Xhris_19_FL saidSo I was in the grocery store with this guy. Who's totally adorable and my future boyfriend but nevermind that. We were gonna cook dinner together. So as where in one the asiles,two black girls walk down by us. These girls literally stop and roll their eyes. Turn and walk the other way and one of them says. "It's bad enough you like that. But don't be having it all out of the bedroom". She says this loud enough so we can hear it I might add. The guy only had his arm around me and was whispering in my ear. Then my future boyfriend goes "Don't worry babe you prettier than them and your a guy. The girls turn back around and give us dirty looks and start mumbling things as they leave.
This is not the first time I've had issues with black women over my sexuality.
So is it because I'm a black guy and gay?or because most black women are homophobic?
Okay....I live in Vancouver, so most of the black people I know are on TV. That said, I've heard black women pine that they've got some pretty slim pickin's when it comes to getting themselves a man.
Their complaint (I don't remember what show it was) was that a disproportionate number of black men were...umm..."not mate-worthy" (in jail, dealing with addiction, etc.) But the argument started with them complaining that a lot of black men sought out white and asian women....and they were mad about that. "You're taking our men" was the general tone.
So it wouldn't surprise me (if that is a real issue within the black community from the perspective of women) that they feel the same way about two men hooking up....that's just even fewer guys in the dating pool for them.
Again though, it was a heated discussion on some talk show...I have no experience in that regard. I sure hope it's not something you have to deal with everywhere.[/quote
I have heard this as well. Some black women want a man who will treat them right but alot of black men are not up to their "standards" then you have them going after white/asian/latina girls.
That being said all the black girls I know are awesome