I don't cruise guys at the gym, it's not what I am there for and it can be hard to tell in that environment. . .but if you want to test the waters, my trick is to ask for a spot and strike up a convo, tell if he is gay or not and take it from there
And if they aren't gay. . .at least you got to help a hot guy lift a heavy object ;P
mybud saidIt's all attitude...dancin around the weights like a women wont get ya there....
Absolutely.... it is about confidence. If you are confident and go up and aren't creepy about it (be direct and forthright; "Are you new?", "How long have you been training here?", "Can you give me a spot in a minute?") and NONSEXUAL then it is all good and the gym is the easiest place in the world to meet cool guys. Many of my best friends were made in the gym.