*That moment when you want to kill that HOMOPHOBE*

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    Oct 10, 2011 5:40 AM GMT
    Cmon! am i the only one that wanted to sock that closet queen in the mouth for saying stupid shit behind your back like, "I don't want to be in a room with him alone, he might try something" BITCH PLEASE!

    P.S. Is it me or is it always the fuggly guy in the bunch that's the homophobe! NO ONE, GIRL OR GUY WANTS YOUR UGLY ASS!
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    Oct 10, 2011 12:56 PM GMT
    Follow my lead...when the fugly guy is the homophobe, tell him he's fugly that he wouldn't have a chance with you even if he were gay and rich. It's amazing how much more pissed they get when you say that...almost got in a few fights (recently) because of telling fugly homophobes that. icon_wink.gif
  • bad_wolf

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    Oct 10, 2011 1:02 PM GMT
    I agree when you can flp the perception so that you're no longer branded a deperate gay and draw attention to the fact the guy would have probably died a virgin if he didn't pay for it, he'll crumble.
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    Oct 10, 2011 2:40 PM GMT
    ...and on top of that his ugly ass is missing a few teeth, maybe he already pissed another guy off with his homophobic assicon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 10, 2011 2:43 PM GMT
    I love it when middle aged fat guys say "I dont want to be alone with him because he might go after my cornhole"

    Im like dude, no one wants to have sex with you of either gender. You are safe as a kitten munching those cheetos and downing that pbr.
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    Oct 10, 2011 3:49 PM GMT
    Why is it aslways the ugly guys....the one that notice evrything about right down to ur favorite cologne...that doesnt feel comfortable being around gay man...that shit fucks me up sometimes
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    Oct 10, 2011 9:00 PM GMT
    I just say I love you, blow them a kiss and gaily flit away.
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    Oct 10, 2011 9:10 PM GMT
    motov8 saidI just say I love you, blow them a kiss and gaily flit away.


    Hahahaha!!! That's funny Motov*!!! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    (NOTE to RJ: Motov8 would kill someone who was a homophobe around him. Laugh or he'll hide our bodies like he does fugly, PBR drinking homophobes.)
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    Oct 10, 2011 9:16 PM GMT
    I've pissed a few homophobes off with the comment "gay men are noted for having great taste, so trust me, you wont have anything to worry about being around me!" I smile at the dumbass and carry on.
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    Oct 10, 2011 9:18 PM GMT
    When we stand up for ourselves................they run away. sometimes not at first but sooner or later they run away.
    Be the man your mother is proud of and be the man you want in your life.
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    Oct 10, 2011 9:32 PM GMT
    hawkeye7 saidWhen we stand up for ourselves................they run away. sometimes not at first but sooner or later they run away.
    Be the man your mother is proud of and be the man you want in your life.



    ^^ this +10

    The one time I stood up, it was easy and it was SSOOOO satisfying. Granted, I really haven't gotten much flack from anyone. I dont hear much from anyone. But the one time I did it felt great. Actually, here is my advice:

    1. Dont be clever. (Str8 guys think that is too gay. Be direct. )

    2. Talk forcefully. (Cesar Milan has it right: 80% of it is tone of voice. Deep, commanding and forceful voice without sounding strained and without yelling.)

    3. Keep it short. (I swear it won't last long. They WILL back down.)

    Mine was a fat woman and her fat redneck husband in a restarant who said to themselves as my friend and I sat down, "I think they are a couple"... he put his fatfaced head in his stubby fingers and said, "Oh lordddd....." and shook his head as if "This worll is fawlin part!"

    So on the way back from the bathroom later, when they looked up at me, then looked at each other and then looked at me again, I stopped and folded one 20" biceps over the other and said, "Yes? Did you want to say something?"

    They were stunned.... I purposely invaded their space, also... I was right at their table. The stammered and stumbled and said some bullshit and I said, "My buddy over there thought you were trying to say somethign to us earlier. Well? What is it?"

    The woman leaned back and looked about to say somethign and the dude, said, "nothing, we didn't want to say nothign" and I said, "Ok... have a nice day" and walked away.

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    Oct 10, 2011 9:37 PM GMT
    Well done Alpha
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    Oct 10, 2011 9:40 PM GMT
    catfish5 saidWell done Alpha


    Thanks, buddy... to be honest I was really proud of myself.

    But do you agree with my suggestions?

    When dealing with homophobes,

    1. dont be too clever
    2. be forceful
    3. keep it short


    That works best, IMHO.
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    Oct 10, 2011 9:58 PM GMT
    Absolutely Alpha. U are dead on here
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    Oct 10, 2011 11:29 PM GMT
    Years ago, when I was leaving Gay House in Minneapolis, a would-be basher yelled "faggot!" at me. I just ignored it, got on my bicycle, and headed for home. It turned out that the basher and his two friends were going the same way in their car. The lights were timed for about 20 mph, which was a speed I could maintain for a considerable distance but not forever. Every time they stopped for a red light, I caught up with them and, as I passed them, they yelled "faggot" again. After a couple more lights, they stopped doing that and I heard one say to another, "He must be in really good condition!" Then, before I ran out of breath and had to slow down, I turned onto a different street.

    So, although I never responded to them, they did learn that it is possible for a gay man to be in better condition than they probably were in.
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    Oct 10, 2011 11:34 PM GMT
    dudes stop mentioning PBR, you're turning my stomach icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 10, 2011 11:36 PM GMT
    Whats PBR?
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    Oct 10, 2011 11:38 PM GMT
    GigoloAssassin saidWhats PBR?


    warm cat piss

    Also known as Pabst Blue Ribbon. Cheapest beer you can buy (and tastes like it).
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    Oct 10, 2011 11:38 PM GMT
    FRE0 saidYears ago, when I was leaving Gay House in Minneapolis, a would-be basher yelled "faggot!" at me. I just ignored it, got on my bicycle, and headed for home. It turned out that the basher and his two friends were going the same way in their car. The lights were timed for about 20 mph, which was a speed I could maintain for a considerable distance but not forever. Every time they stopped for a red light, I caught up with them and, as I passed them, they yelled "faggot" again. After a couple more lights, they stopped doing that and I heard one say to another, "He must be in really good condition!" Then, before I ran out of breath and had to slow down, I turned onto a different street.

    So, although I never responded to them, they did learn that it is possible for a gay man to be in better condition than they probably were in.


    I commend you for keeping your cool.
    I, on the other hand, wouldve thrown my bike at the windshield, pulled all of them out of the car and beat the shit out of them.
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    Oct 10, 2011 11:39 PM GMT
    Ariodante said
    GigoloAssassin saidWhats PBR?


    warm cat piss

    Also known as Pabst Blue Ribbon. Cheapest beer you can buy (and tastes like it).


    uhm, ew.
    Well alrighty then! Lol!
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    Oct 13, 2011 9:53 PM GMT
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    catfish5 saidWell done Alpha


    Thanks, buddy... to be honest I was really proud of myself.

    But do you agree with my suggestions?

    When dealing with homophobes,

    1. dont be too clever
    2. be forceful
    3. keep it short


    That works best, IMHO.


    I mean I can do 2,but idk if i can do 1 and 3, HELP PLEASE?, there's a party on sat. and im sure he(she) will be there..
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    Oct 13, 2011 10:45 PM GMT
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    Alpha_Muscle said
    catfish5 saidWell done Alpha


    Thanks, buddy... to be honest I was really proud of myself.

    But do you agree with my suggestions?

    When dealing with homophobes,

    1. dont be too clever
    2. be forceful
    3. keep it short


    That works best, IMHO.


    I mean I can do 2,but idk if i can do 1 and 3, HELP PLEASE?, there's a party on sat. and im sure he(she) will be there..


    Straight people think that gays who are trying to be clever are being weak. You state what you want to say plainly and directly. "Do you have a problem with me?" or "Do I make you uncomfortable" If they call you a name, invade their space and ask, "What did you say?"

    Such directness takes them by surprise and they cannot deal with it. Remember, it is homophobia... phobia.... they are frightened... so use that. We are the great unknown. if you try to be clever then they will perceive it as you displaying weakness.

    The reason to keep it short is that if they fight back, there is no winning the argument, so dismiss them. Marginalize them by dismissing them. "I just dont like fags." "Oh, okay. We dont give a fuck." then walk away. Actually, I had a buddy who is awesome who once, in a bar, when some guy said, "I dont like faggots" said, "So? Nobody cares." I love that answer. It is short. It is direct. It is forceful (in tone and language). concise, and direct. it is the key to this.

    finally, if some guy gets physical with you.... hurt him. I am serious. Nobody has the right to put their hands on you, if he takes a swing at you, put him in the hospital. Lay his ass out and cheat if you have to. just my opinion.
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    Oct 13, 2011 10:51 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle said
    Kidmc21 said
    Alpha_Muscle said
    catfish5 saidWell done Alpha


    Thanks, buddy... to be honest I was really proud of myself.

    But do you agree with my suggestions?

    When dealing with homophobes,

    1. dont be too clever
    2. be forceful
    3. keep it short


    That works best, IMHO.


    I mean I can do 2,but idk if i can do 1 and 3, HELP PLEASE?, there's a party on sat. and im sure he(she) will be there..


    Straight people think that gays who are trying to be clever are being weak. You state what you want to say plainly and directly. "Do you have a problem with me?" or "Do I make you uncomfortable" If they call you a name, invade their space and ask, "What did you say?"

    Such directness takes them by surprise and they cannot deal with it. Remember, it is homophobia... phobia.... they are frightened... so use that. We are the great unknown. if you try to be clever then they will perceive it as you displaying weakness.

    The reason to keep it short is that if they fight back, there is no winning the argument, so dismiss them. Marginalize them by dismissing them. "I just dont like fags." "Oh, okay. We dont give a fuck." then walk away. Actually, I had a buddy who is awesome who once, in a bar, when some guy said, "I dont like faggots" said, "So? Nobody cares." I love that answer. It is short. It is direct. It is forceful (in tone and language). concise, and direct. it is the key to this.

    finally, if some guy gets physical with you.... hurt him. I am serious. Nobody has the right to put their hands on you, if he takes a swing at you, put him in the hospital. Lay his ass out and cheat if you have to. just my opinion.


    I am so in agreement with you Alpha. I had to use force once on this idiot jock in HighSchool who refused to apologize to my friend who he called a faggot and pushed against a brick wall. I gave him 2 chances to apologize and he didn't so I then invaded his space and when he tried to push me I grabbed his arm and nearly broke it. I don't recall having any more issues from him at all for the next two years.

    There are those who only change through violence and as far as I know that one bully stopped harassing anyone after that.
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    Oct 14, 2011 12:13 AM GMT
    I cannot thank you guys enough for this advice, Everyday it is the same speech around here, "I aint on that gay shit", or "EWW you was lookin at me", and everytime I just think to myself,"NOBODY CARES"icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 14, 2011 2:55 AM GMT
    Kidmc21 saidI cannot thank you guys enough for this advice, Everyday it is the same speech around here, "I aint on that gay shit", or "EWW you was lookin at me", and everytime I just think to myself,"NOBODY CARES"icon_razz.gif


    Being a gay man doesn't ever mean you have to stop being a man.