Who's Drooling Now ? /-/ A.K.A . /-/ Other people's reaction to your "evolution"

  • disasterpiece

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    Oct 04, 2011 5:30 AM GMT
    Last week-end, I went to this party with my roommate. There was a whole lotta people, some that I never saw before, others that I met a cupple of times already.

    But you know, I'm kinda "back in town" after spending the summer on the other side of the world, on which side of the world I trained a lot, got a shitload of confidence, and came back more healthy as much in my physique as in my mind.

    So there's this guy that is an Alpha Gay (you know what I mean, the type of guy that you would always think he's out of your league) that is a friend of my roommate. She introduced us numerous time before, but he would never really care... Except, not this time.

    We just started talking, and after 20 minutes, he was practically drooling all over me.

    How do you react to such things ?

    I didn't really react actually, I could've dragged him in any of those numerous rooms and fuck him hard (I'm not really that kind of guy anyways, but you get the point), but I just finished the discussion, said by and walked away...

    I have to admit I'm still not used to this. I've seen a lot of you people get through those extreme transformations (your profiles show it, y'all), and I'm pretty sure you experienced something similar ! Discuss icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 04, 2011 5:37 AM GMT
    I had this huge crush on a girl in junior high and high school (lol girls). Anyway she never gave me the time of day because I was at the bottom of the social totem pole. I saw her at a party last Christmas, fat and a single mom now. She hit on me all night. It was weird. 10 years and one sexual orientation too late, sistah!
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    Oct 04, 2011 5:40 AM GMT
    Disasterpiece said
    So there's this guy that is an Alpha Gay (you know what I mean, the type of guy that you would always think he's out of your league) that is a friend of my roommate. She introduced us numerous time before, but he would never really care... Except, not this time.

    We just started talking, and after 20 minutes, he was practically drooling all over me.

    How do you react to such things ?


    God I'm so tired of these guys doing this to me. Now I just carry a compressed air noisemaker in my purse to honk in their faces to leave me alone.


    But seersly I would be flattered, grateful and just be honest about how you feel in the moment. Works for me in any situation. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 09, 2011 1:22 PM GMT
    Personally, for me it sucks when the tables are turned (or, when I'm the one who's "evolved")

    I mean, couldn't you have given me the time of day before? The fates are weird and cruel
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    Oct 09, 2011 1:33 PM GMT
    This is a definition of shallowness.

    They were only interested on what was on the outside.

    when I was much larger, guys wouldn't give me the time of day or look in my direction.

    after I changed, i had one guy staring at me and demanded that he get my number.

    I was unemployed at the time and i just used it as a networking tool. Here.. Here is my number, if you know of anyone hiring, let me know!

    Before he was even to his car, I had a sexually suggestive text on my phone.

    Me: 1. Them: 0
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    Oct 09, 2011 1:56 PM GMT
    Sorry, never happened to me.
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    Oct 09, 2011 2:09 PM GMT
    Ask him why he's all of a sudden interested in you when before he wasn't. Put him on the spot. Make him confront his own shallowness. Although shallow people don't care that they're shallow so...never mind. Just tell him you'd be interested in him when he gets into a bit better shape. Ask him what his bodyfat percentage is. If he says 10%, tell him you only date guys with less than 8. Give him a taste of his own medicine. icon_twisted.gif
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    Oct 09, 2011 2:12 PM GMT
    well, in the past 5 years i've gone from 145 to 195...and it's been very strange...I still see myself as the skinny kid that gets beat up....though, according to the scale, that's not the case...

    I've overheard myself getting referred to as "that buff guy over there"...i tend to look behind me and see who they're talking about...until I realize it's me...

    guys drooling? I have no idea...I'm clueless in those matters...

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    Oct 09, 2011 2:13 PM GMT
    Disasterpiece said I could've dragged him in any of those numerous rooms and fuck him hard


    Remind me... what was wrong with this option?