Moving On??

  • Stin7

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    Oct 10, 2011 9:40 PM GMT
    edit: thanks guys.

  • sbwlguy

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    Oct 10, 2011 10:03 PM GMT
    Sounds like you developed a crush. However, you have seen this guy only ONCE. Get him out of your head and move on. Don't expend any energy on him. Soon enough you'll forget about him.

    I met a guy last year this time and over the course of two months saw him four times. I was seriously head over heals in lust with this guy. Big time crush. In return, my feelings were crushed. Looking back, it's actually amazing how hard you can fall for someone you don't really know. Luckily a few months after moving on can make all the difference.

    I suggest you do the same.
  • Stin7

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    Oct 10, 2011 10:33 PM GMT
    Thank you guys.

    and yeah, I'm moving on... and I have to admit I have a crush, but It's fortunately decreasing as the days go by.
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    Oct 11, 2011 12:26 AM GMT
    Some people wear their emotions on their sleeves, but it sounds like you have them all over the place. One thing you should keep in mind is that, if it's only the first date, then the guy doesn't HAVE to respond afterwards. You're still a stranger to him and he's a stranger to you. Take your first dates with a grain of salt. Enjoy them, but don't build any feelings. If it was multiple dates and you became friends, that would be another story.

    The frequent messages will only distance him further from you. One is enough. If someone wants to know you, trust me.. they will. It's clear he doesn't, so let it go.
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:41 AM GMT
    From what I see there's nothing to move on from because nothing happened.

    You went on a date.


    -The other bullshit of FB and online chatting has nothing to do with the situation.

    If he wanted to see you again he would contact you. It's a gift to find what you don't wanticon_smile.gif
  • no1timehookup...

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    Oct 11, 2011 3:15 AM GMT
    I don't think that was really a date.. You arranged to meet at a club, that sorta cancels the "Date" part of that out.. You also made out in the club and did something in a car.. Sounds like a casual hookup to me.. Those usually end up being on time.. Why? don't ask me. I'm still trying to figure that out.. I use to have crushes, I don't have them anymore.. But it would be nice to have a steady thing with encounters..
  • ohioguy12

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    Oct 11, 2011 3:18 AM GMT
    You guys exchange numbers?
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    Oct 11, 2011 3:20 AM GMT
    What happened in the car?? icon_rolleyes.gificon_lol.gif
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    Oct 11, 2011 6:22 AM GMT
    that was a hookup, not a date. go find another one.
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    Oct 11, 2011 6:47 AM GMT
    Better that this happened early on then you end up in my shoes where the guy you've been friends with/dating for 3 months (yes I know it sounds short but if I could elaborate more... a whole lot happened in thoes months and so much time got spent together) and then he realizes he still not entirely over feelings for his ex among the other issues he had in his life. ... Yeah... I wish I was in your shoes right now cause this blows.