skills sharp ;-)
  • sbwlguy

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    Oct 02, 2011 2:53 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidno-one finds multiple hook ups satisfying. They do it because they have no option either due to intimacy problems or lack of a BF


    Now you see, that is one opinion I've never really understood. I hook up casually quite often and find it satisfying. It turns me on massively and I hardly think of myself as having intimacy problems.
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    Oct 02, 2011 3:17 PM GMT
    in a relationship
    both vers
    creativity from BOTH parties
    complete honesty
    romance
    emotional security

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    Oct 02, 2011 3:52 PM GMT
    Hmmm. I suppose what is really satisfying is being in a relationship where they are exclusively sharing themselves with you and only you. They can read your cues and try to give you what you want. Just trying is enough because you understand that they really want to give you what you desire.

    I suppose I'm a weirdo but I get really get going when I can see there's a strong desire to know me physically (no matter really what specific act they are trying on me). I've only been completely satisfied within the comfort of a relationship, though.
  • wander2340

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    Oct 02, 2011 3:57 PM GMT
    While I have many sexual fantasies that, if they actually happened, would be really hot your question was about what is the most satisfying. Honestly, the most satisfying sex is alone with my man. Preferably at least once a day, mid afternoon and in the shower.
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    Oct 02, 2011 3:59 PM GMT
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  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Oct 02, 2011 4:06 PM GMT
    For it to be a 100% truly satisfying & fulfilling sex life I would have to be in love with the person so that we are making love rather than just having sex. I don't think sex can be fully satisfying without that important ingredient -- romance.
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    Oct 02, 2011 4:09 PM GMT
    When my right hand stops complaining.
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    Oct 02, 2011 4:10 PM GMT
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    Oct 02, 2011 4:20 PM GMT
    Kalifornication saidWhen my right hand stops complaining.


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    Oct 02, 2011 4:48 PM GMT
    Anyone who's into voyeurism I think would satisfy me most....that or someone who can have intense, uninhibited, fast 5-8 minute sex and then be done.
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    Oct 02, 2011 5:21 PM GMT
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    Oct 02, 2011 5:23 PM GMT
    using my right hand when i need be :-)
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    Oct 02, 2011 5:30 PM GMT
    Someone who can satisfy my every fantasy/kink..........
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    Oct 02, 2011 8:56 PM GMT
    Soulasphyxi saidHmmm. I suppose what is really satisfying is being in a relationship where they are exclusively sharing themselves with you and only you. They can read your cues and try to give you what you want. Just trying is enough because you understand that they really want to give you what you desire.

    I suppose I'm a weirdo but I get really get going when I can see there's a strong desire to know me physically (no matter really what specific act they are trying on me). I've only been completely satisfied within the comfort of a relationship, though.


    This. I can only be satisfied when I'm with someone who i deeply care about and we just want to make each other happy and feel good. Old fashioned? I think so but it's great.
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    Oct 02, 2011 8:56 PM GMT
    PUT IT IN ME, DADDY
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    Oct 02, 2011 8:57 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]midwestcommuter said[/cite]

    Only attainable in a relationship?

    Keep it classy!! [/quote


    For me it's this... I don't like the cheap hook up =P fells good but yet empty.