Your opinion of guys with public adult photos

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    Oct 11, 2011 8:47 AM GMT
    How does a guy having public nude and/or adult photos of himself on his profile affect your impression of him? Some people are shocked that I have public adult photos up given my stance on gym cruising etc., so I just was wondering y'all's take on the issue of adult photos.

    in b4 "I only judge only if his dick is big" blah blah blah. I'm talking the psychological and moral judgments you make about *him* based on the photos, not the drool factor.
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    Oct 11, 2011 8:56 AM GMT
    I don't really judge, it's their body and they should feel free to show it however they like (and Gawd bless 'em!) icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 11, 2011 11:09 AM GMT
    They're going to fucking hell, goddamn it! icon_mad.gif
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    Oct 11, 2011 11:13 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidThey're going to fucking hell, goddamn it! icon_mad.gif

    Only if they have ugly bodies
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    Oct 11, 2011 11:16 AM GMT
    Well if I think they are cute and then I see those picture I immediately lose almost all interest altogether. I just don't see them as someone I would want to get to know on -that- level anymore. I'll still chat with them on friendly level, though!
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    Oct 11, 2011 11:16 AM GMT
    waimea said
    paulflexes saidThey're going to fucking hell, goddamn it! icon_mad.gif

    Only if they have ugly bodies
    True...
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    Oct 11, 2011 11:42 AM GMT
    I agree with Pure.
    It's their body, so they're allowed to have the world and others view it as they please.
    I don't think anything's really wrong with it. Hell, I have even done it before.
    However I stopped, since I soon realized once someone sees that image of you PUBLICALLY, it sort of changes the way they view you.
    But in our lifestyle, that's one of the natural cases that makes and breaks us. We're just men. We're sexual creatures. Some moreso than others.
    So they can do what they want, as long as they're ready for what might come of it.
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    Oct 11, 2011 11:43 AM GMT
    It ain't my bidness and it is up to them. Me personally i keep my stuff on lockdown
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    Oct 11, 2011 11:45 AM GMT
    Edward22 saidIt ain't my bidness and it is up to them. Me personally i keep my stuff on lockdown

    It certainly beats a baby picture.
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    Oct 11, 2011 11:46 AM GMT
    FrostedFlakes saidHow does a guy having public nude and/or adult photos of himself on his profile affect your impression of him? Some people are shocked that I have public adult photos up given my stance on gym cruising etc., so I just was wondering y'all's take on the issue of adult photos.

    in b4 "I only judge only if his dick is big" blah blah blah. I'm talking the psychological and moral judgments you make about *him* based on the photos, not the drool factor.


    It never comes into my mental image of the person, I look at the whole of the person, the profile, the posts on the board if any and the way he poses in his photos says tons about him. I personally worry about the judgmental ones more because those usually are the ones who shouldn't matter but feel its their duty as "moral" people to point out your "flaws" because you post adult photos icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:28 PM GMT
    No judgements from me. But I'm a slight exhibitionist anyway and can't judge. If u wanna see me necked u can ask and I have no problems unlocking for ya lol.


    There are many prudes (or those that pretend to b prude over the internet) on this site. It's just Dick and ass, we all have them and some are definitely worth showing off. Either way its this cultural stigma that makes us ashamed, and we shouldn't b ashamed.


    Now if the profile only has Dick shots that's another story and an instant turn off.



    Also now I know frosted has naked pics. Bet they r hot, gotta go check them out icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:32 PM GMT
    Frosted ur pics are hot, but hardly adult pics. More like pg-13 than r rated.
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:32 PM GMT
    It's only an ethical/moral/standards question for the person posting them, in terms of how he feels about himself and how he plans to represent himself. Others may have notions of propriety that make them turn their noses, but they should do well to remember that those notions/standards are their own, and not all. A good comparison might be that such behavior is akin to the Christian right's rush to judgement on everything. In their haste to assert their superiority, they often forget that not everyone believes as they do. Worse, they don't understand that in a moral world, that's actually ok.
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:36 PM GMT
    they are adult. So why not? If you have it, show it off. You wont have it forever.
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:37 PM GMT
    Well... I would never... its just something for someone to hold over you should they ever find them.... but, to each their own i suppose... It's their body they can do what they want with it...
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:39 PM GMT
    At the end of the day we are all sexual creatures... with varying levels of expression.

    and we are all judgmental - with varying levels of cuntiness toward those whom we judge, even if words are never spoken or thoughts turned to actions.

    Some of us just have more issues than others when it comes to dealing with where these two things meet.

    I am far from having a great body, but I am happy with the progress I've made, and I don't mind sharing that - in an appropriate time, manner, and place.

    If folks judge me as some kind of slutbag from Planet Ho for a few nekkid pics... well, they can go eat a dick for all I care.
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:41 PM GMT
    Kudos to them. We're all nude underneath our clothes, and if you're comfortable sharing the photos, I'm comfortable in viewing them.icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:41 PM GMT
    I try not to be judgemental and it depends on the picture... sometimes it can generate interest or curiosity if done correctly... and it can be tasteful.

    ....at least I think that way with use of towels....LOL LOL

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    Oct 11, 2011 1:42 PM GMT
    I equate it to naturist or nudist..If they like being Neckid let them be Neckid!
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:51 PM GMT
    I don't judge if they are super hot (judge me). But after a few minutes of intense staring I will inevitably begin to feel that the guy, however hot, is a little too self-degrading. Hypocritical, I know, but I can't help my brain from thinking that way!
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:52 PM GMT
    That's why it's called "ADULT." If you're a fucking prude, don't click on it. Problem solved.
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:57 PM GMT
    I like to look at them icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:57 PM GMT
    TheChrisGuy saidI don't judge if they are super hot (judge me). But after a few minutes of intense staring I will inevitably begin to feel that the guy, however hot, is a little too self-degrading. Hypocritical, I know, but I can't help my brain from thinking that way!



    "Gotta broaden those perspectives."
    Sound familiar? icon_rolleyes.gif
  • shanpayne

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    Oct 11, 2011 1:58 PM GMT
    I think it says "come lets have sex". It's like open invitation, however, at same time I think little teasing is kewl.
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    Oct 11, 2011 1:59 PM GMT
    horned_frog saidI like to look at them icon_smile.gif


    you dont have any icon_neutral.gif