Have you had a straight / bi guy ask you to wrestle so he could maybe mess around with you?

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    Oct 03, 2011 5:39 AM GMT
    I had a roommate in college that wanted to maybe have sex with me. He finally said "why don't you wrestle with me like my other friends do?" He would walk around with a hard on (he was a college football stud), and would say under his breath, "buttpop" I emailed him after 20 years. He's married with 2 kids. Bald and chubby and unattractive now. I always wished to wrestly him though but chickened out.
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    Oct 03, 2011 12:26 PM GMT
    One of my friends always loved to wrestle. I didn't because I didn't want to go there. He is very VERY hot and I knew that I would get totally turned on. He may have been egging you on - for some reason, some straight guys like to flirt with gay guys. It's so weird. I fell in love with a straight friend of mine because he kept touching me affectionately and we grew close, but he didn't want to actually do anything.
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    Oct 03, 2011 12:48 PM GMT
    No, I have not.

    What is with this "messing around" guys talk about?

    It's much easier to say "sex" or "fuck" as they only have three and four letters respectively.

    It's like they are afraid to say it, so they have to code it in this weirdspeak.

    Man up and say "Hey, wanna fuck?" It's much hotter and more to the point.
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    Oct 03, 2011 1:27 PM GMT
    I wrestle w my straight friends all the time. and yeah i think they do want to experiment. with one he'll end up like dry humping me towards the end, then we'd stop wrestling. the other we actually wrestled and i loved it, sometimes he would do this breathing thing on my neck and it took all my willpower to not get a hardon right then and there. unfortunately though i have never 'messed around' w either of them, but i'd love too. how do i get them to take it further?? help haha
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    Oct 03, 2011 1:38 PM GMT
    Yeah, in high school and early on in college.
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    Oct 03, 2011 3:53 PM GMT
    berkshire saidI wrestle w my straight friends all the time. and yeah i think they do want to experiment. with one he'll end up like dry humping me towards the end, then we'd stop wrestling. the other we actually wrestled and i loved it, sometimes he would do this breathing thing on my neck and it took all my willpower to not get a hardon right then and there. unfortunately though i have never 'messed around' w either of them, but i'd love too. how do i get them to take it further?? help haha



    A curious guy will usually give it up if you get behind him and just start a friendly shoulder massage. If you feel he is receptive continue with a back rub and then his butt and his hole. You probally won't score a fuck the first time because they are too tight but this will have laid the ground work for
    Future fun.
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    Oct 03, 2011 6:19 PM GMT
    berkshire saidI wrestle w my straight friends all the time. and yeah i think they do want to experiment. with one he'll end up like dry humping me towards the end, then we'd stop wrestling. the other we actually wrestled and i loved it, sometimes he would do this breathing thing on my neck and it took all my willpower to not get a hardon right then and there. unfortunately though i have never 'messed around' w either of them, but i'd love too. how do i get them to take it further?? help haha


    That breathing on your neck sounds hot. Probably sniffing you up a little.
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    Oct 03, 2011 6:33 PM GMT
    bostonxfit saidsome straight guys like to flirt with gay guys.


    so very true. alas, no one's ever asked me 2 wrestle w/ them. icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 03, 2011 6:59 PM GMT
    During my senior year in hs my uber-masculine jock friend (super hot) kept wrestling around with me constantly.

    So I came out to him. And the wrestling increased...

    One day back at his place he suggested we "help each other out" . . . I thought he was teasing me and said no, though I really wanted to. The next day the same thing happened. Still thinking he was just teasing me and didn't want to actually do anything, I said no. He picked me up over his shoulder and carried me to his room and dropped me on his bed and said "take off your clothes" . . . We just messed around, but he got super weird and distant after that. He was clearly freaked out by what we did.

    A few years later though he asked me to fuck him and I did. Then a year after that he wanted to fuck me, and I did that. But then about a year after that he wanted to do a threesome with his then-gf and I said no.

    He maintains to this day that he's straight because he almost never wants to do anything with guys and only wants to with me because of our friendship and history. I would say he's bi but so far on the "straight" end of the scale it's negligible. The thing is he's uber kinky in his straight sex, so I think that just makes him more open minded than most straight guys and occasionally doing something with me is just a tiny aspect of his being kink.

    Probably most straight guys get curious occasionally but don't act on it because of their social worries and vanilla attitudes.
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    Oct 03, 2011 7:08 PM GMT
    i wrestle all the time with my buds. just messing around, but not "messing around."
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    Oct 03, 2011 7:12 PM GMT
    thenes saidI would say he's bi but so far on the "straight" end of the scale it's negligible. The thing is he's uber kinky in his straight sex, so I think that just makes him more open minded than most straight guys and occasionally doing something with me is just a tiny aspect of his being kink.

    Probably most straight guys get curious occasionally but don't act on it because of their social worries and vanilla attitudes.


    Agree (tho I don't know about "most"). Sexuality is a continuum, not an A or B switch, and there are going to be plenty of guys out there who would have sex with a dude in certain circumstances: meaning, with a very, very small set of guys who happen to do it for them. Every once in awhile we are lucky enough to run into one of them. icon_twisted.gif

    My story is: I like wrestling as a kink too, and I have a very buff straight friend who loves to be dominant. Our first time hanging out together (involving a club in SF, plenty of booze, and a hotel room) turned into a 3 hour ass-whupping session. No sex, and probably never will be, but he loves to kick my butt on the mat (or hotel bed, as it turned out). Hot, hot night.
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    Oct 03, 2011 7:12 PM GMT
    I've neither time for not interest in "curious" guys that want to "mess around."

    There are plenty of hot guys that know they are homos and want to fuck.



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    Oct 03, 2011 7:19 PM GMT
    heeb saidI've neither time for not interest in "curious" guys that want to "mess around."

    There are plenty of hot guys that know they are homos and want to fuck.


    Totally valid. There are some of us, though, that like the challenge. Or the particular object of the exercise (the guy in question) is hot enough to make it worth taking a run at it. Or we just like to wrestle/horse around and don't even want or need sex as a result. Different strokes, etc.
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    Oct 03, 2011 10:12 PM GMT
    Yes, definitely. I had a buddy who would come over to my place and first thing he'd do is take off his shirt and start flexing in the mirrors. . . I'd do the same, he'd feel my biceps, etc

    . . . then he'd challenge me to a wrestling match!! He ran a karate school so he was in great shape. . . so yea, it was pretty awesome
  • djzilla

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    Oct 08, 2011 4:40 PM GMT
    I so wish!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :-)
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    Oct 08, 2011 4:47 PM GMT
    meh ... a lot ... and i mean it ..some of them were my friends .. they always try to dry hump me .. as i don't feel that :C
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    Oct 29, 2011 3:11 AM GMT
    Yeah I have definately had that happen with friends
  • wellwell

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    Oct 29, 2011 3:26 AM GMT
    NOT YET
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    Oct 29, 2011 3:30 AM GMT
    I did wrestle with my old roommate sometimes. He was really well built and would over power me easily. I had a crush on him, so it used to be fun, esp when he would pin me to floor with his body on top and get a hard on. But sadly he was straight.
  • OMGitsRoy

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    Oct 29, 2011 3:42 AM GMT

    yep, some of which i met on this site icon_razz.gif
  • realdeal86

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    Oct 29, 2011 3:54 AM GMT
    Nope, haven't been that lucky
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    Oct 29, 2011 4:13 AM GMT
    Let's see...In college, there were a lot of guys who would ask me about my "big black cock". Sometimes they would ask to see "it". I had one guy try to make out with me in front of his buddy (both were hammered). Had my roommate jump into bed with me twice trying to make out (hammered).

    Since being in corp america, let's see... I've had a couple coworkers jump into bed with me (hammered). Had a guy kiss me, a guy straddle me while he was butt naked (hammered ). Woke up to find another bud with his arms/legs wrapped around me (hammered). All the guys where white, which is only to say that I thought white guys were "more curious/liberal" than other guys which made me a little more inhibited about experimenting.
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    Oct 29, 2011 4:51 AM GMT
    Yea have always roughhoused with straight friends, one in particular always liked to start with me. I get them back though because I use them as my pillow/backrest once we're tired out. Only once did it turn into something else and that's not really how it started.
  • groundcombat

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    Nov 17, 2011 9:05 PM GMT
    GrowAPair saidI've neither time for not interest in "curious" guys that want to "mess around."

    There are plenty of hot guys that know they are homos and want to fuck.





    +1 EXACTLY.
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    Nov 17, 2011 9:07 PM GMT
    I would love to wrestle with a straight/bi guy and end up messing around during/afterwards. Who doesn't like a strong embrace with testosterone flowing? icon_redface.gif