Fantasizing About Someone Else During Sex

  • masculumpedes

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    Oct 04, 2011 5:04 PM GMT
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    Have you ever fantasized about someone else during sex? icon_eek.gif

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    Oct 04, 2011 5:06 PM GMT
    Its funny that you should say that..I just had a dream where I had sex with my bro's girlfriend in FRONT of him....Very weird....icon_eek.gificon_eek.gificon_eek.gif
  • masculumpedes

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    Oct 04, 2011 5:15 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidIts funny that you should say that..I just had a dream where I had sex with my bro's girlfriend in FRONT of him....Very weird....icon_eek.gificon_eek.gificon_eek.gif



    Well, as handsome as you are, I think all would be forgiven...icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 04, 2011 6:57 PM GMT
    I've heard it alluded to a lot, I think its pretty common.

    I used to do it with my ex-boyfriend, and then I figured out I wasn't that attracted to him icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 04, 2011 6:57 PM GMT
    I really didn't want to admit it......but I sometimes fantasize about you, Will, when I'm plowing my guy............icon_wink.gif
  • masculumpedes

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    Oct 04, 2011 6:59 PM GMT
    turbobilly saidI really didn't want to admit it......but I sometimes fantasize about you, Will, when I'm plowing my guy............icon_wink.gif


    um....OK....icon_redface.gif
  • masculumpedes

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    Oct 04, 2011 7:01 PM GMT
    adam228 saidI've heard it alluded to a lot, I think its pretty common.

    I used to do it with my ex-boyfriend, and then I figured out I wasn't that attracted to him icon_razz.gif


    I think it's pretty common also.However, there are some guys that I would be so excited to actually be with that it would be a fantasy come true...( and you know who you are)...icon_cool.gif
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    malefeet said
    turbobilly saidI really didn't want to admit it......but I sometimes fantasize about you, Will, when I'm plowing my guy............icon_wink.gif


    um....OK....icon_redface.gif


    Lol...nah, just kidding.........get back to work......icon_lol.gif
  • masculumpedes

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    Oct 04, 2011 7:05 PM GMT
    turbobilly said
    malefeet said
    turbobilly saidI really didn't want to admit it......but I sometimes fantasize about you, Will, when I'm plowing my guy............icon_wink.gif


    um....OK....icon_redface.gif


    Lol...nah, just kidding.........get back to work......icon_lol.gif


    I'm off work today because it's raining here...icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 04, 2011 7:06 PM GMT
    malefeet said
    turbobilly said
    malefeet said
    turbobilly saidI really didn't want to admit it......but I sometimes fantasize about you, Will, when I'm plowing my guy............icon_wink.gif


    um....OK....icon_redface.gif


    Lol...nah, just kidding.........get back to work......icon_lol.gif


    I'm off work today because it's raining here...icon_biggrin.gif


    And your address is..........?

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  • BCSwimmer

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    Oct 04, 2011 7:11 PM GMT
    Yes I have.

    While I suspect not 100% of people have I would imagine (based on things like the Hite Report on Male Sexuality or Dan Savage's column) that it is VERY common and shouldn't be a cause for concern if it occurs on occassion.

    However if you are CONSUMED with thoughts of others while having sex with your partner that may be cause for concern, and as a prior poster mentioned an indiction that he wasn't attracted to his partner.
  • masculumpedes

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    Oct 04, 2011 7:12 PM GMT
    turbobilly said
    malefeet said
    turbobilly said
    malefeet said
    turbobilly saidI really didn't want to admit it......but I sometimes fantasize about you, Will, when I'm plowing my guy............icon_wink.gif


    um....OK....icon_redface.gif


    Lol...nah, just kidding.........get back to work......icon_lol.gif


    I'm off work today because it's raining here...icon_biggrin.gif


    And your address is..........?

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    I thought you already had my address...71.gif
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    Oct 04, 2011 9:25 PM GMT
    Yes, I have. =
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    Oct 05, 2011 5:48 AM GMT
    Didn't Tina Turner say it best? "Keep you mind on the money, and your eyes on the wall."
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    Oct 05, 2011 5:56 AM GMT
    I had to in my last relationship. . .I was just not sexually attracted, at all. Close my eyes and pretend it was his roommate hahaha
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    Oct 05, 2011 6:03 AM GMT
    As Gaga would say "No he can't read my poker face" (that's what the song is about.)