adam228 saidWell, I didn't say there was "no" attraction. I'm just not sure its coming from his physical features so much as his personality and intelligence. Both highly desirable characteristics, but they still leave me at 2/3
I'm not looking for perfect by any means, but I am looking to be attracted.. I'm pretty happy single most of the time, so I don't need to go chain myself to a relationship I don't think would work out for us and most people echoed that here..
Even though I agree with what everyone has said.. I'm going to give it a shot with a couple more dates and see where it goes.
My question is, have you actually tried having sex with him? I agree that attraction is important. But you know what's even more important? The actual quality of the sex.
You can take the epitome of "your type" to bed, but if he just lies there, or is otherwise a lousy lay, the potential for a relationship is nil. On the other hand, you may find that this guy, who is not really your type, but to whom you are two-thirds attracted, is actually mind-blowingly good in bed. Sex with him might be so good that even when he's not the type you look at when you browse for porn, he gets you hard as a rock as soon as you kiss, because you know how good what's coming (no pun intended) is going to be.
So I'd say, have sex with him, and judge based on that. There's nothing like fact-based, empirical evidence.
EDIT: Just saw that on the opening post you say you haven't had sex. So, that answers my question and reaffirms my advice.