Sex with lights on or off?

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    Oct 06, 2011 5:10 PM GMT
    Well?

    And what does this mean btw? I like having sex in bright room. But I know a lot of guys like to have sex in dim lighting. Why?

    I like to see the guys' face when he's screwing me.
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    Oct 06, 2011 5:44 PM GMT
    waimea saidWell?

    And what does this mean btw? I like having sex in bright room. But I know a lot of guys like to have sex in dim lighting. Why?

    I like to see the guys' face when he's screwing me.


    Dim is hot, pitch black is not.

    Prefer to see the guy too, but dim lights can cause a sexy sexy glow with the man.
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    Oct 06, 2011 5:47 PM GMT
    I prefer good, strong lighting. It helps the camera crew pick up and focus on more details.
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    Oct 06, 2011 5:48 PM GMT
    Cash saidI prefer good, strong lighting. It helps the camera crew pick up and focus on more details.


    It definately makes you look more ripped too!
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    Oct 06, 2011 5:56 PM GMT
    I prefer dim lighting because I'm too self-conscious.

    I'm afraid to turn the guy off.

    With dim lighting, I can have full focus on the guy instead of worrying he might see something he doesn't like.
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    Oct 06, 2011 6:34 PM GMT
    During sex, more focus is put on means (genitalia stimulation) than on end (supposed mutual satisfaction and bonding fostering). So, lights on or off, the dude is rarely thinking of you when sexing you.

    Lights on pro: he can't fake orgasm by dumping an empty condom or by spitting in your back.
    Lights off con: you can't see his eyes. And what's the point of intimacy without eye contact?

    I say turn off the lights, put on a miner helmet, and spray fluorescent whipped cream as you go about exploring his body.
    Since genitals disappear when they hug, eye contact should automatically ensue.

    P.S. Fear of darkness nullifies this debate. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 06, 2011 6:36 PM GMT
    Mix it up. If you are in a relationship, it's nice to pretend it's someone else.
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    Oct 06, 2011 6:39 PM GMT
    PerineumX said
    P.S. Fear of darkness nullifies this debate. icon_wink.gif


    Hahaha!

    I always thought there was a good reason they called it "mood lighting" icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 06, 2011 6:44 PM GMT
    Waiting for PaulFlexes to chime in here...
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    Oct 06, 2011 7:03 PM GMT
    light is good icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 06, 2011 7:04 PM GMT
    Lights on.
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    Oct 06, 2011 7:15 PM GMT
    Lights off. Sorry guys.
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    Oct 06, 2011 7:25 PM GMT
    usually like a night light or candle or something. not total darkness.
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    Oct 06, 2011 7:25 PM GMT
    I have been in everything from pitch black to all the lights on possible. I think dim lighting is ideal. Actually, I don't really care one bit. Dark is annoying because you can't really see what is going on. But it can still be cool because you use different senses in that case.

    The most recent guy turned every single light off which was kinda weird. But then again, we were supposed to just cuddle and go to sleep. I guess when that got thrown out the window, we didn't think about getting up to turn lights on haha
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    Oct 06, 2011 7:40 PM GMT
    KentuckyTuss said
    PerineumX said
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    Hahaha!

    I always thought there was a good reason they called it "mood lighting" icon_smile.gif

    Thank God for mood lighting. Without it, armpit sex is inevitable.
  • groundcombat

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    Oct 06, 2011 7:45 PM GMT
    Dim.

    Total darkness can be hot too but it's usually nice to see a little bit of what's going on without paying attention to details bright lights seems to demand.

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    Oct 06, 2011 7:47 PM GMT
    Trollileo said
    PerineumX said
    KentuckyTuss said
    PerineumX said
    P.S. Fear of darkness nullifies this debate. icon_wink.gif


    Hahaha!

    I always thought there was a good reason they called it "mood lighting" icon_smile.gif

    Thank God for mood lighting. Without it, armpit sex is inevitable.
    Whatever floats your boat.

    All I need is the moon watching over us. icon_smile.gif
  • tallchris

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    Oct 06, 2011 7:48 PM GMT
    Light enough to see his face, dim enough so he can't see my wrinkles.
  • davidnta

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    Oct 06, 2011 7:55 PM GMT
    I like it slightly dimmed, but sometimes having the lights on is hot - especially if you want to see what's going on.
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    Oct 06, 2011 8:08 PM GMT
    Me and my Man have a clapper hooked up to to the lights switch . So when we fuck hard and fast the lights become an instant strobe light . Lots of fun !


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    Oct 06, 2011 8:47 PM GMT
    When I stranger turns off the lights and fucks you in complete darkness you might just wonder what he is hiding.

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    Oct 06, 2011 8:54 PM GMT
    (In My Teddy Voice) Turn Off Da Lights, light a candle icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 06, 2011 8:56 PM GMT
    I've got an anglepoise lamp mounted to the wall next to the bed. I can go from mood lighting to "doctors office" with a tilt and a swing. Always on though.

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    Oct 06, 2011 8:58 PM GMT
    On, off, bright, natural, dim, ambiet or florescent!! Its all good baby!!!
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    Oct 06, 2011 9:50 PM GMT
    I try not to put too much thought into it, but I'm with the other posters who want some kind of light on. It doesn't have to be like a hospital in the bedroom, but I'd like to at least see your penis before I put my mouth on it