Had sex with a girl last nite. .

  • Import

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    Oct 07, 2011 8:44 PM GMT
    Havent had sex with a girl in like 7 years or something.
    Had sex with one last night tho.
    Still feel gay, tho it wasn't all bad.


    am i bi?
    just always considered myself gay?
    I mean does one or two times effin a chick make me bi?

    how should i label myself?

    queer?
    gay? bi?

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    Oct 07, 2011 9:32 PM GMT
    Alright, ask yourself these questions.

    Have you always found women attractive? Would you sleep with a woman again? Were you drunk? icon_razz.gif
  • Nayro

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    Oct 07, 2011 9:33 PM GMT
    Ur so gay u dont even like boys! :O
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    Oct 07, 2011 9:37 PM GMT
    A warm hole is a warm hole right?! Are you gay, bi or are you just greedy! Lol

    Just kidding. Who cares! Do what or who you want. Just be safe. Stop worrying about labels.
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    Oct 07, 2011 11:26 PM GMT
    Just because you can do it , doesn't mean you really want to do it. If you have to ask someone else if you are bi you are probably not bi. Sexual orientation is based on attraction....and it has to be real attraction , not an "if I were straight..." thing.

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    Oct 07, 2011 11:27 PM GMT
    Shame on you.

    No more gay butts for you!!!
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    Oct 08, 2011 12:14 AM GMT
    I'll come right out and say it: if a wet, sloppy vagina can get your dick hard as easily as a tight muscle ass, or the thought of a hot cock penetrating your ass, THEN you are part of the 70% or so of male-kind that is at least "opportunistically bisexual".

    It ain't rocket science people... we are but a few chromosomes away from our evolutionary cousins the Bonobos, who are exceedingly bisexual.

    Culture is a factor that the Bonobos lack, since we reinforce this notion that sexuality is seemingly a binary affair.

    I'd say that 100% pure homosexuality and 100% pure heterosexuality are probably very rare, apart from any cultural influence.

    I know that i still notice hot women (always been a fan of nicely shaped bewbies) on ocassion but I don't think I could ever get my cock up again for the puss. icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 08, 2011 5:30 AM GMT
    You've always been a straight guy PRETENDING TO BE GAY!
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    Oct 08, 2011 2:49 PM GMT
    Um what leads you onto the bed? pure temptation or you have feelings for her? I still believe there might be a case called gaycurious icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 08, 2011 2:52 PM GMT
    Import saidHavent had sex with a girl in like 7 years or something.
    Had sex with one last night tho.
    Still feel gay, tho it wasn't all bad.


    am i bi?
    just always considered myself gay?
    I mean does one or two times effin a chick make me bi?

    how should i label myself?

    queer?
    gay? bi?



    How did it happen? How much did you enjoy?

    You don't have to "label" yourself as anything.... I mean if you are most interested in guys, go with whatever "label" that seems most fitting.
  • BeingThePhoen...

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    Oct 08, 2011 2:59 PM GMT
    I'll put it like this...

    I could go out and bang a chick right now, if the urge struck me. Been there, done that. What I have never been able to do is to A. get as turned on as much by a female, as by a male, and B. form a bonding relationship with a female.

    In other words, yes I find women attractive, but I consider myself gay, because I have NEVER been able to view a female as relationship material...only friends. And, I have never been able to have sex with a female friend.

    Call me whatever you want. I'm not so into labels, but if I were....i still consider myself gay and not bi.
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    Oct 08, 2011 2:59 PM GMT
    I've had girlfriends in the past, but once I realized how much men turn me on (in & out of bed) I knew what I liked. A couple years ago, I had a hot roommate we'll call Candy. We were both attracted to each other, but what turned me on the most was the thought that "I shouldn't be doing this with Her." Forbidden fruit, etc. There was even a couple times when her yummy ex boyfriend & his current girlfriend and me & her, um, hung out..When the girls were going at it together, me & him figured out something to do.. It's all individualistic.
  • LJay

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    Oct 08, 2011 3:06 PM GMT
    Label yourself to be yourself and screw the anxiety.
  • spankydrunk

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    Oct 08, 2011 3:07 PM GMT
    If you have throw pillows on yur bed, don't worry yur still gay
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    Oct 08, 2011 3:12 PM GMT
    Why do you have to lable yourself anything? Why can't we just be who we are without the labels?

    I believe a society free from labels would be a society free from racial or sexual bigotry and one in which everyone would be free to enjoy life more fully. and with more acceptance of those around us who may not be like us.

    Labels divide. Labels bring out the prejudice in others.

    As Marlo Thomas once stated: "Free to be you and me."

    As for me - I have seen numerous females that I find attractive or even "hot." Even if they are completely naked, having sex, etc I NEVER get an erection viewing a naked woman. Put a photo of a naked guy in front of me and I am hard and ready in no time.icon_wink.gif

    My boyfriend is amazed at how quickly I get hard - and it stays hard until the clothes go back on.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 08, 2011 5:00 PM GMT
    Don't fight it ... u r gay ! icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif
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    Oct 08, 2011 5:09 PM GMT
    bi with a preference for men if you absolutely need a label

    but labels suck so just go with what makes your dick hard
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    Oct 08, 2011 5:10 PM GMT
    closer85 saidbi with a preference for men if you absolutely need a label

    but labels suck so just go with what makes your dick hard


    unless its kids or animals.
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    Oct 08, 2011 5:13 PM GMT
    Fuck labels. Do what you want, don't let labels put you in a cage.
  • BCSwimmer

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    Oct 08, 2011 5:16 PM GMT
    For some reason this thread brought to mind for me a hilarious line from the 1998 movie The Opposite of Sex. A gay guy in the film talks about having had sex with a woman and is now claiming to be bisexual to which the character Lucia (played flawlessly by Lisa Kudrow) says:

    ”Oh my GOD, you are NOT bisexual! Don't be stupid! I mean, I went to a bar mitzvah once, that doesn't make me Jewish!”

    http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120777/
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    Oct 08, 2011 5:19 PM GMT
    BCSwimmer saidFor some reason this thread brought to mind for me a hilarious line from the 1998 movie The Opposite of Sex. A gay guy in the film talks about having had sex with a woman and is now claiming to be bisexual to which the character Lucia (played flawlessly by Lisa Kudrow) says:

    ”Oh my GOD, you are NOT bisexual! Don't be stupid! I mean, I went to a bar mitzvah once, that doesn't make me Jewish!”

    http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120777/


    I LOVE That movie!! Lisa Kudrow is the shiz in that movie. I also love the hottie boyfriend & the scene where the gay teacher goes off on the fairy and nearly twists his nipple ring off
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    Oct 08, 2011 5:19 PM GMT
    I think these labels society gives us are not based on sexual "orientation" but sexual "attraction". Ive been with 2 women before & as others have said once you get hard a warm hole is a warm hole.

    Even so with both women I felt awkward, out of place & knew I was gay. The sight of a nude man, holding his hand & kissing him is where I belong.

    You always hear jokes of farmers or etc having sex with animals. I doubt very seriously hes looking at a sheeps ass and thinks it looks hot, lol, he just wants to get off.

    If you are equally attracted to men & women id say your bi, but just because you got hard & stuck your dick in a tight, wet, hole that happened to be attached to a woman doesnt make you bi.
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    Oct 08, 2011 5:21 PM GMT
    closer85 saidbi with a preference for men if you absolutely need a label

    but labels suck so just go with what makes your dick hard



    +1. I like this theory also....short & sweet & to the point.
  • slimnmuscly

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    Oct 08, 2011 5:22 PM GMT
    "Wasn't all bad" doesn't sound particularly life-changing or identity-crisis-worthy to me.
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    Oct 08, 2011 6:09 PM GMT
    basically we were kinda drunk. We had gone out to dinner and I had 2 beers and she had a "sex on the beach"... so not really drunk, just a little buzzed i guess, i dunno

    Went back to her house and we were in her room, laying on her bed just talking...She started rubbing my crotch and i got hard and then she was all giggling and started unzipping my pants...I didnt stop her and than she started sucking my dick.
    next thing u know shes taking off her clothes and pulled my pants off and I thought to myself "why not, a hole is a hole, right?"

    so I fucked her, pulled out and blew a load all over her puss and called it a night. Weird thing is this chick i've known her for like 3 years and we've never done anything sexual at all before. She knows im gay too.

    whatever, it was alright, I still like a big dick in my face and hot hairy ass to fuck over a puss..