How do you start a hookup.

  • Nayro

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    Oct 09, 2011 9:35 AM GMT
    So when you agree to have a hookup. How does it start?
    Do you just go in and start all of the sudden or say something like; ok lets do this? I think the first moment is always a bit akward...
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    Oct 09, 2011 10:23 AM GMT
    Well, the last one was pretty simple... we were watching tv... then we made eye contact and it just kinda happened. oops?
  • Nizzo

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    Oct 09, 2011 11:09 AM GMT
    I attack the dick as soon as possible.
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    Oct 09, 2011 12:55 PM GMT
    Nizzo saidI attack the dick as soon as possible.


    lol
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    Oct 09, 2011 12:59 PM GMT
    Daelin saidSo when you agree to have a hookup. How does it start?
    Do you just go in and start all of the sudden or say something like; ok lets do this? I think the first moment is always a bit akward...


    Same way with anything else: INITIATIVE.
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    Oct 09, 2011 5:02 PM GMT
    There was one guy who would greet me naked at the door with a hug. Sometimes with a glass of wine. My clothes would be deposited on the mat, where I could find them again on the way out. It just sort of went on from there.

    Hmm... can't really recall why I stopped seeing that guy. I guess wurk stopped taking me his way.
  • swimbikerun

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    Oct 09, 2011 5:05 PM GMT
    Nizzo saidI attack the dick as soon as possible.
    Good idea.
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    Oct 09, 2011 5:09 PM GMT
    i remember there was this one time, i came over to this guy house and he was not what he looks like in the picture so I sat and watched The Devil Wear Prada, with free chips and drink ... he took his dick out a couple of times but I ignored.
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    Oct 09, 2011 5:18 PM GMT
    I remember one time before the front door was quite closed, clothes were falling to the floor. Another time we were headed for his bedroom upstairs but only got half way up the stairs before we got it on. Chemistry dictates.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Oct 09, 2011 5:19 PM GMT
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    Oct 09, 2011 5:23 PM GMT
    Guys usually slap there hand on my thigh, squeeze and say you look nice to tonight, real nice.
  • Pepsic0la

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    Oct 09, 2011 7:04 PM GMT
    I always start w/ a movie = offer them a drink (always let them see me pour it if its alcoholic) and we never end up getting closer and closer during the movie. Normally never make it through half icon_smile.gif

    though, I am kinda shy, so if it gets toward the ending and nothing has happened i get nervous/anxious. Im used to the OP initiating, so it makes me grow a set if I'm w/ another shy guy - i like it though, boosts my ego and shows a bit of modesty and self-control on there part. If we have good, and i mean GOOD, deep meaningful convo prior, where we're both so intrigued we kinda forget about the hookup, those are the ones i may even invite to stay the night. icon_smile.gif I think i'm a nice guy, no?
  • masculumpedes

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    Oct 09, 2011 7:11 PM GMT
    It's a long complicated process for some....not so much for me...icon_cool.gif
  • Jock25

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    Oct 09, 2011 7:42 PM GMT
    Daelin saidSo when you agree to have a hookup. How does it start?


    Here's one way to get it going: Put one arm around his shoulder. With the other hand, gently massage his penis. Tell him "hey stud, you're lookin mighty handsome today". That should get the party started. icon_cool.gif
  • masculumpedes

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    Oct 09, 2011 7:50 PM GMT
    Trollileo said
    malefeet saidIt's a long complicated process for some....not so much for me...icon_cool.gif
    Oh do tell.


    You think you're acting cute, huh? icon_wink.gif
  • Pepsic0la

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    Oct 09, 2011 7:53 PM GMT
    malefeet said
    Trollileo said
    malefeet saidIt's a long complicated process for some....not so much for me...icon_cool.gif
    Oh do tell.


    You think you're acting cute, huh? icon_wink.gif


    +1 for quoting other forum topics lmao
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    Oct 09, 2011 7:59 PM GMT
    1. buzz him in
    2. offer him a glass of water plus or minus small talk
    3. when he stops nervously sipping the glass of water, move in for kissing
    4. go with the action

    after- 'do you want a shower before you go? or is a towel fine?'

    always polite and courteous but i'll never say 'see you again' or 'text me' unless it was mind blowing which hasnt happened yet.
  • sbwlguy

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    Oct 09, 2011 10:31 PM GMT
    He opens the door to which I greet him cordially. Once we get inside, I politely ask him if I may perform fellatio on his erect penis. Delight ensues.
  • PRDGUY

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    Oct 10, 2011 7:16 AM GMT
    Depends for me... do I know for sure he's SSA???

    If he is Same sex attracted/active, I will start slow.... but since most my guys are yunger and we watch porn, it usually progresses fast....

    If unsure, Let the nite guide us as well as giving him permission to look at pics on computer and the porn....

    Either way first time exp's tend to be awkward for a while, either first 5mins or first time....

    My favorite ones are the ones who like to get totally naked and ask for a jizz ragg LOLZ
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    Oct 10, 2011 7:20 AM GMT
    Holding hands, while watching a movie (at his house) on the bed, then start to kiss. Then bam.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
  • DarkSensation

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    Oct 10, 2011 7:30 AM GMT


    Drop a few Secret Love potion in His Drink...before you'll know it...he's all Yours icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 10, 2011 7:30 AM GMT
    benz72 saidi remember there was this one time, i came over to this guy house and he was not what he looks like in the picture so I sat and watched The Devil Wear Prada, with free chips and drink ... he took his dick out a couple of times but I ignored.


    I lol'd
  • bmoney1

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    Oct 17, 2011 5:42 PM GMT
    benz72 saidi remember there was this one time, i came over to this guy house and he was not what he looks like in the picture so I sat and watched The Devil Wear Prada, with free chips and drink ... he took his dick out a couple of times but I ignored.


    LOL! So funny.
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    Oct 17, 2011 6:04 PM GMT
    From my experience, most guys say "let's go cuddle" or "come over to cuddle".

    Not once has that ever meant just cuddling...
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    Oct 17, 2011 6:06 PM GMT
    KSUOWL saidFrom my experience, most guys say "let's go cuddle" or "come over to cuddle".

    Not once has that ever meant just cuddling...


    Haha... so true. Once someone cracks a sexual joke, or initiates physical contact, it's on. lol

    ... and LMFAO at the previous post. Wow... talk about getting shot down! haha! Sucks for him, but at least you got free food icon_razz.gif