I know what virgins want

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    Oct 11, 2011 3:04 AM GMT
    Sike! I don't :p

    So to those of you who are virgins, what would your ideal be? Getting with a guy who was also a virgin or someone experienced?

    And to those who are celibate and haven't had sex in at least a month, what changed? What would it take to make you sexually active again?
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    Oct 13, 2011 1:13 AM GMT
    Well getting with a guy who's experienced is challenging, cuz you kind of have to outdo his previous partners to satisfy him. Or if you're lucky, he patiently teaches you.

    When it's virgin with virgin, it's cool, cuz we both are exploring together and there's less chance of disappointing the other. But the chances of finding another virgin usually is very hard.
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    Jan 17, 2012 2:22 AM GMT
    Well I'm a virgin, and I would never sleep with someone else that isn't. I choose to be one because I think sex and love are very closely related, and because I want to save it for someone that I'm really in love with. I wouldn't be able to give myself to someone that wasn't able to wait for me the way I waited for them.
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    Jan 17, 2012 2:28 AM GMT
    jerarimong saidWell I'm a virgin, and I would never sleep with someone else that isn't. I choose to be one because I think sex and love are very closely related, and because I want to save it for someone that I'm really in love with. I wouldn't be able to give myself to someone that wasn't able to wait for me the way I waited for them.


    I give you a year or two before you realize how silly this is. Being in love has nothing to do with who the other guy slept with in his past. And virginity is not this BIG special flower you save for The One. It's a physical, beautiful thing between two people. Yeah, it's better with love - it always will be. Just don't qualify love and build expectations around it. Love is strange and weird and not at all like you expect.
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    Jan 17, 2012 2:35 AM GMT
    jerarimong saidWell I'm a virgin, and I would never sleep with someone else that isn't. I choose to be one because I think sex and love are very closely related, and because I want to save it for someone that I'm really in love with. I wouldn't be able to give myself to someone that wasn't able to wait for me the way I waited for them.


    Ok so on the off chance you meet this guy and he deflowers you..say a year down the road he fucks off on you. Then what?
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    Jan 17, 2012 2:36 AM GMT
    I'd cry to myself if the last person I slept with was the first. Sorry but I'm curious as other sexual experiences and I would hate to just have one for the rest of my life.
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    Jan 17, 2012 2:36 AM GMT
    well then he shit outta luck brooski dudeski
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    Jan 17, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
    Are we talking booty virgin (as in, never bottomed) or overall virgin?
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    Jan 17, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
    beneful1 said
    jerarimong saidWell I'm a virgin, and I would never sleep with someone else that isn't. I choose to be one because I think sex and love are very closely related, and because I want to save it for someone that I'm really in love with. I wouldn't be able to give myself to someone that wasn't able to wait for me the way I waited for them.


    Ok so on the off chance you meet this guy and he deflowers you..say a year down the road he fucks off on you. Then what?


    haha, this thread has gotten dark and twisted quick! hahahahahaha icon_eek.gif
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    Jan 17, 2012 2:46 AM GMT
    I'm only one because the opportunity hasn't come up yet, having been semi- in the closet, and overweight until recently. Not waiting for "the one" or anything. I think I'd prefer somebody who doesn't have a whole lot of experience, at least with guys, so we can be on an even playing ground and not have to worry about my own lack of experience and how it will affect the situation.
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    Jan 17, 2012 2:51 AM GMT
    closer85 saidAre we talking booty virgin (as in, never bottomed) or overall virgin?


    If we're talking about oral or handjobs virgins, then that is another thread. LOL..booty virgins...LOL!
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    Jan 17, 2012 3:25 AM GMT
    huhwhat said
    closer85 saidAre we talking booty virgin (as in, never bottomed) or overall virgin?


    If we're talking about oral or handjobs virgins, then that is another thread. LOL..booty virgins...LOL!


    What about petting, heavy petting..oooooh...
  • Tyinstl

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    Jan 17, 2012 3:30 AM GMT
    As someone who saved his virginity for his first boyfriend, I understand.

    But if you wait, you will probably not be very good at sex (especially oral) when you do find your boyfriend. If it were me, I'd appreciate your being good at sex more than you saving it for me. But either way is good, whatever you feel comfortable with.
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    Jan 17, 2012 3:37 AM GMT
    It ultimately doesn't matter to me how experienced he is at sex. What matters most to me is finding someone who I know really well, and they know me, and I'm really relaxed around. When I tried hook ups, they generally didn't go well because I was nervous around people who were essentially strangers. The way to my penis (and ass) is through my heart. icon_redface.gif
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    Jan 17, 2012 3:51 AM GMT
    Scotticus saidThe way to my penis (and ass) is through my heart. icon_redface.gif


    A true romantic.