Matt2004 saidam going back and forth with this question...somedays I really really want one and than somedays..i prefer to be ALONE. I just want to deal with me first before I deal with another person drama...
so how do you know if you are ready?
I keep asking myself same question, but best answer I can give you is don't hurry things. Be open-minded and accepting, and eventually someone will come and sweep you off your feet.
You can never really know if you're ready until it happens. I myself got a lot of things going on right now, so I can't say that I am out looking for one. At same time though, if a great guy comes along and fall head over heels for him, then I won't say no to it and instead will accept the challenge.
Plus, why is it that you can't have time to yourself sometimes even in a relationship? You don't have to be in a relationship and be with each other 24/7. I am sure that you and your future partner will have days when you want to be alone to focus on other aspects of your life.
I don't know though, that's just my opinion and I might be wrong.