Oct 09, 2011 4:16 AM GMT
B&D, S&M, D&S pair together like yins and yangs but there is a difference between them and shouldn't be used interchangeably unless you want to look stupid to those who know better.
B is for Bondage (that's good enough for me) - tying someone up or restraining them
D is for Discipline - teaching someone to please you and punishing when they screw up
S is for Sadism - getting aroused while inflicting pain on another or seeing another in pain
M is for Masochism - getting aroused while having pain inflicted on you
D is for Domination - enjoying being in control of another person to various degrees, can be strict (slavery) to casual like just wearing the pants in the relationship
S (2) is for Submission - enjoying being controlled, serving or pleasing a Dominant